Anonymous
Post 12/20/2025 22:53     Subject: Perfect on paper guy but he’s…5’4
Anonymous wrote:Don't do affirmative action for men. He's not the perfect man. He's missing a key element important to you: height. Imagine if you were 250lbs, but everything else about you was unchanged. He wouldn't give you the time of day long enough to make out your hair color, much less actually date you long enough to think of you as the perfect woman who just happens to be fat. You'd just be another fat chick he passed on. He wouldn't feel a bit of guilt about it either because no one expects men to downgrade their standards.

Think of it this way: How mad would you be if this midget cheated on you? It would sting that much more because you lowered your standards for him. Yet, this guy is every bit as likely to cheat as his 6'4 counterpart because men don't do gratitude. Move on.


One of these things can be changed (weight) and the other cannot (height).

I say this as someone who is both fat and short.
Anonymous
Post 12/20/2025 22:51     Subject: Perfect on paper guy but he’s…5’4
The troll posts here are getting worse and worse.
Anonymous
Post 12/20/2025 22:51     Subject: Perfect on paper guy but he’s…5’4
Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:Why is height always so important for women?
Even short women reject men because of their height. It doesn’t matter that they are taller than them.

Why is weight important to men? Why are breasts and butts important to men?



Weight is at least somewhat changeable, especially today with GLP1s.

Men are nowhere near as picky about “breasts and butts” as women are about height.

Says who? Have you been fat before?



Yes.

Losing weight is not easy, but it is easier than getting taller.

Other than having one of those medieval operations where he is bedridden while his legs are broken in multiple places and then stretched out for several months, just to add an inch or two, there is nothing men can do to get taller.
Anonymous
Post 12/20/2025 22:50     Subject: Perfect on paper guy but he’s…5’4
Anonymous wrote:OP, don’t pursue this. You’ll just feel like you’re doing him a favor. Eventually, you will resent him because how dare a short man not worship you for gracing him with your majestic presence.

I am a big believer in women not settling—for the man’s sake. Unless you are physically attracted and respect him you will end up treating him poorly for failing to live up to your expectations. I see this all the time. Let him go find a woman who will appreciate him.


DP. This is great advice.
Anonymous
Post 12/20/2025 22:44     Subject: Perfect on paper guy but he’s…5’4
OP, don’t pursue this. You’ll just feel like you’re doing him a favor. Eventually, you will resent him because how dare a short man not worship you for gracing him with your majestic presence.

I am a big believer in women not settling—for the man’s sake. Unless you are physically attracted and respect him you will end up treating him poorly for failing to live up to your expectations. I see this all the time. Let him go find a woman who will appreciate him.
Anonymous
Post 12/20/2025 22:42     Subject: Perfect on paper guy but he’s…5’4
Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:Why is height always so important for women?
Even short women reject men because of their height. It doesn’t matter that they are taller than them.

Why is weight important to men? Why are breasts and butts important to men?



Weight is at least somewhat changeable, especially today with GLP1s.

Men are nowhere near as picky about “breasts and butts” as women are about height.

Says who? Have you been fat before?
Anonymous
Post 12/20/2025 22:36     Subject: Perfect on paper guy but he’s…5’4
It doesn’t matter unless it does. Only you know a deal breaker OP.

You are asking the internet can I fall for a
Shorter guy - yes. Yes, this is allowed.
Anonymous
Post 12/20/2025 22:27     Subject: Perfect on paper guy but he’s…5’4
Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:Why is height always so important for women?
Even short women reject men because of their height. It doesn’t matter that they are taller than them.

Why is weight important to men? Why are breasts and butts important to men?



Weight is at least somewhat changeable, especially today with GLP1s.

Men are nowhere near as picky about “breasts and butts” as women are about height.
Anonymous
Post 12/20/2025 21:55     Subject: Perfect on paper guy but he’s…5’4
Anonymous wrote:Why is height always so important for women?
Even short women reject men because of their height. It doesn’t matter that they are taller than them.

Why is weight important to men? Why are breasts and butts important to men?
Anonymous
Post 12/20/2025 21:53     Subject: Perfect on paper guy but he’s…5’4
Don't do affirmative action for men. He's not the perfect man. He's missing a key element important to you: height. Imagine if you were 250lbs, but everything else about you was unchanged. He wouldn't give you the time of day long enough to make out your hair color, much less actually date you long enough to think of you as the perfect woman who just happens to be fat. You'd just be another fat chick he passed on. He wouldn't feel a bit of guilt about it either because no one expects men to downgrade their standards.

Think of it this way: How mad would you be if this midget cheated on you? It would sting that much more because you lowered your standards for him. Yet, this guy is every bit as likely to cheat as his 6'4 counterpart because men don't do gratitude. Move on.
Anonymous
Post 12/20/2025 21:41     Subject: Perfect on paper guy but he’s…5’4
Seriously? I'm 5'3" and I've dated guys as short as my exact height.

Get over yourself.
Anonymous
Post 12/20/2025 21:35     Subject: Re:Perfect on paper guy but he’s…5’4
You are not attracted to him. Move on. Let him move on. Don't try to force this.
Anonymous
Post 12/20/2025 21:09     Subject: Perfect on paper guy but he’s…5’4
If you want short kids - go for it.
Anonymous
Post 12/20/2025 21:05     Subject: Perfect on paper guy but he’s…5’4
Anonymous wrote:OP, the guy is taller than you by a few inches. What's your issue? I have actually also met a great 5'4" guy, however I'm 5'9". Now, sadly, that doesn't work.


I’ll have to tell that to my husband, who is 5 inches shorter than me. we’ve been together 15 years so I’m surprised to hear it can’t work
Anonymous
Post 12/20/2025 21:02     Subject: Re:Perfect on paper guy but he’s…5’4
Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:Op here. I’m petite I don’t want a petite man too!! He should at least be 5’8!


I mean ideally you'd be 5'5" but here you are


Truth!!!