Anonymous wrote:Hey - just empathy here. I have been divorced since 2018 and I'm still astounded how my ex treats me. I don't get it. I never will. And I'm also sad that our kids notice and will ask me why he's mean to me, and I still have to be the bigger person and navigate that question carefully. But because of how my ex treats me, there isn't even a way to have that conversation with him.

I was always hopeful we'd coparent well. And we did okay for a few years and then it just got worse and worse over the years for some reason and now we just parallel parent.

So I get it. I see you. I understand you. And I'm sorry. It sucks.

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Anonymous wrote:File for 100% custody. Do it now while your kids are young.

really? because OP can't handle some hatred or resentment? She chose to have kids with this guy and he has right to be a dad and noone should punish their kids by taking 100% custody. Stupid

I mean, I agree with you about not taking away their dad, but jesus. OP was just venting. There was nothing there that indicated she "can't handle" some resentment.