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Anonymous wrote:I feel like if this was a well liked friend you would have made the tiniest effort. But, it's the in-laws so that would be asking too much.

OP here. We made the effort of cleaning the house and putting clean sheets on the bed and extra towels in the guest bath. There is nothing wrong with lasagna, or with pizza: and by the way, we’ve eaten both leftovers and pizza in their home before.

No, my daughter isn’t going to skip a birthday party that she RSVPd for before the grandparents asked to stay with us. We went out of our way to explain this was a busy weekend, and we’re not up for hostessing with the mostessing. I am making a very nice dinner tonight, the one non-workday evening they are here with us. I’ve also provided more hot breakfast items than I ever do when it’s just my family in our home.

None of our friends would ever treat us this way. Ever. Especially not after we told them it wasn’t a great time to visit, and they said they understood. My friends know that a free place to stay when they are in town for another event entirely is a GIFT.

At any rate, DH is ready to tell them flat out to stop the complaining. They are beyond rude and we will absolutely never trust that they can handle a visit during a non-holiday/non-summertime ever again.

Have you had dirty sheets on the bed since the last visitor? And putting towels in the bathroom? Nobody is going to accuse you of rolling out the red carped.

Because she didn't invite them.

and they do not deserve a red carpet. Pp is just a jerk.

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Anonymous wrote:You didn't have to be the greatest hosts of all time but serving leftovers was incredibly rude.

NP and for all you know, both OP and DH had big meetings or after-school obligations like taking a kid to a practice on Thursday, so they made a big lasagna on Wednesday.

If you want to be treated like family with a visit during a busy time, you fall in. There is nothing wrong with a lasagna the next day. If you want the full guest treatment, you wait to visit during a time that works for your hosts.

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Anonymous wrote:Hi everyone, professional caterer. If you’ve ever eaten lasagna at a catered event or at a restaurant, congratulations! You’ve had leftover lasagna.

Do you also serve it with a few pieces missing that had been served at the previous day's event?

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Anonymous wrote:Hi everyone, professional caterer. If you’ve ever eaten lasagna at a catered event or at a restaurant, congratulations! You’ve had leftover lasagna.

Do you also serve it with a few pieces missing that had been served at the previous day's event?

Who cares. You're just an awful person.

Do you feel better about yourself? I bet you don't.

Anonymous wrote:You didn't have to be the greatest hosts of all time but serving leftovers was incredibly rude.

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Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:Hi everyone, professional caterer. If you’ve ever eaten lasagna at a catered event or at a restaurant, congratulations! You’ve had leftover lasagna.

Do you also serve it with a few pieces missing that had been served at the previous day's event?

Who cares. You're just an awful person.

Anonymous wrote:Just don’t pay them any attention when they make these comments if you clearly warned them. Don’t waste your energy being upset. Just walk out of the room. Next time it might just be easier to say, you are welcome to stay at our home and we’ll get the guest room ready but we have plans all weekend so we won’t be able to spend more than a few minutes here or there together. If they continue to complain about the bday parties, you can just say on repeat, “if only we had known sooner we would have declined the invite”. But also ask yourself if you’d be so easily irritated by your own parents. It’s nice they are interested in spending time with your family. My ILs are the opposite. They are practically strangers to my kids. They moved across the country after our second was born. Initially they traveled here every year or two and would tell us they’d be here for 1-2 weeks so we would clear our schedule. A week or so out, DH would try to pin down plans and logistics but they’d just provide vague assurances that they’d be seeing us. In the end, we got whatever day and time was left after they’d scheduled with their other kids and their friends. It was always just a few hours on a random afternoon. So I stopped clearing our schedules. Then they stopped visiting. I would have really loved if they’d wanted to involved like your in-laws.

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Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:Hi everyone, professional caterer. If you’ve ever eaten lasagna at a catered event or at a restaurant, congratulations! You’ve had leftover lasagna.

Do you also serve it with a few pieces missing that had been served at the previous day's event?

Considering it is usually served sliced and plated at restaurants, how would you know? Considering it’s easy to move down a pan size, how would you know?

Anonymous wrote:Why don't you have fresh food for your home daily?

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:Hi everyone, professional caterer. If you’ve ever eaten lasagna at a catered event or at a restaurant, congratulations! You’ve had leftover lasagna.

Do you also serve it with a few pieces missing that had been served at the previous day's event?

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:I feel like if this was a well liked friend you would have made the tiniest effort. But, it's the in-laws so that would be asking too much.

OP here. We made the effort of cleaning the house and putting clean sheets on the bed and extra towels in the guest bath. There is nothing wrong with lasagna, or with pizza: and by the way, we’ve eaten both leftovers and pizza in their home before.

No, my daughter isn’t going to skip a birthday party that she RSVPd for before the grandparents asked to stay with us. We went out of our way to explain this was a busy weekend, and we’re not up for hostessing with the mostessing. I am making a very nice dinner tonight, the one non-workday evening they are here with us. I’ve also provided more hot breakfast items than I ever do when it’s just my family in our home.

None of our friends would ever treat us this way. Ever. Especially not after we told them it wasn’t a great time to visit, and they said they understood. My friends know that a free place to stay when they are in town for another event entirely is a GIFT.

At any rate, DH is ready to tell them flat out to stop the complaining. They are beyond rude and we will absolutely never trust that they can handle a visit during a non-holiday/non-summertime ever again.

Have you had dirty sheets on the bed since the last visitor? And putting towels in the bathroom? Nobody is going to accuse you of rolling out the red carped.

Because she didn't invite them.

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:Hi everyone, professional caterer. If you’ve ever eaten lasagna at a catered event or at a restaurant, congratulations! You’ve had leftover lasagna.

Do you also serve it with a few pieces missing that had been served at the previous day's event?

Anonymous wrote:Hi everyone, professional caterer. If you’ve ever eaten lasagna at a catered event or at a restaurant, congratulations! You’ve had leftover lasagna.