Anonymous wrote:People who are naturally good looking have way easier lives than someone who is wealthy but unattractive. I do think at a certain point, money and fame can make up for lack of good looks, but this is a level that is unattainable for most people (centimillionaire or higher).
If you’re a man born ugly, short, bald, small member, etc (something that is not easily fixable) even if you achieve decent upper middle class wealth, think 5-10M, your overall quality of life will be worse than a guy who is a broke or LMC “Chad”.
I fall into this category. I’m a man who is unattractive and never got attention from women until my late 20’s when career took off, but even then it was difficult. I live a comfortable life with above average wealth, but not enough to live a baller lifestyle like you see in the movies. I have family members who are poorer than me but better looking and act passive aggressive jealous about my finances vs theirs, but they don’t realize how much better their social & dating lives were compared to mine because they’re conventionally good looking. I would trade all my money to be born as a man with top 5% looks and live paycheck to paycheck.
Hi OP. I’m over 6ft, reasonably attractive and have an objectively big hog. I spent most of my early life (up until nearly 30’s) being pretty invisible to women. I’ve been rejected, cheated on in committed relationships and definitely had some mean girl type shit aimed at me in the past. That’s life and a part of the dating game no matter who you are.
What all of this does is make you appreciate the right person when you find them. Spend the interim time becoming the best version of yourself, including your interpersonal skills and how you feel about yourself (because it shows and people can see it from 30 feet away).
Whats wild is that now, in my mid-50’s I notice women checking me out an interacting with me more. I think part of it has been taking care of myself (eating right overall, lifting and cycling). I’m happily married and not interested in them but its a nice barometer that I’m doing something right.
Give your balls a tug and get out there and take your lumps like the rest of us. Its an important part of the experience.