Anonymous
Post 04/25/2017 07:41     Subject: Re:Preference for older/mature women?
Anonymous wrote:
PP, the men were the same age as your friend which equals a relationship, and they likely saw her advertising for that, while you were a potential hookup.


Is that supposed to be a burn? To which party?
Anonymous
Post 04/25/2017 07:09     Subject: Re:Preference for older/mature women?
Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:Not to burst Your bubble, but it's because
Many of these men are lazy. They know older Women are an easy lay because they come
Across desperate yet eager. They also like the low drama. I knew a guy like this and he was a total jerk. He admitted the women were ugly and not hot, but he was just interested in sex. If you are okay with that and the sex is good I guess everyone wins.

Not to burst Your bubble, but I guarantee you I don't come Across [as] desperate.

I come across as closed off, indifferent, and entirely self sufficient. Because I am. I'd bet the other PPs who have FWBs are the same.

Once you've managed to extract yourself from a long marriage that's run its course, the last thing you spend your time doing is "desperate"ly grasping for another man to snare. Hint: we're "just interested in sex" too.

+2

One time I had a night out at a bar with a girlfriend 15 years my junior. She: looked hot, shortest mini, lots of cleavage, 5 inch heels, lots of makeup She looked hot! And looked like she was trying too hard. Me: fitted knee length dress, a hint of cleavage, natural makeup, 4 inch heels. I looked hot too but she looked hotter and I looked like I had put in little effort which is the look I prefer. For sure I looked a few years older than her but not 15...very few wrinkles and I'm thin and fit.

Funnily I didn't expect what happened that night but honestly not one man approached her, while several men approached me, most were around her age to early 30s. Some wanted to talk to me, some asked for my number (I didn't give it) and some wanted to dance with me. I had my pick of men but I had no interest in getting involved with a man and not even interested in sex because I would rather enjoy my freedom for now. So I just enjoyed the attention of the much younger men while my younger friend looked on. If you asked any of those men I'm sure they would say I looked self-assured and disinterested, not at all desperate while my much younger friend did appeare desperate.

Some older women do look hot, some look younger than their age and many look older. Don't knock women in the first two groups because you haven't met any.

PP, the men were the same age as your friend which equals a relationship, and they likely saw her advertising for that, while you were a potential hookup.
Anonymous
Post 04/25/2017 00:47     Subject: Preference for older/mature women?
I'm 62 and my wife is 46.
Anonymous
Post 04/24/2017 16:10     Subject: Re:Preference for older/mature women?
Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:Not to burst Your bubble, but it's because
Many of these men are lazy. They know older Women are an easy lay because they come
Across desperate yet eager. They also like the low drama. I knew a guy like this and he was a total jerk. He admitted the women were ugly and not hot, but he was just interested in sex. If you are okay with that and the sex is good I guess everyone wins.


Not to burst Your bubble, but I guarantee you I don't come Across [as] desperate.

I come across as closed off, indifferent, and entirely self sufficient. Because I am. I'd bet the other PPs who have FWBs are the same.

Once you've managed to extract yourself from a long marriage that's run its course, the last thing you spend your time doing is "desperate"ly grasping for another man to snare. Hint: we're "just interested in sex" too.






+2

One time I had a night out at a bar with a girlfriend 15 years my junior. She: looked hot, shortest mini, lots of cleavage, 5 inch heels, lots of makeup She looked hot! And looked like she was trying too hard. Me: fitted knee length dress, a hint of cleavage, natural makeup, 4 inch heels. I looked hot too but she looked hotter and I looked like I had put in little effort which is the look I prefer. For sure I looked a few years older than her but not 15...very few wrinkles and I'm thin and fit.

Funnily I didn't expect what happened that night but honestly not one man approached her, while several men approached me, most were around her age to early 30s. Some wanted to talk to me, some asked for my number (I didn't give it) and some wanted to dance with me. I had my pick of men but I had no interest in getting involved with a man and not even interested in sex because I would rather enjoy my freedom for now. So I just enjoyed the attention of the much younger men while my younger friend looked on. If you asked any of those men I'm sure they would say I looked self-assured and disinterested, not at all desperate while my much younger friend did appeare desperate.

Some older women do look hot, some look younger than their age and many look older. Don't knock women in the first two groups because you haven't met any.
Anonymous
Post 04/24/2017 11:01     Subject: Preference for older/mature women?
Anonymous wrote:I am 31 and have been attracted to older women since my early 20's. I most prefer anywhere from 40-60. Gray hair and sex appeal really gets my attention. I am like 12:46 in that I am happily married but swivel my head WAY more for older women than younger women. I like big women (DW is thick) too, so I told my wife that there is nothing but upside for her...lol.


You sound awesome!
Anonymous
Post 04/23/2017 14:54     Subject: Preference for older/mature women?
Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:I'm a shocked 36 year old reading this. Who knew.


You need to get out in the world. Despite all the threads that say that older women don't like sex (most of whom are married) there are a ton of older women who openly admit that they are horny and love the attention from younger men.


This is very true. I'm a 58 year old male and in the past six months have had two women in their mid-50's ask me out clearly for the purpose of having sex. Both had recently exited sexless marriages and sex was something they really missed. No fine wine and dining was required. Both actually apologized for their forwardness. I had known one of the women for about 15 years and never would have imagined that she was either so sex starved or could be that good in bed. I continue to be FWB with both of them. I'm sure they would prefer trying out a younger guy but they seem pretty satisfied with an old guy.
Anonymous
Post 04/23/2017 14:14     Subject: Preference for older/mature women?
Anonymous wrote:I'm a shocked 36 year old reading this. Who knew.


You need to get out in the world. Despite all the threads that say that older women don't like sex (most of whom are married) there are a ton of older women who openly admit that they are horny and love the attention from younger men.
Anonymous
Post 04/23/2017 13:13     Subject: Preference for older/mature women?
I'm a shocked 36 year old reading this. Who knew.
Anonymous
Post 04/23/2017 12:53     Subject: Re:Preference for older/mature women?
I'm a 38 year old divorced man and my parents live in a large retirement community in FL. They are early to bed people so when I visit I usually head out on my own to the local bars. The women I meet there are in their mid to late 50's and they are a pleasure to spend time with. They are very attractive, fun and within minutes they can be very direct about what they are interested in. The first time it happened I was very surprised and politely said no as older women were not my thing. But when it happened again I decided what the hell and went back to her place. Her energy and enthusiasm for sex was incredible. I've been with a few others just like her and they are all open and honest about what they want. While my preference is for women my own age, these older women are great.
Anonymous
Post 04/23/2017 11:30     Subject: Preference for older/mature women?
Anonymous wrote:
Milf is woman over 28


My point is that when it comes to online porn, the data supports that men aren't just looking for women in their late teens or twenties. In fact, they are looking for women who are older, despite what some people may feel compelled to post.

All men? No. Some like them young, or at least sometimes like them young. Whatever.

And, too, lot of the videos most popular in the MILF category are fit and attractive women who appear in their forties. Does this mean all men are attracted to them? No. Does it mean that all women in their forties would be chased by younger men? No.

Does it counter the claim that if you are a fit, attractive woman in her forties, you are past the point of drawing interest? Yeah, it does. For whatever that's worth.

Again, you do you.

(There are plenty of young guys to do the older women, if that is what both parties want.)
Anonymous
Post 04/23/2017 11:13     Subject: Preference for older/mature women?
Anonymous wrote:Looks like this is the PC thread -- loving the oldies and the fatties. Nice try.


How old are you? You realize that getting older is not a choice. Hopefully you'll be an "Oldie" someday
Anonymous
Post 04/23/2017 11:09     Subject: Preference for older/mature women?
Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:Looks like this is the PC thread -- loving the oldies and the fatties. Nice try.


Well, MILF was (objectively, or objectifyingly, speaking ) the most used porn search term for men in 2016. Yeah, more popular than "teen." http://www.esquire.com/lifestyle/sex/news/a52061/most-popular-porn-searches/

PornHub consistently ranks MILF at or near the top of their lists, year after year.

There seem to be people who want to characterize this as wishful thinking on the part of women, and they seem compelled to post as such in these threads. As a woman in her forties in good shape with a cheerful outlook, I can tell you it is absolutely shocking who comes onto me. I am *fine* with many younger guys not finding me attractive. Believe me, that is not where I am looking for partners. But there is no denying that many are also interested.

Wishful thinking, or claiming younger guys are only interested because they think we'll be easy, doesn't really explain the popularity of the category. It also doesn't explain lived experience.

*shrug

What is actually happening in the world is more interesting to me than someone's opinion, especially if they seem oddly invested in making specific other people feel bad. That's kind of creepy, actually.

But you do you.



Milf is woman over 28
Anonymous
Post 04/23/2017 11:03     Subject: Preference for older/mature women?
Anonymous wrote:Looks like this is the PC thread -- loving the oldies and the fatties. Nice try.


Well, MILF was (objectively, or objectifyingly, speaking ) the most used porn search term for men in 2016. Yeah, more popular than "teen." http://www.esquire.com/lifestyle/sex/news/a52061/most-popular-porn-searches/

PornHub consistently ranks MILF at or near the top of their lists, year after year.

There seem to be people who want to characterize this as wishful thinking on the part of women, and they seem compelled to post as such in these threads. As a woman in her forties in good shape with a cheerful outlook, I can tell you it is absolutely shocking who comes onto me. I am *fine* with many younger guys not finding me attractive. Believe me, that is not where I am looking for partners. But there is no denying that many are also interested.

Wishful thinking, or claiming younger guys are only interested because they think we'll be easy, doesn't really explain the popularity of the category. It also doesn't explain lived experience.

*shrug

What is actually happening in the world is more interesting to me than someone's opinion, especially if they seem oddly invested in making specific other people feel bad. That's kind of creepy, actually.

But you do you.

Anonymous
Post 04/22/2017 23:41     Subject: Preference for older/mature women?
Looks like this is the PC thread -- loving the oldies and the fatties. Nice try.
Anonymous
Post 04/22/2017 22:33     Subject: Preference for older/mature women?
I'm 46 and I'm finding this conversation weird and diverting- are you all saying that there is a younger man out there attracted to a 46 year old woman?

I think women look for partners- younger guys with little to offer but sex, or older, entitled men who objectify women, none of this interests me.