Anonymous wrote:DC happy at Columbia. Challenged by courses, has made friends and is active in clubs. If anything, there's not enough time to do everything they want to do.

Anonymous wrote:My child is at an Ivy and over the weekend, as part of a larger gathering we saw the parents of 3 former classmates who are also at Ivies.
The common theme was that none of the kids are particularly happy so far--difficulty finding community, missing school spirit, wishing there was more to do on campus and frankly being bored. What is also common is that none of them feel like they can complain and they all say some version of "I figure it has to get better."
The schools are Princeton, Cornell, Dartmouth and Yale.

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Anonymous wrote:My son went to a very intense, high-achieving private HS and tells me he feels like Brown, where he is a freshman, is not quite intense enough for his tastes (and he is taking 5 rather 4 classes, all STEM, many with sophomores and even juniors): very soft curves, grade inflation, etc. I know that confirms a cliché but this is his experience. His close friend from HS is at Princeton, which is quite different: strict curves, Cs common, etc. I suppose the Brown kids are happy, the P kids demoralized?

Princeton has had 8 suicides over the past 4 years.

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Anonymous wrote:My son went to a very intense, high-achieving private HS and tells me he feels like Brown, where he is a freshman, is not quite intense enough for his tastes (and he is taking 5 rather 4 classes, all STEM, many with sophomores and even juniors): very soft curves, grade inflation, etc. I know that confirms a cliché but this is his experience. His close friend from HS is at Princeton, which is quite different: strict curves, Cs common, etc. I suppose the Brown kids are happy, the P kids demoralized?

Princeton has had 8 suicides over the past 4 years.

Because my DD went to an intense private high school, she didn’t want that for college. Chose UCLA. Wanted big and rah rah. My friend’s son hard hard time settling in @ Brown socially. Not academically.

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Anonymous wrote:My son went to a very intense, high-achieving private HS and tells me he feels like Brown, where he is a freshman, is not quite intense enough for his tastes (and he is taking 5 rather 4 classes, all STEM, many with sophomores and even juniors): very soft curves, grade inflation, etc. I know that confirms a cliché but this is his experience. His close friend from HS is at Princeton, which is quite different: strict curves, Cs common, etc. I suppose the Brown kids are happy, the P kids demoralized?

Very old info but my dh went to a super intense private HS and then coasted at Brown for four years. Didn’t get much out of college.

I have a junior at Brown. If your child "didn't get much out of college" there, they missed the point. Coasting on grades and getting something out of college aren't mutually exclusive. The whole point of college, and Brown does this particularly well, is the opportunities and engagement. You can find the coursework easy and still gain a ton. Depending on interest/concentration, this might mean hours in the Design Lab, on the stage, interning, volunteering, competing academically/professionally (things like F1 club, etc., but obviously that's for engineering types). Brown does an amazing job on this front. Students don't have to be demoralized to be challenged. This is where Brown's reputation derives from and IMHO it's a positive, not negative thing.

It was my spouse and before we met so I didn’t have much influence :;
Was just corroborating pp’s point that after an ultra intense HS experience it’s a jolt to find yourself at a more laid back school and it doesn’t suit everyone.

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Anonymous wrote:My son went to a very intense, high-achieving private HS and tells me he feels like Brown, where he is a freshman, is not quite intense enough for his tastes (and he is taking 5 rather 4 classes, all STEM, many with sophomores and even juniors): very soft curves, grade inflation, etc. I know that confirms a cliché but this is his experience. His close friend from HS is at Princeton, which is quite different: strict curves, Cs common, etc. I suppose the Brown kids are happy, the P kids demoralized?

Very old info but my dh went to a super intense private HS and then coasted at Brown for four years. Didn’t get much out of college.

I have a junior at Brown. If your child "didn't get much out of college" there, they missed the point. Coasting on grades and getting something out of college aren't mutually exclusive. The whole point of college, and Brown does this particularly well, is the opportunities and engagement. You can find the coursework easy and still gain a ton. Depending on interest/concentration, this might mean hours in the Design Lab, on the stage, interning, volunteering, competing academically/professionally (things like F1 club, etc., but obviously that's for engineering types). Brown does an amazing job on this front. Students don't have to be demoralized to be challenged. This is where Brown's reputation derives from and IMHO it's a positive, not negative thing.

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Anonymous wrote:Having grown up in Princeton, doesn’t surprise me that kids complain there is nothing to do in the town. However the eating clubs probably have parties most weekends, same with the frats at Dartmouth and Cornell.

I live in Princeton now, and there are lots of things to do for me and DH and our high schooler. Unless you're only interested in going to bars and night clubs; we don’t have many of those.

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Anonymous wrote:My son went to a very intense, high-achieving private HS and tells me he feels like Brown, where he is a freshman, is not quite intense enough for his tastes (and he is taking 5 rather 4 classes, all STEM, many with sophomores and even juniors): very soft curves, grade inflation, etc. I know that confirms a cliché but this is his experience. His close friend from HS is at Princeton, which is quite different: strict curves, Cs common, etc. I suppose the Brown kids are happy, the P kids demoralized?

Princeton has had 8 suicides over the past 4 years.

Anonymous wrote:My child is at an Ivy and over the weekend, as part of a larger gathering we saw the parents of 3 former classmates who are also at Ivies.
The common theme was that none of the kids are particularly happy so far--difficulty finding community, missing school spirit, wishing there was more to do on campus and frankly being bored. What is also common is that none of them feel like they can complain and they all say some version of "I figure it has to get better."
The schools are Princeton, Cornell, Dartmouth and Yale.

That’s what happens when you go for prestige over experience. My DD did not feel that way at UCLA.

Anonymous wrote:My son went to a very intense, high-achieving private HS and tells me he feels like Brown, where he is a freshman, is not quite intense enough for his tastes (and he is taking 5 rather 4 classes, all STEM, many with sophomores and even juniors): very soft curves, grade inflation, etc. I know that confirms a cliché but this is his experience. His close friend from HS is at Princeton, which is quite different: strict curves, Cs common, etc. I suppose the Brown kids are happy, the P kids demoralized?

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Anonymous wrote:My son went to a very intense, high-achieving private HS and tells me he feels like Brown, where he is a freshman, is not quite intense enough for his tastes (and he is taking 5 rather 4 classes, all STEM, many with sophomores and even juniors): very soft curves, grade inflation, etc. I know that confirms a cliché but this is his experience. His close friend from HS is at Princeton, which is quite different: strict curves, Cs common, etc. I suppose the Brown kids are happy, the P kids demoralized?

Very old info but my dh went to a super intense private HS and then coasted at Brown for four years. Didn’t get much out of college.