Anonymous
06/21/2026 22:31
Subject: Betrayal hurts but so does separation
Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:Op, find your own partner and get a therapy. Good sex also helps.
NP here-I divorced several years ago due to DH cheating and now I regret it as I have not found anyone better than him. Maye OP can still try to work it out?
Just because there is no one better doesn't mean it was the wrong decision. but, you have lived this so I'm curious for your take. Did you originally divorce him so that you could go find someone else? Or did you divorce him because of other reasons?
Divorced due to cheating-kid was 2 years old and marriage was 8 years old. OP has a much longer marriage seems like
Who is he with now ? Did he want the divorce ?
No, he did not want the divorce despite the fact he was cheating. He ended up marrying someone else who was not the AP
Anonymous
06/21/2026 18:11
Subject: Betrayal hurts but so does separation
Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:Op, find your own partner and get a therapy. Good sex also helps.
NP here-I divorced several years ago due to DH cheating and now I regret it as I have not found anyone better than him. Maye OP can still try to work it out?
Just because there is no one better doesn't mean it was the wrong decision. but, you have lived this so I'm curious for your take. Did you originally divorce him so that you could go find someone else? Or did you divorce him because of other reasons?
Divorced due to cheating-kid was 2 years old and marriage was 8 years old. OP has a much longer marriage seems like
Who is he with now ? Did he want the divorce ?
Anonymous
06/21/2026 16:21
Subject: Betrayal hurts but so does separation
Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:Op, find your own partner and get a therapy. Good sex also helps.
NP here-I divorced several years ago due to DH cheating and now I regret it as I have not found anyone better than him. Maye OP can still try to work it out?
Just because there is no one better doesn't mean it was the wrong decision. but, you have lived this so I'm curious for your take. Did you originally divorce him so that you could go find someone else? Or did you divorce him because of other reasons?
Divorced due to cheating-kid was 2 years old and marriage was 8 years old. OP has a much longer marriage seems like
Anonymous
06/21/2026 12:27
Subject: Betrayal hurts but so does separation
Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:Op, find your own partner and get a therapy. Good sex also helps.
NP here-I divorced several years ago due to DH cheating and now I regret it as I have not found anyone better than him. Maye OP can still try to work it out?
Just because there is no one better doesn't mean it was the wrong decision. but, you have lived this so I'm curious for your take. Did you originally divorce him so that you could go find someone else? Or did you divorce him because of other reasons?
Anonymous
06/21/2026 06:57
Subject: Betrayal hurts but so does separation
Anonymous wrote:How are you not tired of him after three decades? I'm tired of him for you.
NP
Me too!
Anonymous
06/21/2026 06:17
Subject: Betrayal hurts but so does separation
Anonymous wrote:Op, find your own partner and get a therapy. Good sex also helps.
NP here-I divorced several years ago due to DH cheating and now I regret it as I have not found anyone better than him. Maye OP can still try to work it out?
Anonymous
06/14/2026 15:42
Subject: Betrayal hurts but so does separation
Anonymous wrote:How are you not tired of him after three decades? I'm tired of him for you.
Losing shared life is painful, and so is thought of splitting the retirement nest unfortunately
Anonymous
06/14/2026 07:28
Subject: Betrayal hurts but so does separation
How are you not tired of him after three decades? I'm tired of him for you.