Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:I suspect that the operative terms are men and women: <insert colour here> men find <insert colour here> women attractive/desirable/interesting/spouse material. Individuals vary, en masse, not really.
I agree. I find a lot of black women very attractive, but god help you if you want to date one. You had better be black or they are not going to even say hello.
Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:I suspect that the operative terms are men and women: <insert colour here> men find <insert colour here> women attractive/desirable/interesting/spouse material. Individuals vary, en masse, not really.
I agree. I find a lot of black women very attractive, but god help you if you want to date one. You had better be black or they are not going to even say hello.
Anonymous wrote:I suspect that the operative terms are men and women: <insert colour here> men find <insert colour here> women attractive/desirable/interesting/spouse material. Individuals vary, en masse, not really.

Anonymous wrote:Why do you assume she wouldn't date you?
Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:I think that men tend to believe black women are high maintenance. i.e.: won't go swimming, preoccupied with their hair, etc.
You would need to find one that has a high maintenance mother, then they would be used to it.
I am not high maintenance (white), and DHs mom is a farm girl. I am anything but, however not by any means high maintenance. i.e.: I shower every day, his mother did not believe in it.
ITA that most white men with money would not pay for the weaves or hair extensions or hair maintenance.
I don't think you know very many white men with money. They'll certainly pay for boob jobs, botox, gym membership and lipo, why not weaves or extensions?