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Anonymous wrote:Op here. Ruled out lactose intolerance and no discernable food groups that seem to cause it (but will definitely avoid Chex mix!). Not on a GLP. The night gas is while he’s sleeping so our bedroom stinks to high hell. Maybe this is where the term old fart comes from….

He needs to poop at night before bed. I get that he can’t control his body while sleeping but he does need to make sure his colon is empty before hot boxing you all night. Or he can sleep in the guest room.

Other than taking a laxative after dinner/before bed, how would you make this happen? Maybe others can poop on command, but I'm not one of them.

I can't imagine going to my husband before bed and asking him, "time for bed, have you pooped yet?" He is not a toddler FFS. This is insanity.

That's exactly why I asked! 1. I would never say that to DH and 2. I'm not sure how one would execute on that command anyway.

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Anonymous wrote:Op here. Ruled out lactose intolerance and no discernable food groups that seem to cause it (but will definitely avoid Chex mix!). Not on a GLP. The night gas is while he’s sleeping so our bedroom stinks to high hell. Maybe this is where the term old fart comes from….

He needs to poop at night before bed. I get that he can’t control his body while sleeping but he does need to make sure his colon is empty before hot boxing you all night. Or he can sleep in the guest room.

Other than taking a laxative after dinner/before bed, how would you make this happen? Maybe others can poop on command, but I'm not one of them.

I can't imagine going to my husband before bed and asking him, "time for bed, have you pooped yet?" He is not a toddler FFS. This is insanity.

Anonymous wrote:I can't imagine going to my husband before bed and asking him, "time for bed, have you pooped yet?" He is not a toddler FFS. This is insanity.

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Anonymous wrote:Op here. Ruled out lactose intolerance and no discernable food groups that seem to cause it (but will definitely avoid Chex mix!). Not on a GLP. The night gas is while he’s sleeping so our bedroom stinks to high hell. Maybe this is where the term old fart comes from….

He needs to poop at night before bed. I get that he can’t control his body while sleeping but he does need to make sure his colon is empty before hot boxing you all night. Or he can sleep in the guest room.

Other than taking a laxative after dinner/before bed, how would you make this happen? Maybe others can poop on command, but I'm not one of them.

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Anonymous wrote:Op here. Ruled out lactose intolerance and no discernable food groups that seem to cause it (but will definitely avoid Chex mix!). Not on a GLP. The night gas is while he’s sleeping so our bedroom stinks to high hell. Maybe this is where the term old fart comes from….

He needs to poop at night before bed. I get that he can’t control his body while sleeping but he does need to make sure his colon is empty before hot boxing you all night. Or he can sleep in the guest room.

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Anonymous wrote: I’m not thinking twice if it’s in the bathroom in the middle of the night - if there’s ever an ok time and place to fart, that would be it. I can’t imagine judging someone for farting in a bathroom.

We fart openly but I don’t raise a butt cheek or make a show of it, and I avoid it at the dinner table.

This^. Flatulence is a genuine health issue with little personal control over it while making a show of it is just rude behavior.

Anonymous wrote:My dh has ulcerative colitis but almost always goes to the bathroom if he's going to have a loud or smelly fart. I think that's fine. Elsewhere, yuck.

Anonymous wrote: I’m not thinking twice if it’s in the bathroom in the middle of the night - if there’s ever an ok time and place to fart, that would be it. I can’t imagine judging someone for farting in a bathroom.

We fart openly but I don’t raise a butt cheek or make a show of it, and I avoid it at the dinner table.

Anonymous wrote:One of the green flags when I started dating my husband was that he said “excuse me” when he farts. Still does, 20 years later.

Anonymous wrote:GLP1 new to him?

Anonymous wrote:This is a genuine question—does your DH or DW fart constantly? Or make a show of raising a cheek to fart? Fart while eating? Do you wake up to use the bathroom in the middle of the night and the room smells like a sewer? Trying to get a sense of what’s normal.

We’ve been married a long time, but it seems like this issue is getting worse and since this is not something I want to discuss with girlfriends, I’m posting here.

Anonymous wrote:If men want their wives to not lose interest over time, a decent part of that is not farting in her presence unless it’s an accident every once in a while. DH will just do it audibly or let smelly ones off in bed and I can tell you that it takes sex off the table right away. I’m not prude, hell, if you farted during sex I’d laugh my head off and keep going. If you didn’t do it when you were dating because you wanted her to desire you, don’t do it now.