Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:This is kind of funny because I am half Jewish (raised Jewish) and we joke about this all the time. My mother is a real offender of this and every time we call her out on it, she raises her hands up and says laughing "hey I am Jewish" so anyone who wants to pretend Jewish women don't do this is drinking too much koolaid. No offense meant, we just like checking out and appreciating well put together people.

Thank you for your candidness. Much appreciated.

Reading this thread for the first time, it's disheartening to see the "anti-Semite card" thrown around this way. Do they even know what it means? Or is it simply used as an effective tool to silence any question or critique?

Here's the problem, as I see it. There's a fundamental difference between saying to yourself "Oh, I do that, and yes, I happen to be Jewish" and saying to yourself "I do that, and it is because I am Jewish and it is a distinct and integral part of my Jewish religion that all Jews participate in." Who cares if posters on this thread do this and they happen to be Jewish? That's not proof of anything, and that's why the "anti-Semite card" gets thrown around. It's when casual characteristics get over-attributed to the fact that people are Jewish that yes, anti-Semitism rears its ugly head.

Interesting response. Thank you. Acknowledging the fact that rigorous debate is normally a welcome intellectual activity among educated Jews (as well as many other religious and ethnic groups), why is it "anti-semetism" to share and discuss one's experiences?

I suspect if you felt personally complimented by another person's experiences or observations, it wouldn't be a problem for you.

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:I want to add that I am Jewish and this is absolutely NOT true. It's anti semetic. It isn't cute. It isn't funny. Antisemetism is upsetting so sorry if I won't relaaaaaaaax.

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Please explain your use of "anti-semetic".

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:This is kind of funny because I am half Jewish (raised Jewish) and we joke about this all the time. My mother is a real offender of this and every time we call her out on it, she raises her hands up and says laughing "hey I am Jewish" so anyone who wants to pretend Jewish women don't do this is drinking too much koolaid. No offense meant, we just like checking out and appreciating well put together people.

Thank you for your candidness. Much appreciated.

Reading this thread for the first time, it's disheartening to see the "anti-Semite card" thrown around this way. Do they even know what it means? Or is it simply used as an effective tool to silence any question or critique?

Here's the problem, as I see it. There's a fundamental difference between saying to yourself "Oh, I do that, and yes, I happen to be Jewish" and saying to yourself "I do that, and it is because I am Jewish and it is a distinct and integral part of my Jewish religion that all Jews participate in." Who cares if posters on this thread do this and they happen to be Jewish? That's not proof of anything, and that's why the "anti-Semite card" gets thrown around. It's when casual characteristics get over-attributed to the fact that people are Jewish that yes, anti-Semitism rears its ugly head.

Anonymous wrote:I want to add that I am Jewish and this is absolutely NOT true. It's anti semetic. It isn't cute. It isn't funny. Antisemetism is upsetting so sorry if I won't relaaaaaaaax.

+1

Anonymous wrote:This is kind of funny because I am half Jewish (raised Jewish) and we joke about this all the time. My mother is a real offender of this and every time we call her out on it, she raises her hands up and says laughing "hey I am Jewish" so anyone who wants to pretend Jewish women don't do this is drinking too much koolaid. No offense meant, we just like checking out and appreciating well put together people.

Thank you for your candidness. Much appreciated.

Reading this thread for the first time, it's disheartening to see the "anti-Semite card" thrown around this way. Do they even know what it means? Or is it simply used as an effective tool to silence any question or critique?

This is kind of funny because I am half Jewish (raised Jewish) and we joke about this all the time. My mother is a real offender of this and every time we call her out on it, she raises her hands up and says laughing "hey I am Jewish" so anyone who wants to pretend Jewish women don't do this is drinking too much koolaid. No offense meant, we just like checking out and appreciating well put together people.

This is ridiculous. Everyone is just posting anecdotal evidence of people in their lives. Death by gossip.

FYI - all the judgy women I have seen in my life are low class. Which is why they are judgy. Wealthy women don't care what the next person is up to, really. I think it has less to do with religion and most to do with class.

I can't believe not a single person responded, "because you are funny looking."

Do you really think its just Jewish women? I have to admit my college roommate was Jewish and was a horrible offender of this but in fairness, I am sure other races do it too?

No matter who does it it is very very rude.

So funny! I have always thought this too. Thought maybe it was my imagination but I guess i am not alone. Its not the biggest deal but I do find it kind of invasive.

I think some are being overly sensitive and touchy. I will say this.

I work in fashion. I have noticed over the years that yes a lot of women do this Most have a more assertive type of personality. Which is why they would comfortable doing this to begin with. Not all are Jewish but I would say most are. It is not meant to be exploitative in any way just an observation on my part.

It would be like people saying Italian girls are so loud and always flailing their hands when they speak, I know not all do it but yes many do. I am Italian and would not be offended. Not a big deal people, stop being so oversensitive!

I want to add that I am Jewish and this is absolutely NOT true. It's anti semetic. It isn't cute. It isn't funny. Antisemetism is upsetting so sorry if I won't relaaaaaaaax.

Anonymous wrote:OMG.This is so silly! I am JEWISH AND PROUD. But yes I will tell you unequivocally, it is more prevalent ABSOLUTELY for Jewish women to do this than non Jews. It is not earth shattering but a fact, just ask anyone who lives in a big city. My mom is someone who does this, she thinks its funny...me, not so much. I personally find it assertive and rude. So be it.If its the worse thing that someone is..they are lucky.

Everyone take a chill pill and relaaaaax.

You are Jewish and should be very ashamed for spreading garbage like this. I'm guessing you have a very weak Jewish education and were never active in any Jewish youth groups growing up, never went to Jewish summer camps. A Jew who is educated about being a Jew would not spout the crap that you are spewing.

Good point above, class but definitely I would say more Jewish women do this than not. Just sayin