Anonymous
Post 03/13/2026 21:28     Subject: What state have you been to that had the nicest people?

I can tell you the worst.

Oklahoma.

I have never met anyone from Oklahoma who hasn’t screwed the he** out of me.
Anonymous
Post 03/13/2026 21:27     Subject: What state have you been to that had the nicest people?

Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:southern nice is just surface nice


Bless your heart.


Case in point.
Anonymous
Post 03/13/2026 21:08     Subject: What state have you been to that had the nicest people?

Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:New York City

BS… Abrasive


lol. If your first response to an unfamiliar experience is to exclaim “BS” to people who’ve had very different experiences, then I understand why you might view New Yorkers as “Abrasive “. You get back what you give out.
Anonymous
Post 03/13/2026 20:37     Subject: What state have you been to that had the nicest people?

Anonymous wrote:Iowa. Iowa nice is real.


Agree. Iowa.
Anonymous
Post 03/13/2026 20:31     Subject: What state have you been to that had the nicest people?

Iowa. Iowa nice is real.
Anonymous
Post 03/13/2026 20:26     Subject: What state have you been to that had the nicest people?

Minnesota
Anonymous
Post 03/13/2026 19:48     Subject: What state have you been to that had the nicest people?

Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:New York City has the nicest people and I’m not kidding.


Yes you are.


NYers don't waste time. "Wrong number.<click>"

That's what is so nice about them. Every conversation is less than a second long.
Anonymous
Post 03/13/2026 19:43     Subject: What state have you been to that had the nicest people?

Anonymous wrote:New York City has the nicest people and I’m not kidding.


Yes you are.
Anonymous
Post 03/13/2026 19:10     Subject: What state have you been to that had the nicest people?

There have nice people and not nice people in every state I’ve visited. The nice people far outweighed the not nice people.
Anonymous
Post 03/13/2026 19:02     Subject: What state have you been to that had the nicest people?

Anonymous wrote:Scotland hands down.


Did Trump annex them?
Anonymous
Post 03/13/2026 18:56     Subject: What state have you been to that had the nicest people?

Ohio! I visit my daughter 3-4 times a year and I just love the atmosphere. Strangers are nice! I always feel a sense of disappointment when I return to Maryland.
Anonymous
Post 03/13/2026 18:43     Subject: What state have you been to that had the nicest people?

Anonymous wrote:southern nice is just surface nice


In general, people react with kindness to those who exhibit kindness and authenticity. You likely come across as fake and cynicsl.
Anonymous
Post 03/13/2026 18:32     Subject: What state have you been to that had the nicest people?

Iowa !
There's Midwestern nice. And then there's Iowa nice.
Anonymous
Post 03/13/2026 18:22     Subject: What state have you been to that had the nicest people?

Nice is a tough word. I don't know exactly how to define it.

New Yorkers and New Englanders are not friendly but there is a real sense of solidarity. People help at the first sign of trouble.

People in Southern states are friendly but I just don't trust it. It feels so fake to me. I don't feel like the Southern friendliness is consistent - it depends who you are and what you look like and sometimes if you just left the room.

Anonymous
Post 03/13/2026 18:07     Subject: What state have you been to that had the nicest people?

New York City by far—especially the people who were born and bred there.