Anonymous wrote:I will probably retire in my 60's, 70's depending on how my health is. I will work as long as I am capable whether it is PT or FT.
My kids will be in their 30's. We plan to pay for college and grad school. We have sons so we hope that the brides pay for the wedding but sure, we'd chip in. I would not work extra to pay for a wedding but we should be able to pay for it pretty easily.
I think we would need $20k/month to live comfortably in retirement. I haven't done my calculation recently but I think we need about $5-6 million saved. That is how much our life insurance policy is for because that is what we calculated it to be.
Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:My husband will retire at 55 (Fed mandatory for his job). I work part-time.
We are 46, so we have 9 more years. Our kids will be 32, 29, 28, 26, and 21.
I doubt we will just stop. I think my DH will take on some contract work and I'll continue to work part-time.
We moved to our retirement location about three years ago. We are already setting the stage!
You had a kid when you were 14?
No, she married a guy who had a kid when she was 14.
He's 46 also.
Anonymous wrote:My plan is to retire when we have 4M to 5M in retirement assets. Need a min of 2.5 to maintain our lifestyle/not feel like a slave. Now we have 1.2 and we are 43. Will retire or try to get flexible jobs in our late 50's. I've worked like a dog my whole life. I would like to watch grandkids. My kids will be close to 30. Mortgage should be paid off in 3 years with extra payments) 6 without. Saved enough so that both kids could go to college in state without loan. If they get into an Ivy, it would be hard. No plans to help with graduate school now except live with us for free etc. Wedding I will give them money and they can choose how to spend it.
Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:My husband will retire at 55 (Fed mandatory for his job). I work part-time.
We are 46, so we have 9 more years. Our kids will be 32, 29, 28, 26, and 21.
I doubt we will just stop. I think my DH will take on some contract work and I'll continue to work part-time.
We moved to our retirement location about three years ago. We are already setting the stage!
You had a kid when you were 14?
No, she married a guy who had a kid when she was 14.
Anonymous wrote: Need a min of 2.5 to maintain our lifestyle/not feel like a slave.
Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:We're saving plenty but full retirement just doesn't sound very satisfying to me right now. I work part-time at a paid job and do a lot of volunteering in the community and with the kids and it seems like a balance I could keep up with forever as long as my health permits.
My sister, in contrast, hates her job but makes a lot of money and is just going to push on through and retire as early as humanly possible and then start enjoying life. Two different options.
Have you ever worked full time since having kids? I've worked full time for 23 years (my oldest child is 14) and though I don't hate my job by any stretch, I'll be more than ready to have more free time by age 62.
Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:My husband will retire at 55 (Fed mandatory for his job). I work part-time.
We are 46, so we have 9 more years. Our kids will be 32, 29, 28, 26, and 21.
I doubt we will just stop. I think my DH will take on some contract work and I'll continue to work part-time.
We moved to our retirement location about three years ago. We are already setting the stage!
You had a kid when you were 14?
No, she married a guy who had a kid when she was 14.