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Anonymous wrote:Np, and yes, it's true. I have often said that you can determine your attractiveness by the friends in your circle. Birds of a feather do, in fact, flock together.

Not true for me. I’ve always been the more attractive person in my friend group. I’ve picked friends based more on shared hobbies and interests than anything else. Same with in dating - I almost shunned conventionally attractive guys and preferred guys where were very fit but not “handsome” per se.

You are probably overrating your attractiveness, as most people do. I guarantee your friend groups aren't aware that you are the better looking one

This.

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Anonymous wrote:We just joined a 55 and over community to snowbird at. I think I was 56 and DH 59 when we bought there 2.5 years ago. We’re some of the youngest and we’re fairly attractive.
I noticed that all our good friends there are younger (like us) and attractive.
So that’s how the world works, I am thinking.

This isn’t an attractiveness thing, it’s an age thing. There are people there old enough to be your parents and they have nothing in common with you.

I hear this propaganda phrase used a lot by the enemies of humanity. It's always a tell.

Anonymous wrote:Looking around me, there really are not that many truly unattractive people in professional workplaces. People are required to adhere to some minimum level of grooming and self-awareness in order to not get fired.

Hmm not true at all in the federal government. The madness I see at my agency is downright unhinged, particularly now that we aren't getting paid to work. Several managers have relaxed the already relaxed dress code to compensate for our free labor and the inability to telework. I think I saw someone in bunny slippers and a bath robe in the hall last week...