Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:OP here. Actually, I'm a really low-needs patient. I had an epidural for my first and don't particularly care about the whole "birth experience" (fine for those who do), don't have a million question, don't need my hand held, etc. I just want to be called when I'm waiting for test results!!! And not have a rude sonographer.
I"m sorry, but I still think you are being overly sensitive.
So you had to call back a few times for test results. Big deal. They are not sitting around all day, waiting to reach you, their one patient of the hour. And I question whether this sonographer was really "rude" or just brusque, factual, and trying to stay on schedule for a very busy day. They don't have time for chit chat and it is not their job to make you feel happy.
Uh ok. She was the one who breezed in saying, "so why are you here today?"
DH and I looked at each other like, huh? Aren't you supposed to know that? I'm not looking for chit chat either, just competence. And if they can't get the NT results in the time frame that their own employees tell patients (she told me twice that I would have results by the end of the day).... then don't tell me that!
This is exactly what I mean, OP! You ARE a PITA if you expect every person that you encounter at a health care practice to be up on your issues, 100%. No, s/he most likely did NOT know exactly why you needed a sonogram, all the details. I bet the sonographer actually looked at your chart and quickly figured it out, though, before proceeding. "Hi, good morning, what brings you here today" is a very standard line by many doctors/ health care providers. Do you think they actually sit around and study up on your case, before you show up? And by the way, if this is what you're expecting from doctors, you have a big shock ahead in dealing with pediatricians.
Maybe this is reasonable at a big practice, that you can't expect them to be 100% up to speed on your issues. But my experience with a solo practitioner is quite the opposite. Every time my OB or a nurse comes in, they know who I am, what my issues are (if any), long wait times are VERY rare, and I get prompt, personal phone calls with test results or in response to a question that I may have called in.
That being said, my OB does not take my insurance. Which really sucks. I am paying a premium for excellent care, and I don't think people should have to do that. But when I read about people's frustrations with large practices...I feel good about my choice.
I think the bottom line, as many others have already noted, is that you DO have choices, and if a practice isn't up to your standard -- keep looking.