Anonymous wrote:You will have to pay for private schools....period. There are no magical safe and excellent public schools in the city. Even my most liberal public interest lawyer and social worker friends who are all about diversity ended up sending their kids to private schools in Baltimore.
Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:Do you regret it or are you happy? We are thinking about making the move for jobs and for a better cost of living. We have two small kids here in DC (Arlington) but feel like, even though we make good salaries, it will never be enough financially to get what we want in this area. It seems that you need to make $300k at least to live comfortably as we'd like (house in a safe neighborhood in the city or Bethesda/N Arlington, walkable, not totally in need of major renovations). We feel like living here will mean we continue to scrape by and don't have extra money to take family vacations, pay for enrichment for our kids, etc. Baltimore is appealing because of the job offer and also for the lower cost of living. It seems one can live in a pretty area such as Roland Hill in the city, but real estate is much cheaper. I think we could even afford private elementary school there, which we could never do here in the DC area.
Anyway, does anyone have thoughts, particularly those that have made a similar move?
Roland park is not very similar to Bethesda/Arlington. Its more like McLean/CCMD some parts of NWDC. Towson is more similar to Arlington/ Bethesda.
Anonymous wrote:love roland park, guilford, homeland housing stock. LOVE IT!
Anonymous wrote:Do you regret it or are you happy? We are thinking about making the move for jobs and for a better cost of living. We have two small kids here in DC (Arlington) but feel like, even though we make good salaries, it will never be enough financially to get what we want in this area. It seems that you need to make $300k at least to live comfortably as we'd like (house in a safe neighborhood in the city or Bethesda/N Arlington, walkable, not totally in need of major renovations). We feel like living here will mean we continue to scrape by and don't have extra money to take family vacations, pay for enrichment for our kids, etc. Baltimore is appealing because of the job offer and also for the lower cost of living. It seems one can live in a pretty area such as Roland Hill in the city, but real estate is much cheaper. I think we could even afford private elementary school there, which we could never do here in the DC area.
Anyway, does anyone have thoughts, particularly those that have made a similar move?
Anonymous wrote:It's important to look at Baltimore clearly, OP. You will be able to afford a much nicer house than you can afford in Bethesda or Chevy Chase. But you will be faced with a lot more crime. It's not something you'll see in the nicer neighborhoods of Baltimore, but it's something you live with. You never leave anything in your car, you always turn on your alarm, even if you're running out for 15 minutes to pick up the kids from school. The roads are atrocious and the drivers are horrible, even worse than DC drivers. There is not as much traffic as in DC, but whenever there's a problem (construction, for example, a parade, a special event), there is very little police traffic control, so you can get stuck for hours, literally.
There are a few decent public schools in the city, and some charter schools that are good, but extremely difficult to get into (just as in DC). Most of the city schools are atrocious, so you'll likely spend a minimum of 25K to send each child to school, including preschool. Yes, cheaper than DC privates, but not exactly cheap. Parochial schools are less expensive. The suburbs do have better schools. Howard county has the best schools, so if you can manage the commute to Ellicott City, you'll do well. Columbia has good and less good schools, so you'll have to be careful buying there. Catonsville I would skip, but it does have a good seafood restaurant and a nice wallpaper store. Ellicott City is mostly subdivisions and McMansions, although there's a cute central area that has some small stone houses and a lot of antiques stores and other touristy shops. Towson is just north of Baltimore, has good schools (in some parts) less good schools in others, so you have to be careful buying there.
Real estate is not cheap in the nicest areas, Roland Park, Guilford, Homeland, a few other pockets in the city. It's even more expensive in Towson, nearly as expensive as Arlington. If you want[b] a townhouse, you can get a lovely century-old rowhouse in Bolton Hill, but there is so much crime in the area that there's a private police force policing Bolton Hill at night.
Personally, I would not do it, OP. I don't think the charms of "charm city" are worth giving up the cosmopolitan live of DC.
However, if you have a good or great job offer, that's another story. As PPs have said, the job market sucks in Baltimore. If only one of you has a job, it's not likely the other will find work quickly or easily, unless you are in an extremely desirable field. Baltimore operates very much on old school ties, so if you have no network, you are not in a good position to find work, unless you are at Hopkins, in which case that's a different story.
There are other ways to make DC work, OP. I'd look at all of those before making the move to Baltimore, unless you don't mind moving back to DC if you decide Baltimore isn't for you.
Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:without kids, mt. vernon was awesome to live in. cool housing stock, great collection of restaurants all walkable, and my local pub was brewers art, walkable to the walters art museum..just cool.
What I think needs to happen is for baltimore to create tax incentives to house back office or lower value-added work for companies housed in DC given that real estate is cheaper.
Baltimore politics is really shitty and a lot of the ills have to do with very poor management of the city. The city has great bones but needs a wide variety of jobs (besides JHU/UMD/hospital jobs).
There is no reason for many 'lower level' jobs that are crammed in the DC area not to relocate to baltimore. Have execs, high value-added, and client-facing workers stay in dc area but move the rest to baltimore. This would bring in the type of middle-class and educated people baltimore needs to become a nice city.
I worked in Mt. Vernon for a while, and I did not feel it was safe to walk around alone after dark. It's fine if you are always with someone or in a group, but if you live there and have to walk around alone, it's a different story. I also found the parking situation there to be a nightmare. The city tickets often. And the problem with city living in Baltimore is that you still need a car.
I just think different people have different comfort-levels or tolerances for what 'safe' is.
I had zero issues during the 2 years i lived in mt. vernon (this was in 5-6 years ago)...would walk around alone after dark all the time.
i'm a short skinny asian person though who spent time growning up in a majority black neighborhood during elementary school so my comfort levels are different than a petite young blonde from great falls.
Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:without kids, mt. vernon was awesome to live in. cool housing stock, great collection of restaurants all walkable, and my local pub was brewers art, walkable to the walters art museum..just cool.
What I think needs to happen is for baltimore to create tax incentives to house back office or lower value-added work for companies housed in DC given that real estate is cheaper.
Baltimore politics is really shitty and a lot of the ills have to do with very poor management of the city. The city has great bones but needs a wide variety of jobs (besides JHU/UMD/hospital jobs).
There is no reason for many 'lower level' jobs that are crammed in the DC area not to relocate to baltimore. Have execs, high value-added, and client-facing workers stay in dc area but move the rest to baltimore. This would bring in the type of middle-class and educated people baltimore needs to become a nice city.
I worked in Mt. Vernon for a while, and I did not feel it was safe to walk around alone after dark. It's fine if you are always with someone or in a group, but if you live there and have to walk around alone, it's a different story. I also found the parking situation there to be a nightmare. The city tickets often. And the problem with city living in Baltimore is that you still need a car.
Anonymous wrote:I love Baltimore! I lived in Guilford. Gorgeous old houses, quiet streets, but walking distance to stores in Charles Village and a traffic free ten minutes downtown or twenty minutes to suburban shopping. Bmore is cheaper and easier than DC because it's less congested. I'd move back if we had jobs there!
Anonymous wrote:without kids, mt. vernon was awesome to live in. cool housing stock, great collection of restaurants all walkable, and my local pub was brewers art, walkable to the walters art museum..just cool.
What I think needs to happen is for baltimore to create tax incentives to house back office or lower value-added work for companies housed in DC given that real estate is cheaper.
Baltimore politics is really shitty and a lot of the ills have to do with very poor management of the city. The city has great bones but needs a wide variety of jobs (besides JHU/UMD/hospital jobs).
There is no reason for many 'lower level' jobs that are crammed in the DC area not to relocate to baltimore. Have execs, high value-added, and client-facing workers stay in dc area but move the rest to baltimore. This would bring in the type of middle-class and educated people baltimore needs to become a nice city.
Anonymous wrote:I love Baltimore! I lived in Guilford. Gorgeous old houses, quiet streets, but walking distance to stores in Charles Village and a traffic free ten minutes downtown or twenty minutes to suburban shopping. Bmore is cheaper and easier than DC because it's less congested. I'd move back if we had jobs there!