Anonymous
Post 03/02/2026 06:28     Subject: I have a 10 month old, 18 month old & 36 month old (and I am 6 weeks pregnant). AMA
My only question would be finances...life is expensive for just 1 kid around her much less 4. Pre-school, nanny, etc. all cost a lot. I see it with my D and son-in-law and they have 2 kids. They pay a fortune for their nanny and pre-school for their 4 year old.

Do you either of you come from a wealthy family and thus have a financial trampoline? Having financial support or knowing you are getting a chunk of change at some point certainly makes things easier!
Anonymous
Post 03/02/2026 06:16     Subject: I have a 10 month old, 18 month old & 36 month old (and I am 6 weeks pregnant). AMA
I find your post concerning because you talk about your kids like they’re a project. As they grow, please remember that they’re each their own person.
Anonymous
Post 03/02/2026 05:30     Subject: I have a 10 month old, 18 month old & 36 month old (and I am 6 weeks pregnant). AMA
What are your screen time rules? What WILL be your screen rules when they get older?

Anonymous
Post 03/02/2026 00:15     Subject: I have a 10 month old, 18 month old & 36 month old (and I am 6 weeks pregnant). AMA
Why do you think I have anything to ask you?
Anonymous
Post 03/01/2026 23:49     Subject: I have a 10 month old, 18 month old & 36 month old (and I am 6 weeks pregnant). AMA
Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:I’ll answer as I can.



Are you aware of something called BIRTH CONTROL or A VASECTOMY FOR YOUR DH?!


OP is a woman married to a woman.
Anonymous
Post 03/01/2026 23:03     Subject: I have a 10 month old, 18 month old & 36 month old (and I am 6 weeks pregnant). AMA
Anonymous wrote:I’ll answer as I can.


How do you like being a broodmare?
Anonymous
Post 03/01/2026 23:00     Subject: I have a 10 month old, 18 month old & 36 month old (and I am 6 weeks pregnant). AMA
Anonymous wrote:I’ll answer as I can.


36 month is a three year old s dit is stupid and silly to say 36 month old. If you have only given birth to one how do you have 3 kids? I think you are a troll
Anonymous
Post 03/01/2026 22:57     Subject: I have a 10 month old, 18 month old & 36 month old (and I am 6 weeks pregnant). AMA
Anonymous wrote:I’ll answer as I can.



Are you aware of something called BIRTH CONTROL or A VASECTOMY FOR YOUR DH?!
Anonymous
Post 02/26/2026 21:03     Subject: I have a 10 month old, 18 month old & 36 month old (and I am 6 weeks pregnant). AMA
Anonymous wrote:How are you going to afford child care for 4 kids (or is one person staying at home or is there family)?


OP already said they have a full-time nanny.
Anonymous
Post 02/26/2026 21:01     Subject: I have a 10 month old, 18 month old & 36 month old (and I am 6 weeks pregnant). AMA
Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:
Why didn't you explain that you were two women each birthing two children in your original post?



Why would I need to? I said AMA and people made assumptions right off the back.


It’s bat moron


Oops. I am not a native English speaker so often mess up common phrases.
Anonymous
Post 02/26/2026 20:59     Subject: I have a 10 month old, 18 month old & 36 month old (and I am 6 weeks pregnant). AMA
Anonymous wrote:How are you going to afford child care for 4 kids (or is one person staying at home or is there family)?


Ideally we’d keep our current nanny for 4-6 more years.

My 3-year-old goes PT to preschool and will go FT next year. I plan on the same for the following kids. I work a few nights a week so am available during the day although I do need to sleep some days. My nanny has zero issues handling all 3 and when we hired her we told her we wanted 3-4 kids and she’s very experienced.
Anonymous
Post 02/26/2026 20:56     Subject: I have a 10 month old, 18 month old & 36 month old (and I am 6 weeks pregnant). AMA
Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:This feels like you are trying to start something- not in a good way. Consider yourself lucky and focus on your kids and your spouse.


I agree. My kids are young adults and teens. Life has a way of teaching you lessons. No one is special, and I don't think you're in a position to do an AMA.




It's an anonymous AMA on DCUM. There are no qualifications required.
Anonymous
Post 02/26/2026 20:55     Subject: I have a 10 month old, 18 month old & 36 month old (and I am 6 weeks pregnant). AMA
Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:This feels like you are trying to start something- not in a good way. Consider yourself lucky and focus on your kids and your spouse.


Most people would not want kids this close in age. My kids are asleep. I’m pregnant and bored. My wife is doing some work. I thought this would be fun. Going to sleep within the hour.


I mean, most people can't afford it (we couldn't afford a full time nanny or multiples in day care with two full time jobs), and/or can't physically do it (with only one person carrying the children). You are very fortunate!
Anonymous
Post 02/26/2026 20:43     Subject: I have a 10 month old, 18 month old & 36 month old (and I am 6 weeks pregnant). AMA
Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:
Why didn't you explain that you were two women each birthing two children in your original post?



Why would I need to? I said AMA and people made assumptions right off the back.


It’s bat moron
Anonymous
Post 02/26/2026 20:34     Subject: I have a 10 month old, 18 month old & 36 month old (and I am 6 weeks pregnant). AMA
Anonymous wrote:This feels like you are trying to start something- not in a good way. Consider yourself lucky and focus on your kids and your spouse.


I agree. My kids are young adults and teens. Life has a way of teaching you lessons. No one is special, and I don't think you're in a position to do an AMA.