Anonymous
Post 12/22/2025 12:26     Subject: What are you getting your early/mid 20s son for Xmas?
He wanted a garmin fitness tracker. It was $400 so that's it plus some clothes and toiletries.
Anonymous
Post 12/22/2025 12:24     Subject: What are you getting your early/mid 20s son for Xmas?
Only have girls - lots of self care: hair, make-up, teeth whitening kits, etc.
This in addition to what's on their Amazon list.
Anonymous
Post 12/22/2025 10:25     Subject: What are you getting your early/mid 20s son for Xmas?
Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:We just have a joined credit card allowance for our kids

10K among the 3

Oldest gets 5K, middle gets 3K, youngest gets 2K a month. That's it.

My learned experience is that they need money more than whatever gift I think is cool.

I don't feel guilty because my ex just spent 60K doing one of those Bravo yacht experiences for a WEEKEND



I'm sure you both are just lovely.



Thank you !! Happy Holidays to your family !!
Anonymous
Post 12/22/2025 09:38     Subject: What are you getting your early/mid 20s son for Xmas?
Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:We just have a joined credit card allowance for our kids

10K among the 3

Oldest gets 5K, middle gets 3K, youngest gets 2K a month. That's it.

My learned experience is that they need money more than whatever gift I think is cool.

I don't feel guilty because my ex just spent 60K doing one of those Bravo yacht experiences for a WEEKEND


Why are you not diving the cash evenly?


Cash allowance according to their individual needs today.

Their ultimate inheritance is split evenly, whenever that day arrives and whatever that ends up being.