She made friends with you, not your baby. You can still be friends even if he isn't her priority the way he is for you.

Anonymous wrote:looks like the miserable bitches have arrived.

did you all just get off of your shifts working at the DMV?

LOL!!

Anonymous wrote:OP, repeat after me: NO ONE CARES ABOUT MY KID -- ESPECIALLY GOING OUT OF THEIR WAY TO SEE MY KID -- EXCEPT ME, DH, MY PARENTS AND MY IN-LAWS. Truly, that is the case. Everyone else is just being nice.

Um, OP decided most people here were right and would drop the issue.

Anonymous wrote:Dont say anything but just realize that you are growing apart. It's sad but I lost friends whzen I got married and more when I had a baby. You have different priorities but in my case my single friends were jealous and there was too much negativity so I had to move on.

Jealous and negative about what? I'm sure this is what my ex-friend I'd going around saying, but if our friendship fell apart its not because of me. I tried to invite her to my house with her baby for dinner, but it was too much trouble for her. I waited for her to invite me, nothing. We work near each other, but she couldn't even meet for an hour or drinks. What else was I supposed to do? Have you tried to make things work with your friends, PP? Or were you like my ex-friend? If it's the latter, it certainly had nothing to do with negativity or jealousy, more like your lack of flexibility.

OP, repeat after me: NO ONE CARES ABOUT MY KID -- ESPECIALLY GOING OUT OF THEIR WAY TO SEE MY KID -- EXCEPT ME, DH, MY PARENTS AND MY IN-LAWS. Truly, that is the case. Everyone else is just being nice.

Anonymous wrote:She doesn't have kids yet. Until she does, your kid won't have much pull for her.

Kids had zero pull for me when I was single. Now that i have kids, I'm still not that interested in other people's kids--but I make much more effort to appear interested.

looks like the miserable bitches have arrived.

did you all just get off of your shifts working at the DMV?