Anonymous wrote:I wonder if kids reputations from high school, that are very easy to find out, especially if your kid goes to a large in-state school, might deter some, mostly young women, from being open to dating some guys.

My kid is a junior at a large VA university. These kids are all connected. Once she meets a kid from “X” high school, they can ask friends about him, google him, check instagram, etc…. Not sure if this is good or bad, but women tend to be more careful with partners now. The extra layer of politics also comes into play. Most women lean liberal, and will not give a non-liberal guy a chance.

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Anonymous wrote:My kid is hooking up and dating. Big college in the south.

Your kid tells you about their hookups?

DP:

Life 360 lets you know when your kid spends the night elsewhere.

Who the hell monitors their adult children on Life 360?!?! That is seriously dysfunctional.

Do you life 360 your spouse?
Would you keep track of location with your elderly parents?
Who the heck doesn't use technology to keep track of their family?

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Anonymous wrote:My kid is hooking up and dating. Big college in the south.

Your kid tells you about their hookups?

DP:

Life 360 lets you know when your kid spends the night elsewhere.

Who the hell monitors their adult children on Life 360?!?! That is seriously dysfunctional.

Do you life 360 your spouse?
Would you keep track of location with your elderly parents?
Who the heck doesn't use technology to keep track of their family?

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Anonymous wrote:According to the population surveys from last year - 61% of undergraduate male students and 56% of undergraduate female students had not had PIV sex in the last 12 months.

And 56% of male undergrads and 53% of female undergrads had not had oral sex in the last 12 months.

The majority of those are virgins and have never had sex.

Of students who had had sex in the last 12 months, 69% of male undergrads and 71% of female undergrads had only had 1 partner during that time frame. 20% of male undergrads and 19% of female undergrads had 2-3 partners, 5% of male students had 4-6 partners and 4% of female students had 4-6 partners, 4% of male students had 7 or more partners and 3% of female students had 7 or more partners.

Accurate. They do not date around as much as college kids in the 90s, who had fewer sexual partners than the college students of the early 80s. Times change. Less casual sex is a good thing, for the most part.

Anonymous wrote: The extra layer of politics also comes into play. Most women lean liberal, and will not give a non-liberal guy a chance.

Anonymous wrote:Do the hookups originate from parties? I feel like my kid can't figure out the scene. I don't think she's looking for hook-ups but she doesn't even talk to boys long enough (or ever) for anyone to proposition her. How does everyone actually meet to "hook-up?" Pls forgive these really strange questions. I would never breathe a word of this to my student. Just trying to understand the scene or how kids relate today. I did not live at school for most of college and it was a million years ago.

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Anonymous wrote:According to the population surveys from last year - 61% of undergraduate male students and 56% of undergraduate female students had not had PIV sex in the last 12 months.

And 56% of male undergrads and 53% of female undergrads had not had oral sex in the last 12 months.

The majority of those are virgins and have never had sex.

Of students who had had sex in the last 12 months, 69% of male undergrads and 71% of female undergrads had only had 1 partner during that time frame. 20% of male undergrads and 19% of female undergrads had 2-3 partners, 5% of male students had 4-6 partners and 4% of female students had 4-6 partners, 4% of male students had 7 or more partners and 3% of female students had 7 or more partners.

Accurate. They do not date around as much as college kids in the 90s, who had fewer sexual partners than the college students of the early 80s. Times change. Less casual sex is a good thing, for the most part.

Anonymous wrote:

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Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:My kid is hooking up and dating. Big college in the south.

Your kid tells you about their hookups?

DP:

Life 360 lets you know when your kid spends the night elsewhere.

Who the hell monitors their adult children on Life 360?!?! That is seriously dysfunctional.

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:According to the population surveys from last year - 61% of undergraduate male students and 56% of undergraduate female students had not had PIV sex in the last 12 months.

And 56% of male undergrads and 53% of female undergrads had not had oral sex in the last 12 months.

The majority of those are virgins and have never had sex.

Of students who had had sex in the last 12 months, 69% of male undergrads and 71% of female undergrads had only had 1 partner during that time frame. 20% of male undergrads and 19% of female undergrads had 2-3 partners, 5% of male students had 4-6 partners and 4% of female students had 4-6 partners, 4% of male students had 7 or more partners and 3% of female students had 7 or more partners.

Accurate. They do not date around as much as college kids in the 90s, who had fewer sexual partners than the college students of the early 80s. Times change. Less casual sex is a good thing, for the most part.