Anonymous
01/20/2012 08:59
Subject: I started diet so what does my husband do?.....
Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:If he wants to eat his junk food in his house, then there isn't any reason why he shouldn't do so.
It isn't his responsibility to keep his wife dieting, and if he suggested that she need to eat better he would be pilloried on this forum.
When my now DH and I moved in together, he stopped keeping massive amounts of candy around. He knows I have a major sweet tooth and that I try to be healthy, and he took it upon himself to be supportive of that. In general, he now keeps those types of snacks at work, but I think mostly, he has just cut back on them.
Is it his "responsibility to keep me dieting"? Well, no. It's nice that he took it upon himself to be supportive of it, though. I would do the same for him in a heartbeat. I'm surprised so many people are jumping on the "it's not his problem" bandwagon.
What does "keep me dieting" mean? If you need to keep dieting, then it is your problem and not his.
I was just quoting a phrase used by a PP.
Anonymous
01/20/2012 08:55
Subject: I started diet so what does my husband do?.....
Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:If he wants to eat his junk food in his house, then there isn't any reason why he shouldn't do so.
It isn't his responsibility to keep his wife dieting, and if he suggested that she need to eat better he would be pilloried on this forum.
When my now DH and I moved in together, he stopped keeping massive amounts of candy around. He knows I have a major sweet tooth and that I try to be healthy, and he took it upon himself to be supportive of that. In general, he now keeps those types of snacks at work, but I think mostly, he has just cut back on them.
Is it his "responsibility to keep me dieting"? Well, no. It's nice that he took it upon himself to be supportive of it, though. I would do the same for him in a heartbeat. I'm surprised so many people are jumping on the "it's not his problem" bandwagon.
What does "keep me dieting" mean? If you need to keep dieting, then it is your problem and not his.
Anonymous
01/20/2012 08:24
Subject: I started diet so what does my husband do?.....
Anonymous wrote:If he wants to eat his junk food in his house, then there isn't any reason why he shouldn't do so.
It isn't his responsibility to keep his wife dieting, and if he suggested that she need to eat better he would be pilloried on this forum.
When my now DH and I moved in together, he stopped keeping massive amounts of candy around. He knows I have a major sweet tooth and that I try to be healthy, and he took it upon himself to be supportive of that. In general, he now keeps those types of snacks at work, but I think mostly, he has just cut back on them.
Is it his "responsibility to keep me dieting"? Well, no. It's nice that he took it upon himself to be supportive of it, though. I would do the same for him in a heartbeat. I'm surprised so many people are jumping on the "it's not his problem" bandwagon.
Anonymous
01/19/2012 22:02
Subject: I started diet so what does my husband do?.....
Anonymous wrote:OP hasn't posted in 3 days. That pretty much says someone hit the bullseye on her story.
Or she was hurt by the hostile commenters.
Or they resolved it by talking.
Anonymous
01/19/2012 21:53
Subject: I started diet so what does my husband do?.....
OP hasn't posted in 3 days. That pretty much says someone hit the bullseye on her story.