6 months exclusively, and then slowly dropped feedings until about 9 months and went to formula.

Mostly hated it and continued out of guilt and obligation. I'm pregnant with #2 and am planning to do it again, but not to push myself quite as hard this time if I'm similarly miserable.

4 kids. BF all of them past 2 years old except #1 who self weaned at 14 months. I never had any trouble breastfeeding. They were all super latchers, never got mastitis or thrush, clog ducts, biting... so it was convenient and cheap. I work part time so I only needed to pump when they were tiny. After that I could feed them before I left and again when I returned.
Periods came back for all of them at around 15 months post partum.

2.5 years old for each

was just hoping for a year each time, but each time we had no issues and kept going

first period ~7-8 months pp each time, a month or so after starting solids

Anonymous wrote:Those who nursed 6 mths plus, did you get your monthly periods?

I got my period at 5 months. Continued breastfeeding and pumping until 14 months and then dropped the pumping. DS (20 mo) still nurses in the morning and evenings and doesn't like cow milk.

3.5 years. Stopped pumping after a year.

We made it to 12 months nursing at home and pumping at work for daycare. then I quit pumping at the 1 year mark and introduced whole milk- nursed at night for anther few weeks. Completely weaned by 13 months.

Plan is the same for #2.

4 kids. A full year (nursing and pumping) for the first three, and nine months in on #4 with plans to make it to a year.

My first kid was born in June 2006. It feels like I've been perpetually pregnant or nursing since then. October 2013 is going to feel amazingly freeing - no more babies, no more pumping! Sadly, no more nice rack either, but so it goes. Four pregnancies puts a lot of wear on a body!

20 months, but my period came back at 9 months.

2 years three months.
My goal was one year. Once I met that goal, I decided to just keep going.
I worked full-time and pumped at work until the kid was about one and a half. After that we just nursed nights and weekends.
Nursing a toddler (who is getting solids) is so different than a newborn.

Twin mom here - 8 miserable weeks.

I would love to do it for longer with a singleton if I were to ever have one, but I got sick of being stark naked all the time.

13 months. My period didn't come back until we stopped breastfeeding.

10:58 here - I got my period back at like 3 months postpartum. BOO! You'd think for all that nursing I could have enjoyed a long break, but, it was not to be.

About three years! I never thought I'd go so long, when I was pregnant with my first, I aimed for at least six months and decided to absolutely forgive myself if I had to use formula. I never expected breastfeeding to be as rewarding and important to both of us as it was. By the time three / four / five / six months had passed, breastfeeding was just so easy for us (there was a learning curve at first, but I didn't have major trouble) and pumping wasn't awful (I work). When we approached a year, there seemed to be no reason to stop - DS wasn't big on solids and my pediatrician happened to mention he was glad we were still breastfeeding, and that may have influenced some, but things were just working and two years, which WHO holds out as the gold standard, seemed like an easy enough target, though I did quit pumping just after a year, and we just nursed when we were around one another. By 20 / 22 months (between 1 1/2 and 2 years of age - forget exactly when), I did make an effort to stop breastfeeding in public - more out of deference to other people's comfort levels with seeing an older baby nursing but also because I was just ready to stop nursing on demand. We did this by just telling my toddler "when we get home you can nurse" or "not yet." He did great with this. Before two years of age, we were down to two nursing sessions, upon wake up and just before bed. Long before two I'd stopped offering, just willingly let him nurse when he wanted to nurse. Sometime around 2.5 years of age, he stopped asking occasionally, and we'd have a few days where he would not nurse at night. (Always wanted it in the morning). Closer to three, we talked about nursing and how he wouldn't do it forever. He asked why, and I told him that nursing was mostly for babies and really small kids. I was also saying this because we were pregnant with my second, and I wanted him to understand that baby got first dibs, because babies NEED to nurse and it was the only food they could eat so they always got to go first, etc. Some people say that in pregnancy your milk dries up, I don't think this happened to us, but still, the talk about babies nursing seemed to impact my son, and one night he said "let's skip the nursing, that's mostly for babies." This was a few weeks after his third birthday. So is said "okay! we'll read an extra story and snuggle up instead." And that's what we did. There were maybe one or two more nights where he asked to nurse after that, which I allowed, and he nursed for like a minute. He seemed to be just reassuring himself that if he really needed it, he wasn't completely cut off. After a few weeks, he was done. So that was about six months ago or so.

I would not change a thing with how it went with that one. I'm not sure I will nurse as long with number two. It all depends on his / her personality, how I'm feeling about it, etc. I can see if my first had been more into solid foods earlier, how we would have started the whole process of gradual weaning a bit sooner. It was important to me to feel like I was responding to his needs, not setting the pace myself, though I realize that I did encourage him to wean (I've read that kids won't really wean on their own until like four years or so!). I didn't want to go that long. I don't judge that one bit, but it wasn't for me. Three was close enough!

I know a lot of people will be squicked out by my story of how long we nursed, and I'm okay with that. I probably would have felt the same way before I had my actual child! So my advice to you OP is to be open to whatever works for you and your child. I'd say that would include supplementing, nursing for a short period of time, or going the long haul. You just never know what will end up working well for your family!

Good luck.

2.5 years for DS1 and tandem nursed for about 6 months of that. Definitely did not see that coming. Got my period back around 7 months. EBF until he started solids around 6 months. Pumped at work until he was a little over a year, then just nursed when we were together. The first about 6-8 weeks were very hard (painful) but got through it and then it was easy.

22 months for DD2. Got my period back around 5 months. Very different child and she weaned with just a little bit of assistance. Also EBF until she started solids around 6 months. Also pumped at work until she was about a year and then just nursed when we were together.

DD#1 - 6 months
DD#2 - 4 months (goal was to do 6 months again but I was ill, and had no milk)