Anonymous wrote:I totally agree with free play, but there are also many studies which say that daycare workers do not take on the job of teaching kids motor skills or social skills and this is a problem. My child had many motor skill delays because they would never encourage him to do anything on the playground and spent most of the time chit chatting and only pointing out behavior if it was really bad. Also outside time is one of the times where children can really interact with one another and a great time to help them learn to get along with each other. Free play at the daycare my child went to was sometimes 1/2-1 hour in the morning and up to 2 hours in the afternoon. Some of that time should be helping children learn gross motor skills and interacting with one another in a positive way.
I am so sorry that your child has motor delays. The reason your child has motor delays is simply that they have motor delays. It has nothing to do with the fact that daycare workers did not engage your child on the playground. A typically developing child will naturally climb, throw and catch balls, run, etc. without intervention. I hope that you are getting the support he or she needs to help gain the needed skills.