Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:Ok...I'm 5'4 and have been a size 12 (twice) and am now a 2/4. I actually do best when I eat when I want. And to the poster that is 5'4 and a size 14...I'm sorry, but you're in denial. If you are heavy for your weight, then you are eating too much...plain and simple. Sure, maybe your metabolism is slightly slower than someone else's, but that means that your body just doens't need as much food as you are taking in. You're eating too much and not moving enough.
The problem is really our ability to regulate how much we take in. That can be HAAARD. I get it. I've been there. I've done every diet out there. What actually worked for me, was to stop eating things because they were low-calorie or organic/paleo, or low points, or vitamin shakes, or, or, or...I actually just started eating whatever I wanted. I made sure that I limited portion to the extent that I could, but if I felt like a cheesecake for lunch, I had a slice and didn't "balance with healthy food." I treated things like fruit as food (I always used to think of them as "free items"). I used oil and butter. I lost close to 20lbs!!!!! I'm not sure if my cholesterol is as good as it used to be, but my ass looks better, and I'm not stressing about food and I'm enjoying what I eat!
And yes, I walk and run and do yoga. But when I work out too much, I get hungrier and can overcompensate, so I try to keep it light.[/quote
Please, please post a sample daily menu. I could have written your post - except the part about getting smaller than a size 12. TIA
Yes please!!!
I could have written this post, except I went from a size 8 to a size 0 doing the same things. I eat about 1200 calories a day and the food I eat is super healthy. I also eat every few hours so I don't feel like I am starving. I am 45 and could easily pack on the pounds if I didnt pay attention to calories. I eat a lot of protein and high fiber foods. These keep my full and give me the energy I need to work and take care of my family.
Oh...genetics play a small part. Life style is the determining factor in whether a person will be obese.
Can you give us a sample of your daily diet?
Would love to lose a few pounds eating well...
Anonymous wrote:Ok...I'm 5'4 and have been a size 12 (twice) and am now a 2/4. I actually do best when I eat when I want. And to the poster that is 5'4 and a size 14...I'm sorry, but you're in denial. If you are heavy for your weight, then you are eating too much...plain and simple. Sure, maybe your metabolism is slightly slower than someone else's, but that means that your body just doens't need as much food as you are taking in. You're eating too much and not moving enough.
The problem is really our ability to regulate how much we take in. That can be HAAARD. I get it. I've been there. I've done every diet out there. What actually worked for me, was to stop eating things because they were low-calorie or organic/paleo, or low points, or vitamin shakes, or, or, or...I actually just started eating whatever I wanted. I made sure that I limited portion to the extent that I could, but if I felt like a cheesecake for lunch, I had a slice and didn't "balance with healthy food." I treated things like fruit as food (I always used to think of them as "free items"). I used oil and butter. I lost close to 20lbs!!!!! I'm not sure if my cholesterol is as good as it used to be, but my ass looks better, and I'm not stressing about food and I'm enjoying what I eat!
And yes, I walk and run and do yoga. But when I work out too much, I get hungrier and can overcompensate, so I try to keep it light.
Anonymous wrote:I know several women who could eat a lot of fattening food and still maintain their figures without dieting and exercise.
That all ended when menopause hit. Now, they look like they are 8 months pregnant. Permanently.
since I stopped playing competitive sports when I was 18. I can gain weight fairly easily so I am always exercising.
Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:"at 5-foot-8 and 155 pounds, she looks quite trim."
Huh? No she doesn't - she looks like she could lose 15-20 pounds.
I agree, if she is trim I am underweight at 5"2/108!
Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:Ok...I'm 5'4 and have been a size 12 (twice) and am now a 2/4. I actually do best when I eat when I want. And to the poster that is 5'4 and a size 14...I'm sorry, but you're in denial. If you are heavy for your weight, then you are eating too much...plain and simple. Sure, maybe your metabolism is slightly slower than someone else's, but that means that your body just doens't need as much food as you are taking in. You're eating too much and not moving enough.
The problem is really our ability to regulate how much we take in. That can be HAAARD. I get it. I've been there. I've done every diet out there. What actually worked for me, was to stop eating things because they were low-calorie or organic/paleo, or low points, or vitamin shakes, or, or, or...I actually just started eating whatever I wanted. I made sure that I limited portion to the extent that I could, but if I felt like a cheesecake for lunch, I had a slice and didn't "balance with healthy food." I treated things like fruit as food (I always used to think of them as "free items"). I used oil and butter. I lost close to 20lbs!!!!! I'm not sure if my cholesterol is as good as it used to be, but my ass looks better, and I'm not stressing about food and I'm enjoying what I eat!
And yes, I walk and run and do yoga. But when I work out too much, I get hungrier and can overcompensate, so I try to keep it light.[/quote
Please, please post a sample daily menu. I could have written your post - except the part about getting smaller than a size 12. TIA
Yes please!!!
I could have written this post, except I went from a size 8 to a size 0 doing the same things. I eat about 1200 calories a day and the food I eat is super healthy. I also eat every few hours so I don't feel like I am starving. I am 45 and could easily pack on the pounds if I didnt pay attention to calories. I eat a lot of protein and high fiber foods. These keep my full and give me the energy I need to work and take care of my family.
Oh...genetics play a small part. Life style is the determining factor in whether a person will be obese.
Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:Ok...I'm 5'4 and have been a size 12 (twice) and am now a 2/4. I actually do best when I eat when I want. And to the poster that is 5'4 and a size 14...I'm sorry, but you're in denial. If you are heavy for your weight, then you are eating too much...plain and simple. Sure, maybe your metabolism is slightly slower than someone else's, but that means that your body just doens't need as much food as you are taking in. You're eating too much and not moving enough.
The problem is really our ability to regulate how much we take in. That can be HAAARD. I get it. I've been there. I've done every diet out there. What actually worked for me, was to stop eating things because they were low-calorie or organic/paleo, or low points, or vitamin shakes, or, or, or...I actually just started eating whatever I wanted. I made sure that I limited portion to the extent that I could, but if I felt like a cheesecake for lunch, I had a slice and didn't "balance with healthy food." I treated things like fruit as food (I always used to think of them as "free items"). I used oil and butter. I lost close to 20lbs!!!!! I'm not sure if my cholesterol is as good as it used to be, but my ass looks better, and I'm not stressing about food and I'm enjoying what I eat!
And yes, I walk and run and do yoga. But when I work out too much, I get hungrier and can overcompensate, so I try to keep it light.
Please, please post a sample daily menu. I could have written your post - except the part about getting smaller than a size 12. TIA
Anonymous wrote:Every person I know who says "they eat whatever they want" does not eat much. If you are around this person 24 7 they may seem to eat a lot of junk food like doritos, twinkies, etc. but that is their whole meal....a donut for breakfast, bag of chips for lunch, and an ice cream for dinner...those types of people just don't eat much. my roommate claims to be skinny genetically but she starves herself daily. if she has a piece of cake she will skip dinner and say she is too tired to eat. its so funny how people secretly starve themselves in order to say they can eat whatever they want.
Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:"at 5-foot-8 and 155 pounds, she looks quite trim."
Huh? No she doesn't - she looks like she could lose 15-20 pounds.
I agree, if she is trim I am underweight at 5"2/108!
Anonymous wrote:Ok...I'm 5'4 and have been a size 12 (twice) and am now a 2/4. I actually do best when I eat when I want. And to the poster that is 5'4 and a size 14...I'm sorry, but you're in denial. If you are heavy for your weight, then you are eating too much...plain and simple. Sure, maybe your metabolism is slightly slower than someone else's, but that means that your body just doens't need as much food as you are taking in. You're eating too much and not moving enough.
The problem is really our ability to regulate how much we take in. That can be HAAARD. I get it. I've been there. I've done every diet out there. What actually worked for me, was to stop eating things because they were low-calorie or organic/paleo, or low points, or vitamin shakes, or, or, or...I actually just started eating whatever I wanted. I made sure that I limited portion to the extent that I could, but if I felt like a cheesecake for lunch, I had a slice and didn't "balance with healthy food." I treated things like fruit as food (I always used to think of them as "free items"). I used oil and butter. I lost close to 20lbs!!!!! I'm not sure if my cholesterol is as good as it used to be, but my ass looks better, and I'm not stressing about food and I'm enjoying what I eat!
And yes, I walk and run and do yoga. But when I work out too much, I get hungrier and can overcompensate, so I try to keep it light.
Anonymous wrote:"at 5-foot-8 and 155 pounds, she looks quite trim."
Huh? No she doesn't - she looks like she could lose 15-20 pounds.