When I was very young I might have thought that as I pursued women. Indeed, my sex drive has always been high but I've been in many relationships with very high sex drive women who I wouldn't dare ever deny them sex unless I was really sick with a fever.

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Anonymous wrote:This reminds me of the joke:

Him: I think men have a higher sex drive than women.

Her: I don't think that's true! I have a very high sex drive.

Him: OK, let's have sex then.

Her: No; I'm not attracted to you!

Him: I'm not attracted to you either....

That's like saying people who'll eat anything, even food off the floor, love food more. Not true. You don't seem to know the difference between uncontrolled animalistic compulsion and actual appreciation/enjoyment.

So, like a sex drive.

You don't seem to know what a sex drive is. Sex drive is the urge, the physical and mental desire for sex. What you do with it (i.e., have sex with just anyone) isn't what makes it high or low. If you wouldn't have sex with a any random homeless AIDS victim I point out while someone else would, does that tell you anything about whose sex drive is higher or does that tell you who has serious mental problems?

The question in the thread is about sex drive -- not about skill, judgment, or enjoyment. The joke is a joke, but has the element of truth that men will have sex with people they don't find attractive simply because of sex drive. Extending that to a homeless person with AIDS is a weird move, but what does it prove? Very few men would do such a thing, but if anyone is going to take a risk like that, it is almost certain to be a man driven by sex hormones.

I'm not sure why you are offended by this. Maybe you are defensive because deep down you feel that men have sex with you not because of attraction, but simply because of hormones.

What a weirdo comment out of left field. Did you have this pre-written? It reads like what a bitter gay or trans-identified man would write out of envy that 99% of men have eyes only for women. Sorry the men you want instead want women?

Talk about a weirdo comment. The post is saying that men want to have sex women because of sex hormones. It says nothing about men having sex with men. You seem triggered by it though, which makes me think you are one of those ugly women who is deluded enough to think that men are having sex with you because they think you're attractive, rather than because of sex hormones. Lol

Twink, bye. Take your issues to therapy.

Weird homophobic turn here. Amazing that you are so triggered by this. Work on yourself and maybe you won't feel so insecure.

NP. You didn't deny that you're a man trying to rationalize why men prefer women over you. That's creepy enough, but then you also came to a women's board to hijack a thread hoping to find a woman to argue with. PP nailed it when she called you a weirdo. Get help.

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Anonymous wrote:This reminds me of the joke:

Him: I think men have a higher sex drive than women.

Her: I don't think that's true! I have a very high sex drive.

Him: OK, let's have sex then.

Her: No; I'm not attracted to you!

Him: I'm not attracted to you either....

That's like saying people who'll eat anything, even food off the floor, love food more. Not true. You don't seem to know the difference between uncontrolled animalistic compulsion and actual appreciation/enjoyment.

So, like a sex drive.

You don't seem to know what a sex drive is. Sex drive is the urge, the physical and mental desire for sex. What you do with it (i.e., have sex with just anyone) isn't what makes it high or low. If you wouldn't have sex with a any random homeless AIDS victim I point out while someone else would, does that tell you anything about whose sex drive is higher or does that tell you who has serious mental problems?

The question in the thread is about sex drive -- not about skill, judgment, or enjoyment. The joke is a joke, but has the element of truth that men will have sex with people they don't find attractive simply because of sex drive. Extending that to a homeless person with AIDS is a weird move, but what does it prove? Very few men would do such a thing, but if anyone is going to take a risk like that, it is almost certain to be a man driven by sex hormones.

I'm not sure why you are offended by this. Maybe you are defensive because deep down you feel that men have sex with you not because of attraction, but simply because of hormones.

What a weirdo comment out of left field. Did you have this pre-written? It reads like what a bitter gay or trans-identified man would write out of envy that 99% of men have eyes only for women. Sorry the men you want instead want women?

Talk about a weirdo comment. The post is saying that men want to have sex women because of sex hormones. It says nothing about men having sex with men. You seem triggered by it though, which makes me think you are one of those ugly women who is deluded enough to think that men are having sex with you because they think you're attractive, rather than because of sex hormones. Lol

Twink, bye. Take your issues to therapy.

Weird homophobic turn here. Amazing that you are so triggered by this. Work on yourself and maybe you won't feel so insecure.

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Anonymous wrote:This reminds me of the joke:

Him: I think men have a higher sex drive than women.

Her: I don't think that's true! I have a very high sex drive.

Him: OK, let's have sex then.

Her: No; I'm not attracted to you!

Him: I'm not attracted to you either....

That's like saying people who'll eat anything, even food off the floor, love food more. Not true. You don't seem to know the difference between uncontrolled animalistic compulsion and actual appreciation/enjoyment.

So, like a sex drive.

You don't seem to know what a sex drive is. Sex drive is the urge, the physical and mental desire for sex. What you do with it (i.e., have sex with just anyone) isn't what makes it high or low. If you wouldn't have sex with a any random homeless AIDS victim I point out while someone else would, does that tell you anything about whose sex drive is higher or does that tell you who has serious mental problems?

The question in the thread is about sex drive -- not about skill, judgment, or enjoyment. The joke is a joke, but has the element of truth that men will have sex with people they don't find attractive simply because of sex drive. Extending that to a homeless person with AIDS is a weird move, but what does it prove? Very few men would do such a thing, but if anyone is going to take a risk like that, it is almost certain to be a man driven by sex hormones.

I'm not sure why you are offended by this. Maybe you are defensive because deep down you feel that men have sex with you not because of attraction, but simply because of hormones.

What a weirdo comment out of left field. Did you have this pre-written? It reads like what a bitter gay or trans-identified man would write out of envy that 99% of men have eyes only for women. Sorry the men you want instead want women?

Talk about a weirdo comment. The post is saying that men want to have sex women because of sex hormones. It says nothing about men having sex with men. You seem triggered by it though, which makes me think you are one of those ugly women who is deluded enough to think that men are having sex with you because they think you're attractive, rather than because of sex hormones. Lol

Twink, bye. Take your issues to therapy.

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Anonymous wrote:This reminds me of the joke:

Him: I think men have a higher sex drive than women.

Her: I don't think that's true! I have a very high sex drive.

Him: OK, let's have sex then.

Her: No; I'm not attracted to you!

Him: I'm not attracted to you either....

That's like saying people who'll eat anything, even food off the floor, love food more. Not true. You don't seem to know the difference between uncontrolled animalistic compulsion and actual appreciation/enjoyment.

So, like a sex drive.

You don't seem to know what a sex drive is. Sex drive is the urge, the physical and mental desire for sex. What you do with it (i.e., have sex with just anyone) isn't what makes it high or low. If you wouldn't have sex with a any random homeless AIDS victim I point out while someone else would, does that tell you anything about whose sex drive is higher or does that tell you who has serious mental problems?

The question in the thread is about sex drive -- not about skill, judgment, or enjoyment. The joke is a joke, but has the element of truth that men will have sex with people they don't find attractive simply because of sex drive. Extending that to a homeless person with AIDS is a weird move, but what does it prove? Very few men would do such a thing, but if anyone is going to take a risk like that, it is almost certain to be a man driven by sex hormones.

I'm not sure why you are offended by this. Maybe you are defensive because deep down you feel that men have sex with you not because of attraction, but simply because of hormones.

What a weirdo comment out of left field. Did you have this pre-written? It reads like what a bitter gay or trans-identified man would write out of envy that 99% of men have eyes only for women. Sorry the men you want instead want women?

Talk about a weirdo comment. The post is saying that men want to have sex women because of sex hormones. It says nothing about men having sex with men. You seem triggered by it though, which makes me think you are one of those ugly women who is deluded enough to think that men are having sex with you because they think you're attractive, rather than because of sex hormones. Lol

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Anonymous wrote:This reminds me of the joke:

Him: I think men have a higher sex drive than women.

Her: I don't think that's true! I have a very high sex drive.

Him: OK, let's have sex then.

Her: No; I'm not attracted to you!

Him: I'm not attracted to you either....

That's like saying people who'll eat anything, even food off the floor, love food more. Not true. You don't seem to know the difference between uncontrolled animalistic compulsion and actual appreciation/enjoyment.

So, like a sex drive.

You don't seem to know what a sex drive is. Sex drive is the urge, the physical and mental desire for sex. What you do with it (i.e., have sex with just anyone) isn't what makes it high or low. If you wouldn't have sex with a any random homeless AIDS victim I point out while someone else would, does that tell you anything about whose sex drive is higher or does that tell you who has serious mental problems?

The question in the thread is about sex drive -- not about skill, judgment, or enjoyment. The joke is a joke, but has the element of truth that men will have sex with people they don't find attractive simply because of sex drive. Extending that to a homeless person with AIDS is a weird move, but what does it prove? Very few men would do such a thing, but if anyone is going to take a risk like that, it is almost certain to be a man driven by sex hormones.

I'm not sure why you are offended by this. Maybe you are defensive because deep down you feel that men have sex with you not because of attraction, but simply because of hormones.

What a weirdo comment out of left field. Did you have this pre-written? It reads like what a bitter gay or trans-identified man would write out of envy that 99% of men have eyes only for women. Sorry the men you want instead want women?

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Anonymous wrote:This reminds me of the joke:

Him: I think men have a higher sex drive than women.

Her: I don't think that's true! I have a very high sex drive.

Him: OK, let's have sex then.

Her: No; I'm not attracted to you!

Him: I'm not attracted to you either....

That's like saying people who'll eat anything, even food off the floor, love food more. Not true. You don't seem to know the difference between uncontrolled animalistic compulsion and actual appreciation/enjoyment.

So, like a sex drive.

You don't seem to know what a sex drive is. Sex drive is the urge, the physical and mental desire for sex. What you do with it (i.e., have sex with just anyone) isn't what makes it high or low. If you wouldn't have sex with a any random homeless AIDS victim I point out while someone else would, does that tell you anything about whose sex drive is higher or does that tell you who has serious mental problems?

The question in the thread is about sex drive -- not about skill, judgment, or enjoyment. The joke is a joke, but has the element of truth that men will have sex with people they don't find attractive simply because of sex drive. Extending that to a homeless person with AIDS is a weird move, but what does it prove? Very few men would do such a thing, but if anyone is going to take a risk like that, it is almost certain to be a man driven by sex hormones.

I'm not sure why you are offended by this. Maybe you are defensive because deep down you feel that men have sex with you not because of attraction, but simply because of hormones.

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Anonymous wrote:My husband likes to say he has a high sex drive, I think it helps him mentally to say it. However, his performance or lack thereof says otherwise. He is ok with once a week. I literally have to please myself every other day or I’m going insane. He doesn’t last long in bed at all. It’s like shooting blanks. So the end prize is never really a prize. Again, maybe he thinks about it but performance, no.

if he doesn't last long then why can't he wait until you c**m via oral and toys first before PIV. Seems like an easy fix to me.

may be Op is shy around him to use toys.

Yes

-my husband

Anonymous wrote:My husband likes to say he has a high sex drive, I think it helps him mentally to say it. However, his performance or lack thereof says otherwise. He is ok with once a week. I literally have to please myself every other day or I’m going insane. He doesn’t last long in bed at all. It’s like shooting blanks. So the end prize is never really a prize. Again, maybe he thinks about it but performance, no.

if he doesn't last long then why can't he wait until you c**m via oral and toys first before PIV. Seems like an easy fix to me.

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Anonymous wrote:My husband likes to say he has a high sex drive, I think it helps him mentally to say it. However, his performance or lack thereof says otherwise. He is ok with once a week. I literally have to please myself every other day or I’m going insane. He doesn’t last long in bed at all. It’s like shooting blanks. So the end prize is never really a prize. Again, maybe he thinks about it but performance, no.

ages? That is strange though. Who initiates sex most of the time?

This is probably more common than people assume. Many of the women I know have higher drives than their husbands. But the husbands would never admit it and always come up with reasons why " today is not a good day". 😆

Perhaps this applies to White men. Every black man I've met has had a really strong sex drive. Many black women often express frustration about their partners desiring sex too frequently.

I hope this is true. I'm Black, but I've never been with a Black man. I'm in the middle of divorcing the most effete White man with the shittiest sex imaginable. I'm going to give Black men a try for once and hopefully find that amazing sex.

I am African, so Black I guess haha. I think its a bunch BS. Sex drive is not correlated to race. Sexual compatibility is key to a great sex life. I do have a very high sex drive for 3 reasons. #1 I meditate a lot, so I manage stress well. #2 I lift very heavy weight. Although I "look" skinny I am very strong for a 49 years old man. #3 I chose a sexually compatible partner.

Anonymous wrote:Yes, at different times in life. No, in others.

This is the most accurate answer from my experience.

And at a certain age, lots of men trade their sex drive for the ready opportunity to have a woman mother and nurse them, instead.

I will absolutely 100% not deny being grateful that I was ready for sex all the time in my 20s and early 30s with my then boyfriend who was, now that I look back at it, completely on the spectrum. I just didn't know what that looked like. But he would travel overnight Friday after his classes to the state where I lived just to have sex with me on a floor futon over 48 hours before heading back overnight Sunday for Monday classes.

Then we got married and we had a special needs kid and then two more.

Now (in our 60s) he's got someone else for that. She also packs his clothes, makes all their travel arrangements, heats up trays of things from catering places, does his laundry, drives him to work and home, supervises the housekeeping, personally cuts his hair and probably trims him in other places, laughs at his jokes and doesn't get upset when he only ever wants to watch the last ten minutes of any action movie "because that's when all the stuff happens" ... he's rich.

That's why I fully believe this. Women are more strategic when it comes to sex. Sex for intimacy and security.

We women bleed all the time and have to do childbirth and maybe breast-feed and stuff, but lots of men are slaves to their physical drives that I do not envy AT ALL.

I don't think women would have invented things like P*** or W**

How is this a serious question?

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Anonymous wrote:This reminds me of the joke:

Him: I think men have a higher sex drive than women.

Her: I don't think that's true! I have a very high sex drive.

Him: OK, let's have sex then.

Her: No; I'm not attracted to you!

Him: I'm not attracted to you either....

That's like saying people who'll eat anything, even food off the floor, love food more. Not true. You don't seem to know the difference between uncontrolled animalistic compulsion and actual appreciation/enjoyment.

You sound confused. Sex drive and appreciating/enjoying sex are two different things. You can love sex without having a high sex drive.

The irony.

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Anonymous wrote:This reminds me of the joke:

Him: I think men have a higher sex drive than women.

Her: I don't think that's true! I have a very high sex drive.

Him: OK, let's have sex then.

Her: No; I'm not attracted to you!

Him: I'm not attracted to you either....

That's like saying people who'll eat anything, even food off the floor, love food more. Not true. You don't seem to know the difference between uncontrolled animalistic compulsion and actual appreciation/enjoyment.

So, like a sex drive.

You don't seem to know what a sex drive is. Sex drive is the urge, the physical and mental desire for sex. What you do with it (i.e., have sex with just anyone) isn't what makes it high or low. If you wouldn't have sex with a any random homeless AIDS victim I point out while someone else would, does that tell you anything about whose sex drive is higher or does that tell you who has serious mental problems?