Anonymous wrote:If you are a family for whom tuition is the number one deciding factor, the “fit”conversation is very different than a family that has the financial freedom to pay full pay at highly selective/small $$$ schools. It’s not terribly different from those of us who send our kids to the 3000 student public high school vs those of us who opt for small private high school.
Those who pay for private high school are the minority by a great margin. However, those who make over 250k and under 350k without adequate savings who do not qualify for aid and are not able to pay 90k per year are in fact a disctinct minority of applicant families. The majority are under 250k and get need based aid, sometimes quite generous aid at top schools.