Anonymous
Post 11/02/2025 10:46     Subject: Question for divorced people in late 50s and early 60s: how old are the people you date?
Anonymous wrote:I was once an early 30s professional woman doing a lot of online dating and I’d occasionally come across an older guy like the PP. They were well off, good looking, well dressed and…totally pathetic. I wanted nothing to do with them; eventually married DH (a year younger) after dating a lot of great men my age. Healthy and financially stable young women absolutely don’t want an old guy. Sorry, just the way it is.


+1. maybe 10 years older max. I always dated older in my 20s-30s but not more than 8-9 years. The only two much older ones were real weirdos.
Anonymous
Post 11/02/2025 10:42     Subject: Question for divorced people in late 50s and early 60s: how old are the people you date?
Anonymous wrote:60 year old man. Women 35-50ish.


Lol
Anonymous
Post 11/01/2025 22:57     Subject: Question for divorced people in late 50s and early 60s: how old are the people you date?
What does LAT mean?
Anonymous
Post 11/01/2025 22:44     Subject: Question for divorced people in late 50s and early 60s: how old are the people you date?


61M dating 62F for 8 years. LAT and it works for us. So far
Anonymous
Post 10/31/2025 23:21     Subject: Re:Question for divorced people in late 50s and early 60s: how old are the people you date?
Anonymous wrote:I'm a 53 year old man in Old Town. I have all my hair, probably a 6 at looks but tall, make $375,000+, own a home, another house in the mountains, debt free, thin, athletic, hobbies- new restaurants, running, camping ,hiking, fishing, travel, etc.

I date- with no intention on marriage- early to mid 30 year old white collar professional women, usually thin, limby and bruenette.

You sound gross.
Anonymous
Post 10/31/2025 21:40     Subject: Question for divorced people in late 50s and early 60s: how old are the people you date?
51 F, newly dating/freshly divorced. I wanted to date men who had college age/launched kids, or no kids. I tried a few no kids, and we just didn’t connect. (I think having to put your kids first, helps with really understanding devotion). I am just not that attracted to the 40s guys. They just look like my brothers friends. So, I end up with 60 year old who want to talk retirement. I don’t want to remarry.
Anonymous
Post 10/28/2025 17:33     Subject: Question for divorced people in late 50s and early 60s: how old are the people you date?
Anonymous wrote:Please state your age and sex and their age(s) and sex(es).


Not me but friends. They date 18-80s. Depends on if they want fun, marriage, more kids, or someone their age for fun or companionship, or someone older because it's hot or want to remarry if they are a woman.
Anonymous
Post 10/28/2025 12:27     Subject: Re:Question for divorced people in late 50s and early 60s: how old are the people you date?
60F dating 59M.
Anonymous
Post 10/28/2025 12:20     Subject: Re:Question for divorced people in late 50s and early 60s: how old are the people you date?
Late 50s divorced woman with one DC who is away at college. I have dated 50-62 M.

Will never again date a man with kids who are not COMPLETELY launched, as in they hold solid jobs that enable them to live independently.
Anonymous
Post 10/28/2025 12:01     Subject: Question for divorced people in late 50s and early 60s: how old are the people you date?
M. Separated/divorced at 57. Dated women between the ages of 51-57. Long-term relationship started at 59. Remarried at 61 and she was 59; second marriage for both of us. We both lived a very active life, which was a key attraction for both of us. Recently passed five years together.
Anonymous
Post 10/28/2025 10:08     Subject: Re:Question for divorced people in late 50s and early 60s: how old are the people you date?
Anonymous wrote:56 F and I'm dating a 55 M. We are very compatible emotionally, intellectually and also in the bedroom. He is fit and healthy and able to keep up with me. We have very similar outlooks on life as well as interests. So far, it has been great. We have been dating for almost two years and plan on getting married soon. In the past, I have mainly dated men older than me (5-10 years older) and I found that many of them really lacked in energy and interests (besides restaurants, Sports on TV and just being a home buddy with limited interests). I look and feel much younger and I was done being a caregiver to someone who didn't want to care for themselves. All the money in the world would not make me go back to one of these guys. I encourage all of my girlfriends to look for men a bit younger. Even if it doesn't lead to a permanent relationship or marriage, they are often a lot more fun even if it's just for a short period of time and it can be a big boost in self-esteem and most important fun in the bedroom.


Good advice. I'm a man and give the equivalent advice to men my age! (L

Not really, but it makes sense. Just don't overlook the exceptions. There are some older people with a lot of energy. I've mostly dated women 10-20 years younger but also some women 4-5 years older. Some of the most energetic women I've dated were my age and older.
Anonymous
Post 10/27/2025 08:34     Subject: Question for divorced people in late 50s and early 60s: how old are the people you date?
Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:Funny how so many top 1% net worth women are on a mommy forum whining about being single......


They don’t seem to be unhappy at all single


And yet they are pending their free time on the internet arguing with randos on a mommy forum....


DCUM is addictive because you can anonymously hash things out with other intellectual moms. Sure, there are trolls (like some of the incel men on the relationship forum), but for the most part, it’s a good community of moms.
Anonymous
Post 10/27/2025 08:30     Subject: Question for divorced people in late 50s and early 60s: how old are the people you date?
Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:Funny how so many top 1% net worth women are on a mommy forum whining about being single......


They don’t seem to be unhappy at all single


And yet they are pending their free time on the internet arguing with randos on a mommy forum....
Anonymous
Post 10/27/2025 08:26     Subject: Re:Question for divorced people in late 50s and early 60s: how old are the people you date?
56 F and I'm dating a 55 M. We are very compatible emotionally, intellectually and also in the bedroom. He is fit and healthy and able to keep up with me. We have very similar outlooks on life as well as interests. So far, it has been great. We have been dating for almost two years and plan on getting married soon. In the past, I have mainly dated men older than me (5-10 years older) and I found that many of them really lacked in energy and interests (besides restaurants, Sports on TV and just being a home buddy with limited interests). I look and feel much younger and I was done being a caregiver to someone who didn't want to care for themselves. All the money in the world would not make me go back to one of these guys. I encourage all of my girlfriends to look for men a bit younger. Even if it doesn't lead to a permanent relationship or marriage, they are often a lot more fun even if it's just for a short period of time and it can be a big boost in self-esteem and most important fun in the bedroom.
Anonymous
Post 10/27/2025 08:14     Subject: Question for divorced people in late 50s and early 60s: how old are the people you date?
Anonymous wrote:I was once an early 30s professional woman doing a lot of online dating and I’d occasionally come across an older guy like the PP. They were well off, good looking, well dressed and…totally pathetic. I wanted nothing to do with them; eventually married DH (a year younger) after dating a lot of great men my age. Healthy and financially stable young women absolutely don’t want an old guy. Sorry, just the way it is.


Same. I dated an older guy at ~ 30 because he was very rich (like ski house is Colorado, flew private rich), just to see what it was about. Once he brought up his college age kids on a date, I was out. He just seemed ancient to me at that point, like his real life was behind him and he was seeking companionship for the tail end of it.