Anonymous
12/09/2025 11:44
Subject: Fwb said 18-30 yr olds are most sexually attractive
Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:So you're telling him about hot guys you work with and then getting offended when he is similarly candid with you? It sounds like he accidentally touched a nerve without realizing that you're probably sensitive about your age. Not worth breaking up.
What OP said about guys at work carried no negative connotation just a pure statement of fact. His statement carries a negative statement with an attitude that nobody in their right mind would want a MILF. OP is not even a "MILF" she's very young!
OP - he's telling that because he's sleeping with many other, much younger women and this is where his passions are. Drop him.
I had a very bad experience with a man like that he hurt my self esteem and left me suddenly
He never said anything negative. She asked what age he finds most attractive. He said 18-30. That's true for most men. He never said that women 30 and older are not attractive at all. He said 18-30 are MOST attractive. There is nothing negative there.
Anonymous
12/09/2025 11:42
Subject: Fwb said 18-30 yr olds are most sexually attractive
Why is this a problem? 18-30 year olds ARE the most sexually attractive. But that doesn't mean I want to sleep with them. Men of those ages are BOYS and not attractive at all for that reason.
But physically - MMMMM - chef's kiss! Same with women. The idea that somebody my age might find a 23 year old woman attractive isn't a problem. Finding a soulmate in that person makes you wonder what is wrong with them (the older person) that they connect well to a 23 yo.
But physically - MMMMM - chef's kiss! Same with women. The idea that somebody my age might find a 23 year old woman attractive isn't a problem. Finding a soulmate in that person makes you wonder what is wrong with them (the older person) that they connect well to a 23 yo.
Anonymous
12/09/2025 11:20
Subject: Fwb said 18-30 yr olds are most sexually attractive
Don’t sleep with people you’re not dating. Dump this guy and make space in your life for a real relationship.
Anonymous
12/09/2025 11:15
Subject: Fwb said 18-30 yr olds are most sexually attractive
A 43 year old man attracted to teens is NOT OK. I would not have this creep around your children.
Anonymous
12/09/2025 11:11
Subject: Re:Fwb said 18-30 yr olds are most sexually attractive
OP, this is catnip to the miserable middle aged men that post on this mommy board. I’m not sure what you thought the outcome would be other than a bunch of responders frothing at the mouth to call you trash, damaged goods, and simply too unattractive for even a FWB relationship. Time to pack it up and hang up your hat sexually once you turn 31.
Don’t think too deeply about it, just break things off.
Don’t think too deeply about it, just break things off.
Anonymous
12/09/2025 11:10
Subject: Fwb said 18-30 yr olds are most sexually attractive
Anonymous wrote:Trash attracts trash
💯
Anonymous
12/09/2025 11:09
Subject: Fwb said 18-30 yr olds are most sexually attractive
Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:Trash attracts trash
This. You're not the catch you think you are, OP. Damaged goods. That's why you're stuck with a FWB.
This
Anonymous
12/09/2025 11:05
Subject: Fwb said 18-30 yr olds are most sexually attractive
OP, are you developing feelings for him? If he is your FWB then why does it matter what he says?
Anonymous
12/09/2025 10:12
Subject: Re:Fwb said 18-30 yr olds are most sexually attractive
Anonymous wrote:When he was 47 years-old, Pierre Trudeau began courting his 18 year-old future wife, and they eventually stayed married for almost 10 years!
Nothing wrong with dating a 18 year-old. They are adults
+1.
An adult is anyone 18 or older. Anyone can date them.
And yes: the whole world finds a fit 18 year-old attractive.
Why not?
Anonymous
12/09/2025 08:36
Subject: Fwb said 18-30 yr olds are most sexually attractive
Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:I thought this was fairly common? There's always a "teen" (I presume 18) genre link front and center at porn sites.
I'm aware, just wish he didn't put the cutoff at 30 knowing damn well I turn 31 soon.
He was trying to neg you so you will feel insecure and continue hanging out with him. Don't fall for it.
Op here, this makes the most sense to me. Honestly I am kind of out of his league and I feel he knows it. as far as he has told me, I am the only girl he's slept with since we first hung out. Meanwhile I have tons of options, have had a threesome and other fun. I am honest about it, so there's no reason for him not to tell me if he is hooking up with others.
He tells me about past adventures including paying for sex. I kind of wonder if most of his sexual experiences are paid for, as he is kind of clueless in bed. I don't even really like him for the sex, I like our conversation and the fun dates he plans.
OP that is not a FWB. That is someone you are seeing.
Exactly. OP you are dating this man and the relationship is doomed. Neither of you seems particularly mature - sounds like you are one-upping each other regarding sexual experiences. Why can you handle honesty there but not about the fact that he finds young nubile women sexually attractive? You need to dump this guy, think about what you are really looking for in a relationship whether serious or not, and go from there.
Anonymous
12/09/2025 08:14
Subject: Fwb said 18-30 yr olds are most sexually attractive
Anonymous wrote:Drop him. I am 48 and the last man I slept with was 30. He would never say such a thing.
At your age, you have no reason you need to sleep with a 40+ man. I don’t.
Why on earth would a 30 years old man sleep with a a 48 years old woman, whose coochie is probably starting to get wrinkly....
I guess he can't find any woman his age.
Please sleep with men your age, you are way too old to sleep with men in their 30s
Anonymous
12/09/2025 08:07
Subject: Fwb said 18-30 yr olds are most sexually attractive
Anonymous wrote:Trash attracts trash
This. You're not the catch you think you are, OP. Damaged goods. That's why you're stuck with a FWB.
Anonymous
12/09/2025 08:02
Subject: Fwb said 18-30 yr olds are most sexually attractive
Anonymous wrote:So you're telling him about hot guys you work with and then getting offended when he is similarly candid with you? It sounds like he accidentally touched a nerve without realizing that you're probably sensitive about your age. Not worth breaking up.
Found the FWB!
Anonymous
12/09/2025 07:37
Subject: Fwb said 18-30 yr olds are most sexually attractive
Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:I thought this was fairly common? There's always a "teen" (I presume 18) genre link front and center at porn sites.
I'm aware, just wish he didn't put the cutoff at 30 knowing damn well I turn 31 soon.
He was trying to neg you so you will feel insecure and continue hanging out with him. Don't fall for it.
Op here, this makes the most sense to me. Honestly I am kind of out of his league and I feel he knows it. as far as he has told me, I am the only girl he's slept with since we first hung out. Meanwhile I have tons of options, have had a threesome and other fun. I am honest about it, so there's no reason for him not to tell me if he is hooking up with others.
He tells me about past adventures including paying for sex. I kind of wonder if most of his sexual experiences are paid for, as he is kind of clueless in bed. I don't even really like him for the sex, I like our conversation and the fun dates he plans.
OP that is not a FWB. That is someone you are seeing.
Anonymous
12/09/2025 07:26
Subject: Fwb said 18-30 yr olds are most sexually attractive
Trash attracts trash