I’m 53 and my partner is 60. We’re both old but we’re attractive to each other. Neither one of us stops traffic but we enjoy each others company. We have a hit a lot of life’s milestones and we laugh a lot. He takes cialis and we have a robust sex life. Neither of us are interested in dating younger, hotter people. Looks are superficial and they don’t sustain you through the ups and downs of life. We both have adult kids and they come with adult problems and grandkids. This weekend my daughter had an emergency that required me to drop everything and go to her. I want to date someone that gets that, that doesn’t feel neglected, or can’t understand why an adult might still want their mom. There’s a gentle comfort in dating someone at the same point in life. Looks are not the draw. But life experience, understanding, and kindness are incredibly sexy.

Mid-40s. Even if they still look okay physically, there is some mental decline. Mentally less flexible and more irritable.

60s yes basically always old, 50s usually old with some exceptions.

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Anonymous wrote:Women "hit the wall" as they say around menopause, so late 40s to late 50s women age fast.

Men don't hit a wall really, and age like wine IF they take care of themselves.

However like wine, eventually they do hit a wall, albeit a smaller wall, eventually. If they take care of themselves, that is usually in their 70s when they catch up to women in aging looks.

TLDR Women 40s-50s. Men 70s. Which is why a 10-20 year age gap is best for women/men.

Women who workout and take HRT age waay better than the men of similar age. Menopause or not.

And men who do that also are waaay better looing than women of a similar age. It's simple biology and science.

Never heard of any man taking HRT. Women are conditioned to take a good care of their bodies and look presentable. Men in their 50-60s often let themselves go

I think 60 is a big turning point for both men and women. Very few people are sexy and f….able in their 60s. It’s one thing to age with someone you love and you still find them attractive as you both age, as one PP described. But in terms of checking a stranger out and finding them physically attractive, you’ll find some who still have “it” in their fifties, but very, very few past 60.

I say this as a late fifties woman. I still get some male attention but I’m very aware that there’s a change between what I was like at 50 and now at 58, even though I have kept my figure and take very good care of myself. When I was 50 I met plenty of men my age that did it for me. Now … not. Older men, forget it. My BF is 6 years younger and still in great shape.

Anonymous wrote:62 he started needing little blue pills, and 65 is when you start throwing out your back from tying your shoes and other silly ways. Our experience anyway

That's usually due to either being obese, or low T, or both.

Also, an 18 year old cheerleader is instant viagra to many men, same as a hot 40 year old teacher is to 18 year old women.

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Anonymous wrote:Women "hit the wall" as they say around menopause, so late 40s to late 50s women age fast.

Men don't hit a wall really, and age like wine IF they take care of themselves.

However like wine, eventually they do hit a wall, albeit a smaller wall, eventually. If they take care of themselves, that is usually in their 70s when they catch up to women in aging looks.

TLDR Women 40s-50s. Men 70s. Which is why a 10-20 year age gap is best for women/men.

Men = 60. I can't think of a single man over 60 who is f*******.

George Clooney
Brad Pitt
Tom Cruise
Obama

So, basically, if you are wealthy and can pay for your upkeep, you're f***** .

Meh. George Clooney looks horrible. He has lost bone mass or muscle mass in his face. He looks like a vampire sucked the blood out of him.

My DH looks much younger, but the white hair gives it away.

He's gone under the knife like many women have done, due to vanity.

Ozempic is also making Crypt Keepers out of everyone that takes it. They will always look older due to the drugs.

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Anonymous wrote:Women "hit the wall" as they say around menopause, so late 40s to late 50s women age fast.

Men don't hit a wall really, and age like wine IF they take care of themselves.

However like wine, eventually they do hit a wall, albeit a smaller wall, eventually. If they take care of themselves, that is usually in their 70s when they catch up to women in aging looks.

TLDR Women 40s-50s. Men 70s. Which is why a 10-20 year age gap is best for women/men.

Women who workout and take HRT age waay better than the men of similar age. Menopause or not.

And men who do that also are waaay better looing than women of a similar age. It's simple biology and science.

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Anonymous wrote:Men in general don’t age well. Balding, fat beer belly, moobs, and just out of shape. Definitely most by 55-60 are unf***able

LOL. 50 yo women are dried up hags.

This woman (the link will expire) is 50. I would rather do her (I’m a woman) than a mid 50s man:


https://imgur.com/a/tbOTkfh

Sooooo. You're gay. That's fine, but that wasnt the context.

The point is many 50s women are not dried up, and way too many men are.

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Anonymous wrote:I’m 39, so at that fun age where I’ve dated from 25-55.

I’ve found 40ish is when men start to tank - they lose their sex drive, lose energy, tend to go on autopilot and just coast through the rest of their career. There’s a HUGE difference in the bedroom between a 35 year old and 45 year old.

The sweet spot for me is 33-36, although right now I’m dating a really great 30yo. I worried about the lack of shared life milestones, but all of his friends are married with young kids, and he actively helps care for them, so he “gets” it so to speak.

Does this mean women who don't want to date anyone in their 30s are doomed to be with men who can't keep up?

Ha! I mean, I’m sure there are some 40s men who can. I know an 80yo man who still travels the world, works out daily, and has the energy of a much younger guy (can’t speak to what he’s like in bed, tho).

Depends on your energy levels, too. I need someone I can go out with 2-3 times a week (OUT out, not just dinner out), train for marathons with, sex near daily, etc.

How old are you?

39, almost 40.

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Anonymous wrote:Men in general don’t age well. Balding, fat beer belly, moobs, and just out of shape. Definitely most by 55-60 are unf***able

LOL. 50 yo women are dried up hags.

This woman (the link will expire) is 50. I would rather do her (I’m a woman) than a mid 50s man:


https://imgur.com/a/tbOTkfh

Sooooo. You're gay. That's fine, but that wasnt the context.

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Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:Women "hit the wall" as they say around menopause, so late 40s to late 50s women age fast.

Men don't hit a wall really, and age like wine IF they take care of themselves.

However like wine, eventually they do hit a wall, albeit a smaller wall, eventually. If they take care of themselves, that is usually in their 70s when they catch up to women in aging looks.

TLDR Women 40s-50s. Men 70s. Which is why a 10-20 year age gap is best for women/men.

Women who workout and take HRT age waay better than the men of similar age. Menopause or not.

I see many attractive 50s women profiles on Hinge in a large urban area. Maybe you live in West Virginia . Honestly, can’t even see a difference between 40 and 50 anymore - all the facial enhancements help women. Men rarely take a good care of themselves

I think part of this may be societal. A lot of women I know tend to do more gentle work outs in addition to high-impact sports like tennis. So when they age if they have bad knees they can keep doing yoga while many men I know won't do those classes that involve more stretching. When they can't run anymore or can't throw a baseball they stop doing anything.

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Anonymous wrote:Men in general don’t age well. Balding, fat beer belly, moobs, and just out of shape. Definitely most by 55-60 are unf***able

LOL. 50 yo women are dried up hags.

This woman (the link will expire) is 50. I would rather do her (I’m a woman) than a mid 50s man:

https://imgur.com/a/tbOTkfh

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