Anonymous wrote:He will not change. Enjoy the companionship or move on.

it's been 12 years so guessing the OP is not here to listen to your sage advice

Anonymous wrote:What does emotionally distant actually mean or look like. People are tossing out the terms but what does that mean in a relationship?

Google it. It's not that hard.

A “popular” girl I went to high school with is some mega self help guru. She’s a total fraud and a narcissist but people eat this crap up!

What does emotionally distant actually mean or look like. People are tossing out the terms but what does that mean in a relationship?

I'm emotional distant and every woman I have dated eventually broke up with me. And I don't blame them. I think this is a deal breaker for a lot of women. Think of it this way. If you are emotionally distant, who will they turn to if they need emotional support? Your dog?

I don't plan to change. Therefore, being in a serious relationship is not an option and will never be one.

It's important for anyone to know themselves. I didn't know I was so emotionally distant until my 3rd serious relationship ended and being emotionally distant was the common denominator in all breakup.

He will not change. Enjoy the companionship or move on.