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Anonymous wrote:Walking ahead of me.

Guy here. I can't help it. My legs are long and my natural pace is faster than my DW of 20+years. Somehow we've made it work!

Wife of 20+ years (maybe yours) whose husband does this. IT F-ing RUDE!!! Stop it - we’re not in the Middle East where women have to walk behind you! If we end up divorced this is one of the reasons.

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Anonymous wrote:cocaine

do you mean that the red flag is girls who cannot pay for their cocaine, or anybody using cocaine generally?

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Anonymous wrote:for me, if a woman is angry or can't cover her bills or expect you to pay every time.

which bills?

Her own bills or pay her share if you are living together or anything. One of the other turn-offs are when women expect men to pay for everything not because he love or care about you but because they are supposed to do that. Really? Most of these gold diggers do end up alone or just move from one sucker to another.

You know your fellow male gender very little. I used to split dating expenses in the very begging of dating. When men see the woman is doing it or invites them for the dates, they immediately put her in “desperate low value” . And move to the next woman that doesn’t pay. Because they perceive it as a signal of her popularity with other men.

Anonymous wrote:Crazy how some of these are legit red flags and others say more about the PP’s unrealistic standards (their own red flag). Like there is a world of difference between prison time and not having a big savings account in your 20s …

Red flags are generally behaviors that are far outside the norm of what you would expect for a normal person at the beginning of a relationship or dating. Things like showing up very late, oogling other women openly, getting angry with little provocation, drastic inability to do basic self care (eg house in disarray), not caring if words/actions are upsetting, reacting to disagreements with denial or aggression.

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Anonymous wrote:for me, if a woman is angry or can't cover her bills or expect you to pay every time.

which bills?

Her own bills or pay her share if you are living together or anything. One of the other turn-offs are when women expect men to pay for everything not because he love or care about you but because they are supposed to do that. Really? Most of these gold diggers do end up alone or just move from one sucker to another.

I'd rather pay an escort for sex than pay a gold digger.

Isn’t it essentially the same ? And how valid are these male concerns about women paying for themselves ? All women I know are married work and contribute all their salaries into joint big pot. From that joint pot families cover joint expenses
At the stage of daring when men aren’t really committing to anything long term and could be test driving several women there is non point for the woman to pay. No joint expenses, no future investment plans etc.
I pay my own bills as a single woman (apartment, car, my solo travel, food etc) and support my child. Before any man joins my life with a joint budget - he’s planning and paying for dates. The only thing there I would contribute with someone I don’t live with is expensive joint travel

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Anonymous wrote:Walking ahead of me.

Guy here. I can't help it. My legs are long and my natural pace is faster than my DW of 20+years. Somehow we've made it work!

There is no greater way to signal to your partner that they are insignificant than not even deigning to walk at a pace they find comfortable.

I don't think short people understand how physically painful it can be to restrict your natural stride. It actually hurts.

No kidding. And when you don’t help a man finish, it can be super painful too. Do damage to your nuts even! Poor boy. I can just imagine you gallantly striding from your bedroom to the bathroom at full speed because otherwise the restriction of your natural stride is just unbearable!




Grow up.

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Anonymous wrote:for me, if a woman is angry or can't cover her bills or expect you to pay every time.

which bills?

Her own bills or pay her share if you are living together or anything. One of the other turn-offs are when women expect men to pay for everything not because he love or care about you but because they are supposed to do that. Really? Most of these gold diggers do end up alone or just move from one sucker to another.

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Anonymous wrote:for me, if a woman is angry or can't cover her bills or expect you to pay every time.

which bills?

Her own bills or pay her share if you are living together or anything. One of the other turn-offs are when women expect men to pay for everything not because he love or care about you but because they are supposed to do that. Really? Most of these gold diggers do end up alone or just move from one sucker to another.

I'd rather pay an escort for sex than pay a gold digger.

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Anonymous wrote:for me, if a woman is angry or can't cover her bills or expect you to pay every time.

which bills?

Her own bills or pay her share if you are living together or anything. One of the other turn-offs are when women expect men to pay for everything not because he love or care about you but because they are supposed to do that. Really? Most of these gold diggers do end up alone or just move from one sucker to another.

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Anonymous wrote:for me, if a woman is angry or can't cover her bills or expect you to pay every time.

which bills?

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