Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:A lot of children, even children of highly educated, high SES parents, are coming to school without foundational skills—age appropriate self-regulation, fine motor skills that support writing, the ability to engage in productive struggle. It seems like parents are living higher stress lives and less able to engage with their children. We’re also seeing a LOT more anxiety in kids, which is affecting attention and memory in the classroom.
It may have to do with shifting social norms and trauma from the pandemic, but it has nothing to do with schools having been closed.
This is not the pandemic. This is the bad preschools who parented to do play based learning and the kids don’t learn the foundations there. Kids need academic based at least at age four.
That is a crazy take - kids need healthy play at that age. The academic-oriented preschools are a new phenomenon. Things that used to be taught in 1st grade are now trickling down to being taught in pre-K, at the expense of appropriate development.
+1
Kids need unstructured outdoor time— hours of it— language exposure, books, and proper socialization. Our daughter was in forest school and was reading fluently before K.
Don’t pay yourself on the back. Like walking, there is a wide range of when kids learn to read. It’s largely developmental, not academic. Of
course up to a point. By 9 all kids should be reading fluently, but whether a kid can read fluently by 3-5 or 6-8 indicates nothing about their intelligence.
I’m not patting myself on the back, I’m disputing the idea that children need “academic” pre-K in order to succeed, which is the post I was responding to. That is developmentally inappropriate for most children.
It's not developmentally inappropriate. And, you cannot complain that your kids aren't prepared and not consider the type of preparation they had. Kids can still play and have fun and learn at preschool. This anti-education stance is why kids struggle. The lack of homework for reenforcement, lack of reading at home and expecting schools to do it all.
Anonymous wrote:I am baffled by this. I have a 2nd grader. She's a terrific reader. She missed the school closures of Covid so got to have normal PK and K even. She was reading on her own by the summer before K (just sounding out words) and then got good, phonics-based reading instruction in K and 1st and it really took off. Her preschool was play based and that was great for her. She was actually in a Title 1 for PK-1st (we're in DC with universal PK so she did PK at at a public elementary) and now is at a non-T1.
My perception is that her cohort is full of strong readers. We live in a MC/UMC neighborhood. There are plenty of bookstores and libraries here. Most people are college educated and the adults read (both to kids and on their own). Literacy is definitely valued as part of the culture here. There are also kids who struggle but the schools and parents are getting them support they need for LDs and other issues.
I do think Covid had some lasting effects on this cohort of kids, because I think Covid and other forces changed our culture permanently -- we never really returned to a pre-Covid existence. But I don't see it in the academic performance. The kids I know seem fine.
Not saying the studies are wrong, it's just not reflected in my experience at all. And we aren't wealthy outliers -- no tutors, most families can't afford nannies or a SAHP, pretty standard in terms of childcare and extracurriculars for kids, schools are good but not considered the best in the area or anything. They are "good enough" schools for people at our SES level who can't afford private or to live in very expensive school boundaries.
So I don't get it, but I don't think it's just Covid. Because if it was, you'd see the effects everywhere and I don't see them here.
Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:A lot of children, even children of highly educated, high SES parents, are coming to school without foundational skills—age appropriate self-regulation, fine motor skills that support writing, the ability to engage in productive struggle. It seems like parents are living higher stress lives and less able to engage with their children. We’re also seeing a LOT more anxiety in kids, which is affecting attention and memory in the classroom.
It may have to do with shifting social norms and trauma from the pandemic, but it has nothing to do with schools having been closed.
This is not the pandemic. This is the bad preschools who parented to do play based learning and the kids don’t learn the foundations there. Kids need academic based at least at age four.
That is a crazy take - kids need healthy play at that age. The academic-oriented preschools are a new phenomenon. Things that used to be taught in 1st grade are now trickling down to being taught in pre-K, at the expense of appropriate development.
+1
Kids need unstructured outdoor time— hours of it— language exposure, books, and proper socialization. Our daughter was in forest school and was reading fluently before K.
Don’t pay yourself on the back. Like walking, there is a wide range of when kids learn to read. It’s largely developmental, not academic. Of
course up to a point. By 9 all kids should be reading fluently, but whether a kid can read fluently by 3-5 or 6-8 indicates nothing about their intelligence.
I’m not patting myself on the back, I’m disputing the idea that children need “academic” pre-K in order to succeed, which is the post I was responding to. That is developmentally inappropriate for most children.
Anonymous wrote:I am baffled by this. I have a 2nd grader. She's a terrific reader. She missed the school closures of Covid so got to have normal PK and K even. She was reading on her own by the summer before K (just sounding out words) and then got good, phonics-based reading instruction in K and 1st and it really took off. Her preschool was play based and that was great for her. She was actually in a Title 1 for PK-1st (we're in DC with universal PK so she did PK at at a public elementary) and now is at a non-T1.
My perception is that her cohort is full of strong readers. We live in a MC/UMC neighborhood. There are plenty of bookstores and libraries here. Most people are college educated and the adults read (both to kids and on their own). Literacy is definitely valued as part of the culture here. There are also kids who struggle but the schools and parents are getting them support they need for LDs and other issues.
I do think Covid had some lasting effects on this cohort of kids, because I think Covid and other forces changed our culture permanently -- we never really returned to a pre-Covid existence. But I don't see it in the academic performance. The kids I know seem fine.
Not saying the studies are wrong, it's just not reflected in my experience at all. And we aren't wealthy outliers -- no tutors, most families can't afford nannies or a SAHP, pretty standard in terms of childcare and extracurriculars for kids, schools are good but not considered the best in the area or anything. They are "good enough" schools for people at our SES level who can't afford private or to live in very expensive school boundaries.
So I don't get it, but I don't think it's just Covid. Because if it was, you'd see the effects everywhere and I don't see them here.
Anonymous wrote:Not covid related. It’s about how public school sticks them on laptops from K onwards. They have zero attention spans now. We are screen free at home and it’s a struggle.
Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:A lot of children, even children of highly educated, high SES parents, are coming to school without foundational skills—age appropriate self-regulation, fine motor skills that support writing, the ability to engage in productive struggle. It seems like parents are living higher stress lives and less able to engage with their children. We’re also seeing a LOT more anxiety in kids, which is affecting attention and memory in the classroom.
It may have to do with shifting social norms and trauma from the pandemic, but it has nothing to do with schools having been closed.
This is not the pandemic. This is the bad preschools who parented to do play based learning and the kids don’t learn the foundations there. Kids need academic based at least at age four.
That is a crazy take - kids need healthy play at that age. The academic-oriented preschools are a new phenomenon. Things that used to be taught in 1st grade are now trickling down to being taught in pre-K, at the expense of appropriate development.
+1
Kids need unstructured outdoor time— hours of it— language exposure, books, and proper socialization. Our daughter was in forest school and was reading fluently before K.
Don’t pay yourself on the back. Like walking, there is a wide range of when kids learn to read. It’s largely developmental, not academic. Of
course up to a point. By 9 all kids should be reading fluently, but whether a kid can read fluently by 3-5 or 6-8 indicates nothing about their intelligence.
Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:A lot of children, even children of highly educated, high SES parents, are coming to school without foundational skills—age appropriate self-regulation, fine motor skills that support writing, the ability to engage in productive struggle. It seems like parents are living higher stress lives and less able to engage with their children. We’re also seeing a LOT more anxiety in kids, which is affecting attention and memory in the classroom.
It may have to do with shifting social norms and trauma from the pandemic, but it has nothing to do with schools having been closed.
This is not the pandemic. This is the bad preschools who parented to do play based learning and the kids don’t learn the foundations there. Kids need academic based at least at age four.
That is a crazy take - kids need healthy play at that age. The academic-oriented preschools are a new phenomenon. Things that used to be taught in 1st grade are now trickling down to being taught in pre-K, at the expense of appropriate development.
+1
Kids need unstructured outdoor time— hours of it— language exposure, books, and proper socialization. Our daughter was in forest school and was reading fluently before K.
Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:A lot of children, even children of highly educated, high SES parents, are coming to school without foundational skills—age appropriate self-regulation, fine motor skills that support writing, the ability to engage in productive struggle. It seems like parents are living higher stress lives and less able to engage with their children. We’re also seeing a LOT more anxiety in kids, which is affecting attention and memory in the classroom.
It may have to do with shifting social norms and trauma from the pandemic, but it has nothing to do with schools having been closed.
This is not the pandemic. This is the bad preschools who parented to do play based learning and the kids don’t learn the foundations there. Kids need academic based at least at age four.
That is a crazy take - kids need healthy play at that age. The academic-oriented preschools are a new phenomenon. Things that used to be taught in 1st grade are now trickling down to being taught in pre-K, at the expense of appropriate development.
Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:Were that many parents masking at home?
Of course not. Something else is going on but people want an easy scapegoat.
It’s not just about masking, though the impact of it on children outside the home was not minimal in many large cities.* Studies have since shown that the shift toward more isolation and less in-person interaction had long-lasting effects, especially for young people.
Nationwide Analysis of Child Development Amid the COVID-19 Pandemic
“Children born during the pandemic had higher rates of delayed milestone achievements compared with those born before the pandemic, mainly in the socioemotional and language domains. These findings emphasize the importance of the health care system preparedness for preventive measures of developmental delays during social restrictions scenarios.”
https://publications.aap.org/pediatricsopenscience/article/1/3/1/203211/Nationwide-Analysis-of-Child-Development-Amid-the?
Six years after COVID-19 pandemic declaration, experts say mental health impacts still linger
“A study funded by the National Institute of Mental Health found that teenagers who lived through pandemic lockdowns reported higher levels of anxiety and depression compared with previous years.
Researchers also found changes in the brain scans of some teens in areas associated with memory, stress and decision-making. Some participants showed signs of what researchers described as accelerated brain aging.”
https://www.wjcl.com/article/six-years-after-covid-19-pandemic-declaration-experts-mental-health-impacts-linger/70723421
* Why Are Preschoolers Subject to the Strictest COVID Rules in New York City?
Masks are no longer required at sporting events, in offices, or on planes, but toddlers still have to wear them at school.
https://www.newyorker.com/news/annals-of-education/why-are-preschoolers-subject-to-the-strictest-covid-rules-in-new-york-city
Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:Were that many parents masking at home?
Of course not. Something else is going on but people want an easy scapegoat.