Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:OP is she chubby or otherwise unattractive? It sounds like your instincts dismissed her out of hand and confused you because she was making an obvious proposition. No woman in 2026 is inviting a man into her hotel room unless she wants to have sex.... and/or sue your emoloyer.
Op here. She is attractive- likely a couple years older than me. I would not kick her out of bed. In the workplace you just never know of others intentions. Even if I were single, I would hesitate.
Anonymous wrote:30yo married man, recently went on an out of town business trip for a meeting with a female colleague I have been working with over a years time. She is single. At end of the day at work, she offered to drive me to my hotel room. She accompanied me up to my hotel room, we made small talk and then she went to edge of the bed, sat down and then fell back and commented something to the effect how comfy the bed was. I had planned to go out for dinner with her and she suggested room service to which I objected as I wanted the go out to eat. We had a nice dinner and she dropped me off front of the hotel. Nothing happened. I didn’t think much of any of this until I discussed it with a co worker who commended me for not taking advantage of the situation. What was this woman thinking?
Anonymous wrote:
Why on earth were you in her hotel room as a married man?
Why do you care if your colleague is interested in you?
Sir you know better.
Anonymous wrote:So she asked you to enjoy "room service" in her hotel room? Yea this is how women set things in motion but no worries OP, they still require you to take action.
Anonymous wrote:30yo married man, recently went on an out of town business trip for a meeting with a female colleague I have been working with over a years time. She is single. At end of the day at work, she offered to drive me to my hotel room. She accompanied me up to my hotel room, we made small talk and then she went to edge of the bed, sat down and then fell back and commented something to the effect how comfy the bed was. I had planned to go out for dinner with her and she suggested room service to which I objected as I wanted the go out to eat. We had a nice dinner and she dropped me off front of the hotel. Nothing happened. I didn’t think much of any of this until I discussed it with a co worker who commended me for not taking advantage of the situation. What was this woman thinking?
Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:I think her laying on your bed, talking about how comfortable it is and wanting to get room service leave little doubt she wanted to hook up.
Why else would someone want to get room service in someone else's room?
Room service for two is the ultimate proof of a senior and subordinate hooking up. If you put dinner in for two in your expenses even better.
Op really dodged a bullet.
Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:OP is she chubby or otherwise unattractive? It sounds like your instincts dismissed her out of hand and confused you because she was making an obvious proposition. No woman in 2026 is inviting a man into her hotel room unless she wants to have sex.... and/or sue your emoloyer.
Op here. She is attractive- likely a couple years older than me. I would not kick her out of bed. In the workplace you just never know of others intentions. Even if I were single, I would hesitate.
Anonymous wrote:If she is hot, you blew it OP. If not, no harm no foul.
Anonymous wrote:30yo married man, recently went on an out of town business trip for a meeting with a female colleague I have been working with over a years time. She is single. At end of the day at work, she offered to drive me to my hotel room. She accompanied me up to my hotel room, we made small talk and then she went to edge of the bed, sat down and then fell back and commented something to the effect how comfy the bed was. I had planned to go out for dinner with her and she suggested room service to which I objected as I wanted the go out to eat. We had a nice dinner and she dropped me off front of the hotel. Nothing happened. I didn’t think much of any of this until I discussed it with a co worker who commended me for not taking advantage of the situation. What was this woman thinking?
Anonymous wrote:Don’t you any common sense, OP?