DH kisses my a$$ every morning. He then does other things. 😈

Maybe a peck on the cheek on occasion but an actual romantic kiss, no not in years. We are sexually dead losers in our 40s.

I try to.

Anonymous wrote:No. But we can't stand each other.

+1

I haven't kissed my husband in months, probably, other than the occasional meaningless peck on the cheek.

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Anonymous wrote:Thanks everyone. For those calling me a nutcase - my husband cheated on me in the past and I haven't completely gotten over the insecurity it left me with. That's why I'm ultra sensitive.

This is why I could never stay with my wife if she cheated on me. Living with paranoia? No thanks.

OP here. Yes I know. But what happened is I got pregnant during that time when I was giving us a second chance. It really shouldn't have been medically possible. I love my baby dd so I will never regret having her, but it made my decision somewhat difficult.

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Anonymous wrote:Thanks everyone. For those calling me a nutcase - my husband cheated on me in the past and I haven't completely gotten over the insecurity it left me with. That's why I'm ultra sensitive.

This is why I could never stay with my wife if she cheated on me. Living with paranoia? No thanks.

That is probably one of the hardest things about salvaging a relationship after an affair. The partner that was cheated on has to forgive and be almost naive about the amount of trust that is given back to the partner that cheated. However the person who cheated has to understand they have been given this trust and did nothing to earn it. They have to treat that trust extremely gently and make certain to not even look as if anything inappropriate is going on.

Anonymous wrote:Thanks everyone. For those calling me a nutcase - my husband cheated on me in the past and I haven't completely gotten over the insecurity it left me with. That's why I'm ultra sensitive.

This is why I could never stay with my wife if she cheated on me. Living with paranoia? No thanks.