Anonymous wrote:OP here, thanks for all the helpful advice. DH has top secret DOD clearance and he was given heads up about when they would interview. I had an idea of what would be asked. Although, I've never been the one in question like this before, I guess I was just shocked by the intensity of questioning and the frankness about specific crimes.
In addition, he asked me questions about the existence of their family (if they had a wife and children) which made me instantly feel uneasy about the interview. Seriously, I don't know my neighbors that well and suspect they would know this info...unless they are just verifying facts. I did not invite him in and asked for ID a couple times. He must have known I didn't feel comfortable.
Oh well, I know this for next time.
Your DH is very lucky. I have a Top Secret/SCI and never have been notified when anyone would be contacted for an interview. The only way I know if someone has been interviewed is if that person tells me. As a matter of fact, they never tell us where I work that your investigation (or reinvestigation; we're required to do one every 5 years) is even complete, or that you've passed a polygraph (also required where I work). The general notion is that no news is good news.