Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:I only use TT now. IG feels outdated and I stop remembering to even open it several months back. Deleted FB a few years ago.
I am 48, BTW.
Cringe, you're too old for TikTok. Nobody calls it TT, just stop.
Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:OH wait
can people do that ???????
Maybe I thought it was like FB where I heard they can’t look at who sees your profile or looks into your friends list
I did try to obsessively watch one of my DIL’s videos on instagram until it finally occurred to me that it wasn’t on instagram, it was on Tik Tok, but I actually told her about it.
I try not to look at personal social media too much but I clicked in one time and she was doing a makeup video (they live in Europe) and she was talking about how she initially encountered my husband because they were at the visa office at the same time and how they ran into one another again because their physical visas were issued on the same day and they went for coffee after joking about running into one another.
Now they’re married
Anyway I did explain why I was trying to watch her stuff 100 times one evening
I'm not sure if you can see that someone viewed something multiple times- just that they did view it, vs not view it. At least on insta and FB. Unless no one has ever viewed any of my stuff more than once (also very possible, hah)
Anonymous wrote:I don’t post stories so I had no idea that people who post them know whether you saw them. I used to look up my kids’ friends’ Instagram! As far as I know, no one has ever said anything to them about it (and I did fess up).
Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:I only have a business account and I do. I used to be offended if industry friends didn’t interact, but now that I’ve watched more stories myself, I get it. They just don’t inspire reactions the same way posts do for some reason. They seem more passive .
And maybe more so for younger people. I became friends with my nephew. I was liking his stories and DS told me that is lame and you are only supposed to like really important stories. I don’t get it but that’s what he said.