Anonymous wrote:Add me as another who doesnt like having visible muscle definition. Its always a concern of mine, because I tone pretty easily, especially in my arms. I like soft curves and a flat stomach. I'm a small size 4, with my ideal size being a 6. I purposely added pounds when I dropped to barely a size 2. I had lots of women asking what exersice/diet program I was on, while there were men saying "please don't lose anymore weight".
I gain last in my stomach. The first 20lbs go towards my curves (ass, hips, breast, thighs). In my culture, that's hot. I'm African-American. Most of the skinny girls when I was coming up tried desperately to gain. And no, the goal wasn't to have flabby arms or a gut, but to be curvy.
I'm Mexican-American and I don't like having visible muscle definition. I jog 3x a week and I do some pilates and I eat healthy. I am healthy size 6 and 34c bra size with curvy hips and a rear end. Also in Latino/Hispanic culture they prefer women to look curvy but not fat. There is a general assumption Latinos and African Americans like fat women that is really not the case. They enjoy curves meaning women like Beyonce, Selma Hayek etc.....