Anonymous
Post 10/28/2025 15:35     Subject: 2 texts in DH phone

I think both spam. I get a lot of the "Hi"s but I've also gotten thinks like "I think I left my charger in your bag yesterday" and "yes?" and "Good to see you the other day!" and other weird things.
Anonymous
Post 10/28/2025 11:20     Subject: 2 texts in DH phone

Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:Look up the phone numbers here: https://www.carrierlookup.com/

It will give you the number's carrier (T-Mobile, Verizon, etc.). Report back.
What good is that info?


NP. Was wondering the same exact thing
Anonymous
Post 10/27/2025 23:24     Subject: 2 texts in DH phone

Anonymous wrote:Look up the phone numbers here: https://www.carrierlookup.com/

It will give you the number's carrier (T-Mobile, Verizon, etc.). Report back.
What good is that info?
Anonymous
Post 10/27/2025 22:35     Subject: 2 texts in DH phone

I wouldn't have the first clue about any texts on my husbands phone, nor he on mine. No need for either of us to snoop
Anonymous
Post 10/27/2025 22:23     Subject: 2 texts in DH phone

Anonymous wrote:They are so much fun to play with. I love stringing them along with their invites to lunch + oooops, wrong number = you seem so nice, maybe we can be friends ?!?


Don’t just delete and report spam.
Answers let them know it’s an active number.
Anonymous
Post 10/27/2025 17:24     Subject: 2 texts in DH phone

Look up the phone numbers here: https://www.carrierlookup.com/

It will give you the number's carrier (T-Mobile, Verizon, etc.). Report back.
Anonymous
Post 10/27/2025 11:24     Subject: Re:2 texts in DH phone

What medication is he on? There is simply zero reason that you have not been intimate in a decade! There are so many forms of intimacy even if he can't get it up.
Anonymous
Post 10/27/2025 11:21     Subject: 2 texts in DH phone

I like using SpyDialer. It's free and accurate.
Anonymous
Post 10/27/2025 11:20     Subject: 2 texts in DH phone

Anonymous wrote:2 texts, 2 different numbers (no names) in DH's phone...
One said: how are you?
The other one: What a cute dog! What's her name?

Is it just spam or should I be concerned? Should i ask DH (even though he could lie)


I'm not sure what the lie would be? If he didn't respond back it's not like you've uncovered a relationship.
Anonymous
Post 10/27/2025 11:19     Subject: 2 texts in DH phone

Anonymous wrote:I get bs spam texts that sound just like that all the time. I assume it is some scammer, but might just be a wrong number. I usually block and delete in case it is some scammer. All that's to say, go ahead and ask, but an "I don't know" isn't necessarily a lie.


+1
Anonymous
Post 10/27/2025 11:18     Subject: 2 texts in DH phone

I get them all the time. Is spam/fraud attempts. Ignore.... And if you want to get loved tonight, please don't mention it. Is not sexy being insecure..
Anonymous
Post 10/27/2025 10:53     Subject: 2 texts in DH phone

All my spam is about my non-existent student loans.
Anonymous
Post 10/27/2025 10:43     Subject: 2 texts in DH phone

I got a spam message the other day that said, "I can't stop thinking about you and miss you everyday." You need to relax.
Anonymous
Post 10/27/2025 08:37     Subject: 2 texts in DH phone

This is spam. Swipe “delete and report spam”.
Anonymous
Post 10/27/2025 08:33     Subject: Re:2 texts in DH phone

I've gotten texts saying "what time should I put the steaks on the grill?" and "last night was fun, let's do it again" and "your daughter left her backpack at our house" all sort of weird creepy spam texts. They're just looking for you to respond so they know the number is real.

If he didn't response, you could, if you wanted to, check his deleted messages to see if there are an matching those numbers. If not, they're spam and let it go. Honestly, unless you have any reason to be suspicious, I'd assume they're spam. If I saw those on my husband's phone I would not be suspicious.