Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:Some people sleep in their underwear. Remember, it was OP who climbed in HIS bed. OP, I think you are craving older male attention. You need to leave this cousin alone before you get him in trouble.

and this is why victims get blamed. because of crummy people like you. OP was NINE YEARS OLD. she in no way "asked" for inappropriate behavior from an ADULT.

i seriously hope you are a troll.

Totally agree. And in addition to this, the bolded above is false: OP stated that her parents found him in her bed in his underwear. OP, there are a bunch o' red flags here, don't understand why you'd want a relationship w/ this person as an adult.

Anonymous wrote:Some people sleep in their underwear. Remember, it was OP who climbed in HIS bed. OP, I think you are craving older male attention. You need to leave this cousin alone before you get him in trouble.

and this is why victims get blamed. because of crummy people like you. OP was NINE YEARS OLD. she in no way "asked" for inappropriate behavior from an ADULT.

i seriously hope you are a troll.

OP, maybe he made you feel special, maybe he engaged you in a way that most adults don't. this was all probably very gratifying (understandably) and this is why it is easy for kids to be abused. He may not have technically sexually abused you, but what he was doing was not normal. I used to work with people with pedophelia and ephebophelia at a hospital and often they spoke of their own situations of being groomed as young people and they too always said how great it was, etc.

He wasn't snuggling up to me. He was lying in my bed telling me stories.

Tomato, tomahto. Either way dude would be speaking in a higher octave the next morning.