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Anonymous wrote:I’m pretty adventurous but at 50 I wouldn’t do any f’ing in a car. Unlikely she’s up to something and if she were she’d probably be smart enough to make sure she threw everything away.

Agree with this. Had some fun car stuff in my teens and early 20s, but definitely past age 25 it’s a massive turn off if the guy can’t at least shell out for a hotel room. No 50 year old woman dealing with menopause is going to get hot over some broke guy in her own car.

We understand why your bedroom is likely dead. Keep doing your boring missionary in the dark on your bed. No wonder your partner no longer wants to have boring sex with you.
Sex in the car has nothing to do with not being able to afford a room. It’s about spicing it up.

I've never seen "sex in a car" on any list of sexual interests/activities. I could see it being related to exhibitionism, but maybe work that out in a context where anyone who might want to see would be doing so voluntarily?

Really? I've had car sex with so many women. Sometimes, when the mood strikes it can be exciting.

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Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:I’m pretty adventurous but at 50 I wouldn’t do any f’ing in a car. Unlikely she’s up to something and if she were she’d probably be smart enough to make sure she threw everything away.

Agree with this. Had some fun car stuff in my teens and early 20s, but definitely past age 25 it’s a massive turn off if the guy can’t at least shell out for a hotel room. No 50 year old woman dealing with menopause is going to get hot over some broke guy in her own car.

We understand why your bedroom is likely dead. Keep doing your boring missionary in the dark on your bed. No wonder your partner no longer wants to have boring sex with you.
Sex in the car has nothing to do with not being able to afford a room. It’s about spicing it up.

I've never seen "sex in a car" on any list of sexual interests/activities. I could see it being related to exhibitionism, but maybe work that out in a context where anyone who might want to see would be doing so voluntarily?

Have you never even seen a movie about the 1950s?

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Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:I’m pretty adventurous but at 50 I wouldn’t do any f’ing in a car. Unlikely she’s up to something and if she were she’d probably be smart enough to make sure she threw everything away.

Agree with this. Had some fun car stuff in my teens and early 20s, but definitely past age 25 it’s a massive turn off if the guy can’t at least shell out for a hotel room. No 50 year old woman dealing with menopause is going to get hot over some broke guy in her own car.

We understand why your bedroom is likely dead. Keep doing your boring missionary in the dark on your bed. No wonder your partner no longer wants to have boring sex with you.
Sex in the car has nothing to do with not being able to afford a room. It’s about spicing it up.

I've never seen "sex in a car" on any list of sexual interests/activities. I could see it being related to exhibitionism, but maybe work that out in a context where anyone who might want to see would be doing so voluntarily?

Okay, you know Airline passes out the wipe naps (dark blue color ones). They totally reminds me of condom package, just thought I should throw that in here!

Could someone she gave a ride to have dropped it in her car?

My son recently found some drugs at our house. We actually didn’t automatically suspect our other son. It ended up belonging to DH’s friend. They were over watching football and be dropped it.

I would not automatically suspect DH or my kids.

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Anonymous wrote:I’m pretty adventurous but at 50 I wouldn’t do any f’ing in a car. Unlikely she’s up to something and if she were she’d probably be smart enough to make sure she threw everything away.

Agree with this. Had some fun car stuff in my teens and early 20s, but definitely past age 25 it’s a massive turn off if the guy can’t at least shell out for a hotel room. No 50 year old woman dealing with menopause is going to get hot over some broke guy in her own car.

We understand why your bedroom is likely dead. Keep doing your boring missionary in the dark on your bed. No wonder your partner no longer wants to have boring sex with you.
Sex in the car has nothing to do with not being able to afford a room. It’s about spicing it up.

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Anonymous wrote:And it isn't mine (53 yo married father of 1).

My wife and I routinely trade cars. Our daughter is 11.

Literally no one else has access to our vehicles.

When she was in the shower this morning I searchd her phone- texts for keywords, FB and IG messages, location history etc and came up with nothing.

Is there:
A- any explanation where she isn't cheating?
B. Anything else I should have searched?

She stepped on it, and brought it in on her shoe.

I have seen plenty of condom wrappers lying on the ground, it's not hard to imagine one getting in the car.

This has to be the most ridiculous explanation.

She is cheating.

I discovered my wife's affair because her car's bluetooth connection for phones kept trying to connect to "Iphone 14". Like every time we took her car as a family on a long trip (her car was the nicer one) I kept having to manually switch it from that to mine to use Spotify.

I'm half embarrassed to admit this went on for months and more than once the kids and my now ex wife would see me frustrated saying "Why does this keep happening? Who's phone is this?!!"

It just never dawned on me that she was a liar and a cheat. Plus I'm not real tech savy. I mentioned it to a college friend and he was like "Ohhhh, dude, it's only going to attempt connections to things it had previously been connected too. Someone else is regularly in this car and using bluetooth."

Got a hold of her phone while she was in the shower within a week and found tons of explicit texts. iMessage's. Not even hidden in other apps. Guess she didnt care. Made the divorce easier to accept.

At least she's using protection OP. It would be a shame if you caught something from her. Actually, you are kind of being a big jerk given her level of consideration for your person health while she gets some action on the side.

Keep us posted

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Anonymous wrote:I’m pretty adventurous but at 50 I wouldn’t do any f’ing in a car. Unlikely she’s up to something and if she were she’d probably be smart enough to make sure she threw everything away.

Agree with this. Had some fun car stuff in my teens and early 20s, but definitely past age 25 it’s a massive turn off if the guy can’t at least shell out for a hotel room. No 50 year old woman dealing with menopause is going to get hot over some broke guy in her own car.

Sometimes you meet for a quickie. You can't aalways get a hotel room, especially if you are just sneaking away for an hour or so. Car sex is common among those who cheat at every age. I speak from experience.

How come no one has asked the obvious -

If wife can't afford a hotel room for trysts, does this suggest OP is a tightwad?

Anonymous wrote:I need to see the corner of this condom wrapper, please.

it was probably the corner of a blind box a kid ripped open after a trip to target

I need to see the corner of this condom wrapper, please.

Anonymous wrote:I’m pretty adventurous but at 50 I wouldn’t do any f’ing in a car. Unlikely she’s up to something and if she were she’d probably be smart enough to make sure she threw everything away.

Agree with this. Had some fun car stuff in my teens and early 20s, but definitely past age 25 it’s a massive turn off if the guy can’t at least shell out for a hotel room. No 50 year old woman dealing with menopause is going to get hot over some broke guy in her own car.