Anonymous
Post 12/18/2025 16:59     Subject: DD 15 is a bit of an oversharer

Anonymous wrote:OP here. This is just to say the issue has been resolved, NOT due to the so-called "insights" (actually cyberbulling) from this forum, if you could even call it that. I know that you all hate me. The issue has been resolved. I won't be commenting further.


Uh oh, I sure hope OP's DD hasn't been "silenced" in some extreme manner! OP has vibes that actually give me sincere unease about what was done to "resolve" the issue. I hope OP's DD is fine and still feels able to talk about whatever she wants to or needs to, with a reliable trusted adult. Whether it's OP or someone else.
Anonymous
Post 12/18/2025 12:15     Subject: DD 15 is a bit of an oversharer

Anonymous wrote:OP here. This is just to say the issue has been resolved, NOT due to the so-called "insights" (actually cyberbulling) from this forum, if you could even call it that. I know that you all hate me. The issue has been resolved. I won't be commenting further.


Great! I'm happy that your issue was resolved to your satisfaction.
Anonymous
Post 12/17/2025 17:51     Subject: DD 15 is a bit of an oversharer

OP here. This is just to say the issue has been resolved, NOT due to the so-called "insights" (actually cyberbulling) from this forum, if you could even call it that. I know that you all hate me. The issue has been resolved. I won't be commenting further.
Anonymous
Post 12/12/2025 23:01     Subject: DD 15 is a bit of an oversharer

OP, you are annoying AF.
Anonymous
Post 12/12/2025 18:30     Subject: DD 15 is a bit of an oversharer

Anonymous wrote:STOP FEEDING THE TROLL.


You're right, and it is past the point of ridiculousness now, so I won't feed this troll again.
Anonymous
Post 12/12/2025 18:28     Subject: Re:DD 15 is a bit of an oversharer

Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:I swear there is a troll or 10 here that just loves starting these types of threads with basically no info and these big questions. It's sad how many people in the DMV have so much time yet do so little that is worthwhile...


This PP had it on page 1. The engagement bait vagueposting is tedious.

And here I am feeding the troll.


I'm that PP, and yes you are still feeding the troll, but you said "vagueposting" and now I have a new favorite word to use on DCUM so all is not lost
Anonymous
Post 12/12/2025 09:23     Subject: DD 15 is a bit of an oversharer

Sorry for typos ^^
Anonymous
Post 12/12/2025 09:23     Subject: DD 15 is a bit of an oversharer

My DD is like this. I might say (lightly), “honey, that’s TMI” or “save that bit for your friends.” We happier engage with her about all kinds of things, so it’s not like we’re shutting her down - we’re just sharing our boundaries, which helps her understand what might be inappropriate make others uncomfortable. I’ve said, “I love that you’re so comfortable with your body but certain things a mom doesn’t need to know.”
Anonymous
Post 12/12/2025 06:16     Subject: DD 15 is a bit of an oversharer

STOP FEEDING THE TROLL.
Anonymous
Post 12/12/2025 06:07     Subject: DD 15 is a bit of an oversharer

Anonymous wrote:Oh, you know I think OP outed herself a few posts back. She's the one who was drunk texting about how her kid is so ungrateful for telling people OP was trying to get her on injectables so she could fit into her mom's wedding dress in 6 years.


Hahahaa.

Definitely not over sharing if true.
Anonymous
Post 12/12/2025 06:03     Subject: Re:DD 15 is a bit of an oversharer

Anonymous wrote:I swear there is a troll or 10 here that just loves starting these types of threads with basically no info and these big questions. It's sad how many people in the DMV have so much time yet do so little that is worthwhile...


This PP had it on page 1. The engagement bait vagueposting is tedious.

And here I am feeding the troll.
Anonymous
Post 12/12/2025 00:37     Subject: Re:DD 15 is a bit of an oversharer

Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:I swear there is a troll or 10 here that just loves starting these types of threads with basically no info and these big questions. It's sad how many people in the DMV have so much time yet do so little that is worthwhile...

OP here. I chose to not go into detail about my daughter's over-sharing in order to protect her privacy. "How do I teach my daughter to not share overly personal factoids" isn't really a "big question". So no, not a troll, but thanks for asking, I guess?


There’s a difference between sharing friend drama vs her period symptoms or BOB preferences. Dont be obtuse.


+1000
Agree with everyone that you are being ridiculous, OP. If you are not a troll, you absolutely deserve being accused of being one.

My DD14 tells me everything. I joke that the moment the car door slams, she says "So in first period...." and does. not. stop. until she's through her club meetings and sports. Then she tells me about additional teen, tiktok, etc. drama. Then basically every thought that enters her head about everything and everybody. It can be tedious. Sometimes I have to take a work call or interact with my other child. But it is not oversharing. She's not telling me anything inappropriate nor does she have anything inappropriate to tell.

So WHAT ARE YOU TALKING ABOUT? You don't have to give explicit details but no indication of the topic is suspect.




This is my DD at 13. Exactly, lol. Too sweet.
Anonymous
Post 12/11/2025 22:38     Subject: DD 15 is a bit of an oversharer

The only thing I can think of is that OP's DD is openly talking about her masturbation habits or something.
Anonymous
Post 12/10/2025 17:22     Subject: DD 15 is a bit of an oversharer

Anonymous wrote:Oh, you know I think OP outed herself a few posts back. She's the one who was drunk texting about how her kid is so ungrateful for telling people OP was trying to get her on injectables so she could fit into her mom's wedding dress in 6 years.


I didn't see that but it totally tracks. OP sounds self-centered, "everything on my terms" type, so I'd totally believe that's OP. And really, given OP's refusal to even give hints at what DD allegedly overshared about, it makes perfect sense that OP doesn't want to because she knows it would make OP look bad, not her DD.
Anonymous
Post 12/10/2025 09:24     Subject: Re:DD 15 is a bit of an oversharer

Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:I swear there is a troll or 10 here that just loves starting these types of threads with basically no info and these big questions. It's sad how many people in the DMV have so much time yet do so little that is worthwhile...

OP here. I chose to not go into detail about my daughter's over-sharing in order to protect her privacy. "How do I teach my daughter to not share overly personal factoids" isn't really a "big question". So no, not a troll, but thanks for asking, I guess?


There’s a difference between sharing friend drama vs her period symptoms or BOB preferences. Dont be obtuse.


+1000
Agree with everyone that you are being ridiculous, OP. If you are not a troll, you absolutely deserve being accused of being one.

My DD14 tells me everything. I joke that the moment the car door slams, she says "So in first period...." and does. not. stop. until she's through her club meetings and sports. Then she tells me about additional teen, tiktok, etc. drama. Then basically every thought that enters her head about everything and everybody. It can be tedious. Sometimes I have to take a work call or interact with my other child. But it is not oversharing. She's not telling me anything inappropriate nor does she have anything inappropriate to tell.

So WHAT ARE YOU TALKING ABOUT? You don't have to give explicit details but no indication of the topic is suspect.


OP is ghosting us. In other words, definite troll.

That said, PP kudos, whatever's happening in your family, you are really lucky. Many of us can't get our kids to talk about their days in detail at all, all we get unless we ask more specific questions is "It was fine" and that's it. And some still don't get more details even when they do ask specific questions. I can understand your DD may get a bit tiresome to listen to every thought that crosses her mind, but seriously, enjoy it. Most in this Tween/Teen forum have the opposite problem and it's a lot harder to solve.


PP here, thank you for your kind words. I definitely appreciate that my DD enjoys confiding in me.