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Anonymous wrote:Here is a novel idea: prioritize yourself. Attend to your minor children's needs. Everyone else can fight for themselves.

That’s called narcissism. You’re not some sort of wise sage. You’re selfish.

Haha. Prioritizing yourself is certainly not called narcissism. That's the whole point of being alive: you figure out your own path. The time where women were supposed to put everyone else's needs before their own is over for good and is healthy. We're no longer the people-pleasing servant wives, [b]who have no property or money to their names.

I don’t recall there ever being a time like that.

Well, then I suggest you familiarize yourself with history before spreading "opinions". Just so you know, "women in the U.S. gained the legal right to open bank accounts, obtain credit cards, and secure loans without a male co-signer nationwide following the passage of the Equal Credit Opportunity Act in [b]1974". There are countries NOW where women are not allowed to own anything nor even show up in public without a male chaperone.
https://www.chase.com/personal/investments/learning-and-insights/article/women-in-wealth-throughout-history-a-united-states-timeline

That was 52 years ago. Most of us weren’t even alive then.

So what?

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Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:Here is a novel idea: prioritize yourself. Attend to your minor children's needs. Everyone else can fight for themselves.

That’s called narcissism. You’re not some sort of wise sage. You’re selfish.

Haha. Prioritizing yourself is certainly not called narcissism. That's the whole point of being alive: you figure out your own path. The time where women were supposed to put everyone else's needs before their own is over for good and is healthy. We're no longer the people-pleasing servant wives, [b]who have no property or money to their names.

I don’t recall there ever being a time like that.

Well, then I suggest you familiarize yourself with history before spreading "opinions". Just so you know, "women in the U.S. gained the legal right to open bank accounts, obtain credit cards, and secure loans without a male co-signer nationwide following the passage of the Equal Credit Opportunity Act in [b]1974". There are countries NOW where women are not allowed to own anything nor even show up in public without a male chaperone.
https://www.chase.com/personal/investments/learning-and-insights/article/women-in-wealth-throughout-history-a-united-states-timeline

That was 52 years ago. Most of us weren’t even alive then.

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:Here is a novel idea: prioritize yourself. Attend to your minor children's needs. Everyone else can fight for themselves.

That’s called narcissism. You’re not some sort of wise sage. You’re selfish.

Haha. Prioritizing yourself is certainly not called narcissism. That's the whole point of being alive: you figure out your own path. [b]The time where women were supposed to put everyone else's needs before their own is over for good and is healthy. We're no longer the people-pleasing servant wives, [b]who have no property or money to their names.

I don’t recall there ever being a time like that.

Well, then I suggest you familiarize yourself with history before spreading "opinions". Just so you know, "women in the U.S. gained the legal right to open bank accounts, obtain credit cards, and secure loans without a male co-signer nationwide following the passage of the Equal Credit Opportunity Act in 1974". There are countries NOW where women are not allowed to own anything nor even show up in public without a male chaperone.
https://www.chase.com/personal/investments/learning-and-insights/article/women-in-wealth-throughout-history-a-united-states-timeline

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Anonymous wrote:Blood is thicker than water. Also, this is cultural - in some cultures, you always take care of your parents for your entire adult life.

And at the direct detriment of your spouse and children. Money, effort, time, absence, stress, quality of life, living arrangements, etc.

Agree, some cultures have big strings attached, especially to their sons.

lol definitely a primarily male burden /s