Anonymous wrote:I don't know but it looks to me like some parents are accepting an Aspergers diagnosis so they can get the help they need for services.
Anonymous wrote:PP. 2:07, I'm curious how many Asperger's kids you know? You seem to have very definite ideas about what constitutes AS behaviors vs behaviors that are NT.
While I agree that diagnosing is "tricky" for some kids (not mine, however, DS has been described as "classic" Asperger's even with the great eye contact), I trust my developmental pediatrician who's seen hundreds of Aspies, each one unique, rather than stuff I've read in books.
DS has social reciprocity at school and home. Thanks to his IEP - has improved greatly and hopefully continues to progress with age. Has conversations with give and take in a variety of subjects and not only elevators, his obsession, in both English and Chinese for which I thank his social skills group, speech therapist and teachers.
Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:PP, parents are not making that distinction, neuropsychologists are. A group of them actually who authored the book, "Misdiagnosis." These neuropsychologists studied the difference between Aspergers children and Gifted Non-Aspergers children and their obsessions.
Maybe it's time to look at the reality that some children have indeed been misdiagnosed.
I never said that children haven't been misdiagnosed. I only said it is BS that children with AS won't engage with others who share their obsessions. I live in that world, I have a son with Aspergers, I know plenty of parents of children with Aspergers. One has a child who is obsessed with trains (which is why I came up with that example) and shares his obsession with other kids with AS who love trains. He isn't all that gifted but he absolutely has AS and absolutely engages in reciprocal friendships over this special interest.
I realize you have this issue you keep promoting and I am not going to argue with you about your underlying point. but there is this mistaken search for the holy grail factor that distinguishes kids with AS and the fact is that the diagnosis is always multifactural and no two kids with AS are alike. i remember thinking my DS couldn't possibly have an ASD because he didn't line up his toys. I had read somewhere that this was "the" distinction. There is no "the" distinction.
Personally, I've never found neuropsychs to be that good with ASDs -- they tend to focus on the minutia and miss the big picture. I'm sure there are some that get it, but obviously not teh ones who wrote this book.
Engage may not mean the same as having social reciprocity. Aspergers children may not be as inclined to entertain another's opinions or viewpoints even if it is pertaining to their obsession. They may simply enjoy discussing theirs. That's engagement but that's not social reciprocity. Social reciprocity is listening, hearing, replying, and having a discussion that may not be your choice to talk about. And the authors of this book state that Aspergers children who are engaging in social reciprocity with others over their obsession are not likely to have Aspergers to begin with. They may have been misdiagnosed. That doesn't sound like BS to me but you're definitely allowed to hold a different opinion. And lining up toys is a symptom of autism and not one of the criteria in the DSM, just like hand flapping is also a symptom. Doesn't mean a child has ASD, as there are kids who flap and line up toys and they're not ASD at all.
Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:PP, parents are not making that distinction, neuropsychologists are. A group of them actually who authored the book, "Misdiagnosis." These neuropsychologists studied the difference between Aspergers children and Gifted Non-Aspergers children and their obsessions.
Maybe it's time to look at the reality that some children have indeed been misdiagnosed.
I never said that children haven't been misdiagnosed. I only said it is BS that children with AS won't engage with others who share their obsessions. I live in that world, I have a son with Aspergers, I know plenty of parents of children with Aspergers. One has a child who is obsessed with trains (which is why I came up with that example) and shares his obsession with other kids with AS who love trains. He isn't all that gifted but he absolutely has AS and absolutely engages in reciprocal friendships over this special interest.
I realize you have this issue you keep promoting and I am not going to argue with you about your underlying point. but there is this mistaken search for the holy grail factor that distinguishes kids with AS and the fact is that the diagnosis is always multifactural and no two kids with AS are alike. i remember thinking my DS couldn't possibly have an ASD because he didn't line up his toys. I had read somewhere that this was "the" distinction. There is no "the" distinction.
Personally, I've never found neuropsychs to be that good with ASDs -- they tend to focus on the minutia and miss the big picture. I'm sure there are some that get it, but obviously not teh ones who wrote this book.
Anonymous wrote:PP, parents are not making that distinction, neuropsychologists are. A group of them actually who authored the book, "Misdiagnosis." These neuropsychologists studied the difference between Aspergers children and Gifted Non-Aspergers children and their obsessions.
Maybe it's time to look at the reality that some children have indeed been misdiagnosed.
Anonymous wrote:PP, parents are not making that distinction, neuropsychologists are. A group of them actually who authored the book, "Misdiagnosis." These neuropsychologists studied the difference between Aspergers children and Gifted Non-Aspergers children and their obsessions.
Maybe it's time to look at the reality that some children have indeed been misdiagnosed.
Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:Interesting reads. My DS (now 6) was evaluated in preschool by FCPS child find. Both FCPS, and the play therapist we had been working with felt that there was a strong chance he had Asperger Syndrome. From what I knew as an educator myself, I tended to agree. We saw a Developmental Pediatrician, who in addition to looking at all the evaluation pieces from the county (which involved some cog. testing, speect/hearing, 90 min observation by the psych, long questionnaires for teachers and parents) met with us alone, and met with ds (who at that visit remained almost entirely under the chair). Though she felt he had some Asperger characteristics, she felt he did not have AS. Her reasons were that ds 1) had a strong desire for joint attention/sharing his ideas and 2)Had a strong amount of expression in his voice and his face... He has STRONG obsessions. He has been on Egypt for many months now, every single drawing/school paper that came home had some egypt theme to it. Every day at recess he plays "Egypt". He has major attention issues, poor eye contact as well. I am not sure how it will pan out, I still think very possibly he has AS, but I think sometimes, it is hard to tell when they are little? He has had a good year with an IEP, and one in place for 1st.
These do not rule out Aspergers!