The men who lie and ghost are going to do that whether they meet you IRL or OLD.

Don't waste your money on matchmakers.

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Anonymous wrote:Honestly, if you're really good in bed he's going to want to lock it down. Focus on your bedroom skills and you'll have a higher conversion rate on your short-term =>long term transition.

Sad but true. I know a great looking dude, tall and big wallet that is locking down a woman that is several steps below him in desirability. He says she isn't replaceable in bed.

What the heck does she do that’s so great?

Ima guess the reverse swirl while rimming

Anonymous wrote:Outside of the usual dating apps - hinge, bumble, CMB, the league etc., what type of meetups or activities or other groups etc helping you meet a partner? Looking for men in their 30s and 40s for marriage, and getting very tired of all the ghosting/short term relationships on dating apps. I’m thinking of adding 1-2 in person meetups per week (with the hope of casting a wider net, but not necessarily dating events). Insights appreciated!

Church, obviously.

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Anonymous wrote:Honestly, if you're really good in bed he's going to want to lock it down. Focus on your bedroom skills and you'll have a higher conversion rate on your short-term =>long term transition.

LOL you thing women can't keep good men... hon, they can't find any.

High value partners will never have trouble.

Hey op. Dating a cute guy in his 30s. I'm in my 40s. Never told him my age he thinks I'm in my 30s anyway he moved here for me and bought me a ring an engagement one. I'm still online dating though I just block or unmatch the ones who say they just want sex. I don't want just that. Me and the first guy have phone sex all the time. Physical attraction is big.

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Anonymous wrote:Honestly, if you're really good in bed he's going to want to lock it down. Focus on your bedroom skills and you'll have a higher conversion rate on your short-term =>long term transition.

Sad but true. I know a great looking dude, tall and big wallet that is locking down a woman that is several steps below him in desirability. He says she isn't replaceable in bed.

I am a very successful man in early 40s and make $1M+/year. If I get a woman who keeps the peace and good in bed then I don't care how big or educated or how much money she makes. Most unattractive feature is woman who are bitter and angry.

A woman who shuts up/ keeps the peace and is good in bed! lol.

Different guy here, but the PP is right, and it has nothing to do with shutting up. The opposite really. Fun, good in bed, kind, patient, good looking (but no need to be smoking hot).

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Anonymous wrote:Honestly, if you're really good in bed he's going to want to lock it down. Focus on your bedroom skills and you'll have a higher conversion rate on your short-term =>long term transition.

LOL you thing women can't keep good men... hon, they can't find any.

I definitely think that. When women put out the "bitter with cadaverous lay" vibes like you do, men hit the road.

Hee haw!

Anonymous wrote:Honestly, if you're really good in bed he's going to want to lock it down. Focus on your bedroom skills and you'll have a higher conversion rate on your short-term =>long term transition.

+1

Anonymous wrote:Don't go for guys who are tall and hot looking. Go for regular guys.

This is great advice if you want to become resentful and bitter in 5-10 years. Settling invariably leads to contempt.

OP needs to looksmaxx as best she can for her age and aim high. Show up dressed to the nines as a customer or applicant in places where a lot of male ex-athletes work, which is often in sales. High end car dealerships, brokerage firms that cater to luxury clientele, that kind of thing. If she's athletic and outdoorsy herself, get into real jock hobbies like hang gliding, rock climbing. Vast bulk of guys into those sports are hot, adventurous and have interesting stories.

Anonymous wrote:Honestly, if you're really good in bed he's going to want to lock it down. Focus on your bedroom skills and you'll have a higher conversion rate on your short-term =>long term transition.

LOL you thing women can't keep good men... hon, they can't find any.

Anonymous wrote:Outside of the usual dating apps - hinge, bumble, CMB, the league etc., what type of meetups or activities or other groups etc helping you meet a partner? Looking for men in their 30s and 40s for marriage, and getting very tired of all the ghosting/short term relationships on dating apps. I’m thinking of adding 1-2 in person meetups per week (with the hope of casting a wider net, but not necessarily dating events). Insights appreciated!

The problem is looking for men in their 30s and 40s. Nearly all the best men I knew were all married or dating their eventual wife before the man turned 30. There is a limited pool of quality men, and they get snapped up quickly.

There is no good place to meet these guys because they're often doing activities like golf and fishing, which aren't great for socializing. Men can't approach in public lest they get blown up on social media. Sorry I don't have helpful advice, but I don't think anyone in this thread has great answers because the reality is grim.

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Anonymous wrote:Honestly, if you're really good in bed he's going to want to lock it down. Focus on your bedroom skills and you'll have a higher conversion rate on your short-term =>long term transition.

Sad but true. I know a great looking dude, tall and big wallet that is locking down a woman that is several steps below him in desirability. He says she isn't replaceable in bed.

What the heck does she do that’s so great?

If you need to ask, you’re not doing it. Basic educated women in the DMV are a dime a dozen. Hot women in bed tends to be the high demand.

Do you think that trolling on a mommy site will get you more sexual access to women? Odd behavior.

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Anonymous wrote:Honestly, if you're really good in bed he's going to want to lock it down. Focus on your bedroom skills and you'll have a higher conversion rate on your short-term =>long term transition.

Sad but true. I know a great looking dude, tall and big wallet that is locking down a woman that is several steps below him in desirability. He says she isn't replaceable in bed.

Men also like women who can cook and bake. And give good back rubs. Weird.

I never met a man who cared about this. And I was married.

I guess your cooking was subpar. haha Joking.