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Anonymous wrote:LOL. I've had 6 abortions.

I'm pro-choice but that seems excessive.

How does this reconcile? Either you are pro choice or you are not. What is an excessive number of abortions?

Tow is excessive. If you didn't learn from the first one I'd question your intelligence. Six is using abortion as birth control and is really stupid. It should also be disclosed before a guy asks you to marry him because there is a high chance you may not be able to have any children. And, he deserves to know how stupid you are.

Stupid and lazy. Get your shit together.

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Anonymous wrote:LOL. I've had 6 abortions.

I'm pro-choice but that seems excessive.

How does this reconcile? Either you are pro choice or you are not. What is an excessive number of abortions?

Tow is excessive. If you didn't learn from the first one I'd question your intelligence. Six is using abortion as birth control and is really stupid. It should also be disclosed before a guy asks you to marry him because there is a high chance you may not be able to have any children. And, he deserves to know how stupid you are.

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Anonymous wrote:LOL. I've had 6 abortions.

I'm pro-choice but that seems excessive.

How does this reconcile? Either you are pro choice or you are not. What is an excessive number of abortions?

More than one

Anonymous wrote:Relationships. Yes. Hookups, no.

I rest my case.

Anonymous wrote:What does that even mean? That I did at all? What they looked like? Where I was? What exactly happened?

It's simple. Ask a man how many sexual partners he's had and, if he wants to be truthful, he will count every one. Ask a woman and the number you will get will be for relationships only. It most likely will never include one-time encounters or even very short-lived F buddies.

Nah - not info he’d need/want. I’m pretty sure my body count is higher than his, but it’s all long in the past and nothing gained from sharing that kind of info.

Women don’t include hookups in their number. They also don’t include foreplay hookups. Official number of people a woman has slept with would include exdh’s, exbf’s, fwb’s over 3 months in duration and baby daddies.

I know some stories I didn't specifically ask for them it was just something I learned about before we became a couple.

Honestly sometimes I feel a little insecure about it because he had aor of experience before me and he's the only guy I've been with I would have liked more experience but life didn't shake our that way for me so there are times I wonder if he's satisfied.

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Anonymous wrote:The other thread got me wondering. If you had one night stands in college/ your 20s before marriage, do you husbands know about them?

I'm talking about truly one night stands in that you were at a bar or on spring break, met some rando, screwed them, and never saw them again.

I'm just curious how this would even come up as a topic of conversation or how it is relevant to anything.

I'm in this camp. Like I know my husband had a lot of sex before me but I'm not really interested in the details.

I'll never understand this POV. It's like claiming to have a favorite book that you skipped reading 5 chapters of.

No, it's more like saying a book can only be your favorite or meaningful if you've memorized every semicolon placement in every page.

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Anonymous wrote:The other thread got me wondering. If you had one night stands in college/ your 20s before marriage, do you husbands know about them?

I'm talking about truly one night stands in that you were at a bar or on spring break, met some rando, screwed them, and never saw them again.

I'm just curious how this would even come up as a topic of conversation or how it is relevant to anything.

I'm in this camp. Like I know my husband had a lot of sex before me but I'm not really interested in the details.

I'll never understand this POV. It's like claiming to have a favorite book that you skipped reading 5 chapters of.

What benefit is it to you or your relationship to know exactly who or how your spouse had sex with before you?

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Anonymous wrote:DCUM wives: girls who have sex for fun and because they want to when they’re young and single are gross

DCUM husbands: why won’t my wife have sex with me

This is true, but it’s often the husband saying both.

Marry the girl who slept around! She likes to have sex!

Don't marry girls that's disgusting and illegal.

Most women who are married have slept around some may like sex mostly it's a tool to get men to marry them.

A little punctuation would help us figure out what you're saying here.

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Anonymous wrote:The other thread got me wondering. If you had one night stands in college/ your 20s before marriage, do you husbands know about them?

I'm talking about truly one night stands in that you were at a bar or on spring break, met some rando, screwed them, and never saw them again.

I'm just curious how this would even come up as a topic of conversation or how it is relevant to anything.

I'm in this camp. Like I know my husband had a lot of sex before me but I'm not really interested in the details.

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Anonymous wrote:DCUM wives: girls who have sex for fun and because they want to when they’re young and single are gross

DCUM husbands: why won’t my wife have sex with me

This is true, but it’s often the husband saying both.

Marry the girl who slept around! She likes to have sex!

Don't marry girls that's disgusting and illegal.

Most women who are married have slept around some may like sex mostly it's a tool to get men to marry them.

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Anonymous wrote:LOL. I've had 6 abortions.

I'm pro-choice but that seems excessive.

How does this reconcile? Either you are pro choice or you are not. What is an excessive number of abortions?

I had very little experience before DH but one was more or less a one night stand. (Met on a summer holiday, hooked up two nights in a row - after knowing each other for two weeks - I remained a virgin but we were naked. I was 16 and the guy was 19.) DH knows about that.

I had a friend in high school who was my date to things like prom but was not my bf and I dated a man early in college because he was persistent but I didn’t like him very much. We only went on a few dates and never got beyond kissing.

I met DH during exam week at the end of freshman year and told a friend that I was considering a “fling.” That was over 25 years ago. My DH knows all of this.