Anonymous
Post 10/05/2025 17:35     Subject: Most attractive features in men / women
Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:Yesterday, my new-ish BF and I took my kids and some of their friends to the mall. At one point, I look back at him, and he’s carrying my shopping bags, the kids’ sodas, some mall pretzels, wearing a stack of those candy necklaces, somehow also managing to hold my 3yo’s hand.

I swear there was an immediate flood in my underwear and I had to restrain myself from just taking him then and there.

Absolutely nothing sexier on this entire planet than a man who is dad material.


New-ish is key. He is still trying to win you. I sincerely hope this isn’t the case for you, but I think a lot of times men are just trying to impress us, and we mistake that for the way they authentically are. Ask me how I know.


I did that stuff all the time and ex wife was not aroused by it at all. She did comment on it with appreciation, when I left her.

Sometimes men do the stuff they think they’re supposed to do to win you. Like zero thought dozen roses and dinner at a fancy place. In case this was you, you should know that doesn’t count as trying.
Anonymous
Post 10/05/2025 17:33     Subject: Most attractive features in men / women
And nothing less sexy than a man or woman who isn’t with their kid’s other bio parent but who brings their dates in to the kid’s life before they’ve left home. This fairy tale ain’t gonna work out for you, sister. And if he’s *super* interested and loving with your young child… watch the F out.
Anonymous
Post 10/05/2025 17:24     Subject: Re:Most attractive features in men / women
Anonymous wrote:I like men with broad shoulders, nice arms and chest. Nice smile. Not too pretty. Don’t mind belly or balding.

Kind but not a beta. Makes me laugh. Chivalrous. Someone who I can imagine being dominant in bed.


I’m
Him
Anonymous
Post 10/05/2025 17:15     Subject: Most attractive features in men / women
Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:Yesterday, my new-ish BF and I took my kids and some of their friends to the mall. At one point, I look back at him, and he’s carrying my shopping bags, the kids’ sodas, some mall pretzels, wearing a stack of those candy necklaces, somehow also managing to hold my 3yo’s hand.

I swear there was an immediate flood in my underwear and I had to restrain myself from just taking him then and there.

Absolutely nothing sexier on this entire planet than a man who is dad material.


You've got your newish boyfriend hanging around your kids and their friends . None of what you mentioned is das material btw. But you're too focused on your panties. Please grow the hell up for the sake of your kids.


Nah, it's fine. We're not making out in front of them or anything. We just do kid stuff then he'll usually cook dinner for everyone.

Plus I find it better to see how a man is with the day-to-day, regular kid stuff before I invest too much time into them. I don't wanna waste 12 months dating a guy for him to realize he actually doesn't like being around kids all that much.

And I know a *ton* of dads who basically moved in new girlfriends right after getting divorced. Nobody gives them crap for having a new girlfriend basically raise their kids. I'm not gonna stress over a mall trip.

Yeah dads moving the new GF in isn't cool either. That you know tons of them tells me you hang around with a low caliber of people

You don't know this man. Bringing him around your children is foolish but you're their mom. I hope the parents of your kids are fine with you bringing them around strange men. I wouldn't be.Holding hands, cooking dinner and wearing candy necklaces is not even the bare minimum for good with kids. Grow up
Anonymous
Post 10/05/2025 16:50     Subject: Most attractive features in men / women
Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:Yesterday, my new-ish BF and I took my kids and some of their friends to the mall. At one point, I look back at him, and he’s carrying my shopping bags, the kids’ sodas, some mall pretzels, wearing a stack of those candy necklaces, somehow also managing to hold my 3yo’s hand.

I swear there was an immediate flood in my underwear and I had to restrain myself from just taking him then and there.

Absolutely nothing sexier on this entire planet than a man who is dad material.


New-ish is key. He is still trying to win you. I sincerely hope this isn’t the case for you, but I think a lot of times men are just trying to impress us, and we mistake that for the way they authentically are. Ask me how I know.


I did that stuff all the time and ex wife was not aroused by it at all. She did comment on it with appreciation, when I left her.
Anonymous
Post 10/05/2025 14:18     Subject: Re:Most attractive features in men / women
I could never date a woman without a nice butt. No bigger turn off than a flat butt in a basic outfit like jeans.
Anonymous
Post 10/05/2025 14:09     Subject: Most attractive features in men / women
Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:Yesterday, my new-ish BF and I took my kids and some of their friends to the mall. At one point, I look back at him, and he’s carrying my shopping bags, the kids’ sodas, some mall pretzels, wearing a stack of those candy necklaces, somehow also managing to hold my 3yo’s hand.

I swear there was an immediate flood in my underwear and I had to restrain myself from just taking him then and there.

Absolutely nothing sexier on this entire planet than a man who is dad material.


New-ish is key. He is still trying to win you. I sincerely hope this isn’t the case for you, but I think a lot of times men are just trying to impress us, and we mistake that for the way they authentically are. Ask me how I know.


No need to ask you; I can already tell your motive: you absolutely HATE other women’s successful relationships and you come here to try to ruin every single one.

I know you., I recognize your writing-style. You are part of DCUM’s “coven of bitter divorcées.” Your MO is always the same: spew negativity and urge women to divorce / break up.

Why can’t you just leave other women alone?!??
Anonymous
Post 10/05/2025 13:39     Subject: Most attractive features in men / women
Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:Yesterday, my new-ish BF and I took my kids and some of their friends to the mall. At one point, I look back at him, and he’s carrying my shopping bags, the kids’ sodas, some mall pretzels, wearing a stack of those candy necklaces, somehow also managing to hold my 3yo’s hand.

I swear there was an immediate flood in my underwear and I had to restrain myself from just taking him then and there.

Absolutely nothing sexier on this entire planet than a man who is dad material.


You've got your newish boyfriend hanging around your kids and their friends . None of what you mentioned is das material btw. But you're too focused on your panties. Please grow the hell up for the sake of your kids.


Nah, it's fine. We're not making out in front of them or anything. We just do kid stuff then he'll usually cook dinner for everyone.

Plus I find it better to see how a man is with the day-to-day, regular kid stuff before I invest too much time into them. I don't wanna waste 12 months dating a guy for him to realize he actually doesn't like being around kids all that much.

And I know a *ton* of dads who basically moved in new girlfriends right after getting divorced. Nobody gives them crap for having a new girlfriend basically raise their kids. I'm not gonna stress over a mall trip.
Anonymous
Post 10/05/2025 13:11     Subject: Most attractive features in men / women
Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:Yesterday, my new-ish BF and I took my kids and some of their friends to the mall. At one point, I look back at him, and he’s carrying my shopping bags, the kids’ sodas, some mall pretzels, wearing a stack of those candy necklaces, somehow also managing to hold my 3yo’s hand.

I swear there was an immediate flood in my underwear and I had to restrain myself from just taking him then and there.

Absolutely nothing sexier on this entire planet than a man who is dad material.


New-ish is key. He is still trying to win you. I sincerely hope this isn’t the case for you, but I think a lot of times men are just trying to impress us, and we mistake that for the way they authentically are. Ask me how I know.


Doesn't everybody do that? Women put WAY more effort into looking good on a first date than they do 6 months down the road.
Anonymous
Post 10/05/2025 12:14     Subject: Most attractive features in men / women
Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:Yesterday, my new-ish BF and I took my kids and some of their friends to the mall. At one point, I look back at him, and he’s carrying my shopping bags, the kids’ sodas, some mall pretzels, wearing a stack of those candy necklaces, somehow also managing to hold my 3yo’s hand.

I swear there was an immediate flood in my underwear and I had to restrain myself from just taking him then and there.

Absolutely nothing sexier on this entire planet than a man who is dad material.


New-ish is key. He is still trying to win you. I sincerely hope this isn’t the case for you, but I think a lot of times men are just trying to impress us, and we mistake that for the way they authentically are. Ask me how I know.


I don’t think it’s as conniving as you suggest. When a relationship is new, we want to be around that person because whatever they are doing is the most interesting. But that naturally fades - I mean most parents aren’t excited about taking their own 3 year old to the mall!
Anonymous
Post 10/05/2025 12:12     Subject: Most attractive features in men / women
Anonymous wrote:Yesterday, my new-ish BF and I took my kids and some of their friends to the mall. At one point, I look back at him, and he’s carrying my shopping bags, the kids’ sodas, some mall pretzels, wearing a stack of those candy necklaces, somehow also managing to hold my 3yo’s hand.

I swear there was an immediate flood in my underwear and I had to restrain myself from just taking him then and there.

Absolutely nothing sexier on this entire planet than a man who is dad material.


You've got your newish boyfriend hanging around your kids and their friends . None of what you mentioned is das material btw. But you're too focused on your panties. Please grow the hell up for the sake of your kids.
Anonymous
Post 10/05/2025 11:37     Subject: Most attractive features in men / women
Anonymous wrote:Yesterday, my new-ish BF and I took my kids and some of their friends to the mall. At one point, I look back at him, and he’s carrying my shopping bags, the kids’ sodas, some mall pretzels, wearing a stack of those candy necklaces, somehow also managing to hold my 3yo’s hand.

I swear there was an immediate flood in my underwear and I had to restrain myself from just taking him then and there.

Absolutely nothing sexier on this entire planet than a man who is dad material.


New-ish is key. He is still trying to win you. I sincerely hope this isn’t the case for you, but I think a lot of times men are just trying to impress us, and we mistake that for the way they authentically are. Ask me how I know.
Anonymous
Post 10/05/2025 11:11     Subject: Most attractive features in men / women
Curvy and that gets juicy. Nice legs. Nice Smile.
Anonymous
Post 10/05/2025 10:24     Subject: Most attractive features in men / women
A woman that can sit across a table for 2, and take part in an enjoyable conversation… means interesting, and can tease/ be edgy, wo being rude.

Loyalty / committed is the hands down number one.

In great shape to the best of their ability. For women, it means more strength training ( which is work).

The eyes tell all.


Anonymous
Post 10/05/2025 10:21     Subject: Most attractive features in men / women
Yesterday, my new-ish BF and I took my kids and some of their friends to the mall. At one point, I look back at him, and he’s carrying my shopping bags, the kids’ sodas, some mall pretzels, wearing a stack of those candy necklaces, somehow also managing to hold my 3yo’s hand.

I swear there was an immediate flood in my underwear and I had to restrain myself from just taking him then and there.

Absolutely nothing sexier on this entire planet than a man who is dad material.