To the PP's who have husbands who are not good kissers: I knew exactly how you feel. I loved kissing/making out so much, but ended up marrying someone who was not very experienced and did not kiss as well as the other guys I'd known. I thought I could teach him how, but years went by and I just didn't even want to kiss him anymore; it was a disappointment to me. But as I have gotten older and my libido kicked into high gear, I took the lead in trying to spice things up in the bedroom and being the initiator/trying some new things and guess what? When my DH gets fired up and really excited, he kisses me exactly like I've been craving all these years. So I guess what I am trying to say is don't think that things will never get better in that department, because they can. Maybe it will just take finding something that will bring passion to your relationship and take away the thought that sex is a chore.

Anonymous wrote:Making out just leads to sex. So I avoid it at all costs when I'm exhausted, which is quite often.

When I'm exhausted, sometimes sex is just the thing to help me relax and sleep more soundly. Try it!

Anonymous wrote:15:22, you're not alone. I felt this way before kids too.

Perhaps you were never in love with your husband, if you felt that way before kids?

15:22, you're not alone. I felt this way before kids too.