I discuss my s3x life with all my good friends, and DON'T discuss it all with my spouse (his preference).

Anonymous wrote:They would be shocked and horrified.

Yep. Same here.

Shocked might be an understatement.

Long time marriage.... always kept within the marriage.

But after that..................

What sex life? So, no, I have nothing to talk about

No

Anonymous wrote:No, except in terms of dealing with menopause. We have a pretty adventurous sex life which would likely shock my friends as I’m a girl next door type.

I’m a woman and find this comment, which shows up with some frequency, weird. Does everyone really think we’re the same on the street as in the bedroom?

No, except in terms of dealing with menopause. We have a pretty adventurous sex life which would likely shock my friends as I’m a girl next door type.

No

The only thing we've talked about is frequency and once a friend told me her husband wanted her to be more "supportive" and I made a crack about what that specifically meant in explicit terms. That's it.

No, I don’t think guys talk about that past the dating phase.

We talked about it a lot when we were all dating but much less now. My 2 best friends friends know my marriage is sexless and I'm not happy about it but that feels like relationship talk more than sex talk specifically.

No

Like others,I’ll talk in very general terms, especially now that I’m menopausal. I’ll talk about that stuff. I don’t really mention my husband except in vague references to mismatched libidos, but we work it out.

I don’t talk about likes, dislikes, kinks or other specifics. I feel like that is/would be a betrayal.

I did in college. It’s been years.

We will talk vaguely - like my divorced friend was trying to decide when to sleep with her boyfriend or when to let him start spending the night - but not details.

They would be shocked and horrified.

No.