Anonymous wrote:It doesn’t feel like they actually want to be in a relationship, and that all they want is sex. I’d think they’d want a true companion. What do you think?

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Anonymous wrote:A man who left his marriage doesn't want companionship. if he did he would have stayed married. he wants independence and lack of responsibility.

I left my marriage. I wanted companionship. I didn't have a gf when I left.

You can be both: “I want companionship for me!” “I don’t want the responsibilities of a wife, home and kids”. “I want companionship, someone to love me!” Me me me

Most women with children took a long time and tried many things before pulling the trigger on divorce papers.

Most people who divorce do it for themselves. Yes, some divorces are to protect the kids, but not most. But what do the divorcing people want afterwards? Most men and women I know want both sex and some kind of companionship. I'm not saying men and women are the same, but most are not content just getting sex. Obviously there are exceptions.

I feel like this is a huge generalization and not accurate. I am divorced and most divorced people I know do not fit your assumption.

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Anonymous wrote:It takes a lot for a woman to evict the father of her children. So, divorced men are generally addicts of some sort, emotionally damaged scum incapable of pair bonding, closet cases, and other lower forms of life. They're generally trash too weak, lacking in morals, and undesirable to keep a family together despite the very low expectations men get to meet.

If you keep in mind that you're dealing with the bottom tier of the lesser half of the human race, then all the problems divorced men cause make sense. I get that many older women are stuck fishing in this polluted end of the pond as a practical matter, but don't blind yourself to what you're getting.

Please don't bother attacking me if you're a divorce man hurt by the truth or a woman dealing with a divorced man who is mad about the truth. You know divorce courts aren't sending their best.

Um. What? Men are just as likely to “evict” their cheating whores of a wife.

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Anonymous wrote:A man who left his marriage doesn't want companionship. if he did he would have stayed married. he wants independence and lack of responsibility.

Most men don't leave their marriage, they get booted by women who are tired of handling 85% of everything.

No, many just decide it's just cheaper to keep her. Remember, men sacrifice their happiness for their family. Women are very quick to sacrifice their family for their happiness. Because women are selfish shrews.

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Anonymous wrote:A man who left his marriage doesn't want companionship. if he did he would have stayed married. he wants independence and lack of responsibility.

I left my marriage. I wanted companionship. I didn't have a gf when I left.

You can be both: “I want companionship for me!” “I don’t want the responsibilities of a wife, home and kids”. “I want companionship, someone to love me!” Me me me

Most people who divorce do it for themselves. Yes, some divorces are to protect the kids, but not most. But what do the divorcing people want afterwards? Most men and women I know want both sex and some kind of companionship. I'm not saying men and women are the same, but most are not content just getting sex. Obviously there are exceptions.

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Anonymous wrote:A man who left his marriage doesn't want companionship. if he did he would have stayed married. he wants independence and lack of responsibility.

Most men don't leave their marriage, they get booted by women who are tired of handling 85% of everything.

Anonymous wrote:It takes a lot for a woman to evict the father of her children. So, divorced men are generally addicts of some sort, emotionally damaged scum incapable of pair bonding, closet cases, and other lower forms of life. They're generally trash too weak, lacking in morals, and undesirable to keep a family together despite the very low expectations men get to meet.

If you keep in mind that you're dealing with the bottom tier of the lesser half of the human race, then all the problems divorced men cause make sense. I get that many older women are stuck fishing in this polluted end of the pond as a practical matter, but don't blind yourself to what you're getting.

Please don't bother attacking me if you're a divorce man hurt by the truth or a woman dealing with a divorced man who is mad about the truth. You know divorce courts aren't sending their best.

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Anonymous wrote:It doesn’t feel like they actually want to be in a relationship, and that all they want is sex. I’d think they’d want a true companion. What do you think?

They are always looking for a caretaker.

A woman to take care of care of them- their sex, their image, their ego, their home, their meals, their arm candy at events, their kids, their health, their holidays.

Some have money and think throwing money at the above for some named conversations is the way to go. Is that a “relationship”? Yes, a transactional one.

Yes, but at least in that case it's a transaction and not a one-sided taking.

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Anonymous wrote:It doesn’t feel like they actually want to be in a relationship, and that all they want is sex. I’d think they’d want a true companion. What do you think?

They are always looking for a caretaker.

A woman to take care of care of them- their sex, their image, their ego, their home, their meals, their arm candy at events, their kids, their health, their holidays.

Some have money and think throwing money at the above for some named conversations is the way to go. Is that a “relationship”? Yes, a transactional one.

Anonymous wrote:It takes a lot for a woman to evict the father of her children. So, divorced men are generally addicts of some sort, emotionally damaged scum incapable of pair bonding, closet cases, and other lower forms of life. They're generally trash too weak, lacking in morals, and undesirable to keep a family together despite the very low expectations men get to meet.

If you keep in mind that you're dealing with the bottom tier of the lesser half of the human race, then all the problems divorced men cause make sense. I get that many older women are stuck fishing in this polluted end of the pond as a practical matter, but don't blind yourself to what you're getting.

Please don't bother attacking me if you're a divorce man hurt by the truth or a woman dealing with a divorced man who is mad about the truth. You know divorce courts aren't sending their best.

Anonymous wrote:Its a turn off to me that even if I were to find someone who could be q companion and a good sex partner, I have to be ok wirh him possibly having been with hundreds of women before. That is also a turn off to me. In my mind that person is like a prostitute being with people they barely know.

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Anonymous wrote:Goodness no.

When there is a divorce, the husband is usually remarried before the wife. Most men desperately need affection, ego-boosting, and someone to do the laundry and maintain social ties even more than they need sex.

This. Don't forget cooking and grocery shopping as well.

Anonymous wrote:Some of them. I've dated a few that were freshly divorced, who had a dead bedroom for a couple years pre-divorce. They were super excited to have regular sex again. In my case they were also looking to date me exclusively, which was good, but they weren't emotionally ready for it.

So it depends on the guy. But in general, yes. It's usually not ALL they want, but yes.