Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:Not being able to give my virginity to my husband

This just sounds creepy and ultra religious.

Why not romantic and idealistic?

Does it change any if the post was

Not being able to give my virginity to my wife

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:Not being able to give my virginity to my husband

This just sounds creepy and ultra religious.

Why not romantic and idealistic?

I think it's the "give my virginity" phrasing. If PP had said, "I wish the only person I had had sex with was my husband" it would sound a lot different.

Not taking the higher paying/better job with Senator So-and-So out of loyalty to Congressperson from-my-hometown who had offered (and I'd accepted) a front desk job three days earlier. My loyalty went one way. Set my career back for a decade. Stupid. Stupid. Stupid.

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:Not being able to give my virginity to my husband

This just sounds creepy and ultra religious.

Why not romantic and idealistic?

Anonymous wrote:Law school.

+1000000000000000000000000000000

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:Not being able to give my virginity to my husband

This just sounds creepy and ultra religious.

Not the PP, and not religious at all, but YOU just sound ultra judgmental.

Working hard and doing my best. I should have kicked back if I knew it was going to turn out this way.

Losing my virginity at 14. Wish i hadn't, but I also don't blame myself for this. I blame my parents. they NEVER talked to me about boys, sex, pressure, drinking, drugs. None of it. And they shouldn't have let me go on car dates with a senior when I was a freshman.

Waiting so late to start looking for my birth mother. I recently found her, and for the first time in my life I really feel like I'm part of a family. I never searched when I was younger b/c I didn't want to deal with the prospect of a second dysfunctional situation.

Anonymous wrote:Not being able to give my virginity to my husband

This just sounds creepy and ultra religious.

Anonymous wrote:Having children so young (teen Mom).

My cousin was a teen mom, and I am SO jealous of her skinny figure (at 46) and her freedom! Now, she did get married and all that jazz, and there were hardships she faced, but man does she look good!

I, on the other hand, look my age.

I bet you look good, too, PP.

i have always tried to make the best decisions I can with the information I have available to me at the time.

I wish we hadn't bought that house in the midwest in 2007, but we didn't know that one of us would lose a job and we would ended up needing to move out to DC, unable to sell that dang house. But do I regret the decision? No, it really was a reasonable decision based on what we knew then, and to regret things like that would probably leave me paralyzed to make new difficult decisions as I move on in my life.

Not being able to give my virginity to my husband

My career choice, not marrying for money and status, not taking a job overseas.

I don't have too many huge regrets. I guess just not getting in shape sooner in life - I came from an overweight family and let it dictate my weight for far too long.

I am pretty pleased with my spouse, career, education, general life choices.