Anonymous wrote:Some of the posters seem really hostile here. Not sure why the mere mention of the word "Holton" causes so much unrest. If you don't like the school -- why are you continuing to come to this thread? Weird. Maybe you have an old axe to grind? I know when my kid didn't get into Sidwell -- I thought it sucked...I certainly didn't tear the school down on an anonymous post like some folks here.
Anonymous wrote:Some of the posters seem really hostile here. Not sure why the mere mention of the word "Holton" causes so much unrest. If you don't like the school -- why are you continuing to come to this thread? Weird. Maybe you have an old axe to grind? I know when my kid didn't get into Sidwell -- I thought it sucked...I certainly didn't tear the school down on an anonymous post like some folks here.
Anonymous wrote:How to explain this. If some PPs say they find Holton boosterism childish and annoying, it's probably because this is what they actually think and feel. It doesn't even really matter why they think this. Whether PPs think Holton is trying to improve its reputation by manipulating social media. Or PPs think DCUM is an inappropriate outlet for school "spirit" aka boosterism that should be confined to the Holton listserve. Or PPs notice that not a single other school engages in the sort of boosterism you see from Holton parents, and they don't want to see DCUM turn into war between cheerleaders for different privates, to the point where we're tripping over threads about Brit Hume and Sidwell. Or PPs suspect the school wants to increase applications and lower its admissions rates. Or whatnot. It's irrelevant why PPs find all the boosterism annoying.
The fact remains, plenty of posters have written they find the boosters annoying. Telling these PPs to seek professional help is the absolute wrong way to solve this problem, because the concerns described above are perfectly reasonable and you just look like a jerk. Reassessing the boosterism is the way to solve this problem.
Anonymous wrote:For those of you who think that the opinions of some folks on DCUM are going to hurt Holton. I invite you to check out an Open House or one of the weekly group tours. There you will see first-hand just how many girls are interested in Holton despite the alleged” Boosterism.” Trust me; Holton is not affected by the bitter minority that hoovers on DCUM looking to call out people who express pride in Holton.
Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:How to explain this. If some PPs say they find Holton boosterism childish and annoying, it's probably because this is what they actually think and feel. It doesn't even really matter why they think this. Whether PPs think Holton is trying to improve its reputation by manipulating social media. Or PPs think DCUM is an inappropriate outlet for school "spirit" aka boosterism that should be confined to the Holton listserve. Or PPs notice that not a single other school engages in the sort of boosterism you see from Holton parents, and they don't want to see DCUM turn into war between cheerleaders for different privates, to the point where we're tripping over threads about Brit Hume and Sidwell. Or PPs suspect the school wants to increase applications and lower its admissions rates. Or whatnot. It's irrelevant why PPs find all the boosterism annoying.
The fact remains, plenty of posters have written they find the boosters annoying. Telling these PPs to seek professional help is the absolute wrong way to solve this problem, because the concerns described above are perfectly reasonable and you just look like a jerk. Reassessing the boosterism is the way to solve this problem.
Not sure how you know what plenty of people think - for all we know you may be posting multiple messages here. The term "boosterism" itself is a bit jerk like - if you ask me. There is another alternative to the false choice between censorship and the end of DCUM as we know it - how about you ignore threads that bother you?
Anonymous wrote:How to explain this. If some PPs say they find Holton boosterism childish and annoying, it's probably because this is what they actually think and feel. It doesn't even really matter why they think this. Whether PPs think Holton is trying to improve its reputation by manipulating social media. Or PPs think DCUM is an inappropriate outlet for school "spirit" aka boosterism that should be confined to the Holton listserve. Or PPs notice that not a single other school engages in the sort of boosterism you see from Holton parents, and they don't want to see DCUM turn into war between cheerleaders for different privates, to the point where we're tripping over threads about Brit Hume and Sidwell. Or PPs suspect the school wants to increase applications and lower its admissions rates. Or whatnot. It's irrelevant why PPs find all the boosterism annoying.
The fact remains, plenty of posters have written they find the boosters annoying. Telling these PPs to seek professional help is the absolute wrong way to solve this problem, because the concerns described above are perfectly reasonable and you just look like a jerk. Reassessing the boosterism is the way to solve this problem.
Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:Wow...what a bunch of HATERS on this thread! Why would any normal, rational adult resort to bashing kids who are being praised for academic excellence? Go Holton...keep up the good work girls!
You missed the point. The issue is, why would any normal, rational adult resort to constant boosterism on DCUM? Nobody begrudges the Holton girls. They begrudge the parents who keep running to DCUM to plug trivial things like Emmy appearances.
It's called School Pride. I'm sorry that you have never experienced it. School Pride is huge at Holton...if it bothers you so much stop opening the thread and just move on.
Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:Wow...what a bunch of HATERS on this thread! Why would any normal, rational adult resort to bashing kids who are being praised for academic excellence? Go Holton...keep up the good work girls!
You missed the point. The issue is, why would any normal, rational adult resort to constant boosterism on DCUM? Nobody begrudges the Holton girls. They begrudge the parents who keep running to DCUM to plug trivial things like Emmy appearances.
Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:Wow...what a bunch of HATERS on this thread! Why would any normal, rational adult resort to bashing kids who are being praised for academic excellence? Go Holton...keep up the good work girls!
You missed the point. The issue is, why would any normal, rational adult resort to constant boosterism on DCUM? Nobody begrudges the Holton girls. They begrudge the parents who keep running to DCUM to plug trivial things like Emmy appearances.
Why are you so bothered by what you see as "boosterism?" You may need professional help to understand that. I'm not kidding.